Apologies first off for the death of posts of late. Work is super busy and stressful at the moment and both Owner and i have been otherwise preoccupied since we returned from our trip to the USA and there hasn't been much to write about (incidentally there are some more pictures from that trip below). We went to Spain for a long weekend to visit Owners' parents and also celebrate Her birthday, which was fun and this weekend i am taking Her to Dusseldorf on a belated birthday weekend break. But apart from that we haven't been doing much accept working long hours and yearning for the days when we were both a bit more relaxed and less stressed with life. Hopefully we will get back there again soon though.

We did, however, have an enjoyable day out yesterday. We visited the Photographers Gallery in London to see an excellent and fascinating exhibition about cross-dressing in the late 19th and first half of the 20th century. It was really, really interesting and is well worth visiting if you are in London. Particularly fascinating to me was the tradition of women's cross-dressing in the first US Universities to admit female students where it was commonplace for the students to dress-up for 'practice weddings'.

Anyway, after this we decided we would head to one of our favourite London pubs to indulge in one of our favourite activities, people watching. Owner and i can both spend hours observing and gossipping about others. The first pub we went to was unusually busy so we de-camped to another. There was a largish mixed group in the room and we settled down to drink and observe. Anyway, to cut a long story short (and at least an hour's guessing before we realised) it was apparent that we had sat down amongst a group of people out to attend one of London's many munches. This was a singles munch. We both found it amusing that we were a, now legally married, FLR/BDSM couple sat amongst a group of people looking for the same sort of relationship we have enjoyed for well over a decade now. It made me reflect how lucky i am to have met Owner all those years ago.

I got a number of curious looks from those attending (we were sat apart from the main group) as my collar (which i wear 24/7) always makes it obvious to anyone who is aware that i am submissive and Owned. However, that was all. Owner and i have never actually attended a munch but it was interesting to observe one and i hope that those who were there find themselves as lucky as i have been.

Last but not least, i promised some more pictures from our brief US road trip, so here you go.

overlooking Phoenix
Monument Valley
Owner looking out over the Grand Canyon
Mailboxes off Route 66
More Grand Canyon
Hope this finds all our readers well and sorry for the recent absence of posts, all is good with us.
Well i can now reveal the exciting new that i have been alluding to over the past few months. Owner and i are now legally married as wife (me) and Husband (Her). We recently returned from a week long whirlwind trip to the USA which ended in Las Vegas and the two of us getting officially hitched next to the 'Welcome to Fabulous Las Vegas' sign - see images from the ceremony below:

receiving my ring
with the wedding bouquet
We are now officially married. We did all the necessary paperwork at the Clark county registry office the night before and then for the ceremony itself we used the services of the wonderful Las Vegas Wedding Wagon - an LGBTQ friendly service where you tell them where you want to get hitched (location-wise) and they turn up and do the service for you. It is actually run by a lovely English couple who couldn't have been nicer or put Owner and i more at ease - we were both pretty nervous. The Minister even referred to me as the 'wife' and to Owner as the 'Husband' throughout the ceremony.

Of course i had on my collar too (and a fancy pink feather hairclip).
i also wore a blue garter with my stockings but you cannot see that!

We couldn't be happier!

Many of you will recall that we were both 'married' a few years ago but that was a non-legal service. This is fully legal and we are now officially married.

i will post more about our trip shortly, it was amazing! But in the meantime i wanted our readers to know of our exciting news.
Today is the day i turned 48 years old. To mark the occasion Owner is taking me away to France this weekend but She had a special, and unexpected, surprise in store for me today. i was working from home today and shortly after i returned home from having walked her to the station this morning, for Her to catch Her train, i received the following Whatsapp message from Owner.

'Birthday challenge: you must spank your testicles 48 tines, wear your butt plug for 48 minutes and take a picture of yourself outside with a sign reading: i am a 48 year old slut'

Owner knows how much i love challenges like these and this was a real treat to receive. i was really thrilled and excited at the prospect and resolved to complete the challenges as soon as i had got ready for work. It being a home working day i was wearing hold-ups, a skirt and blouse.

The following are some of the photos i sent to Owner by way of providing proof that i had completed the tasks i was set.

First off, testicle spanking x 48 with our favourite wooden spoon

Next step, butt plug selection and insertion (to be worn for 48 minutes) - as you can see i opted for the furry one
 The plug tail was still visible when i pulled my skirt down
can you spot my 'tail'
And then finally, out into the street with my sign around my neck
No tail in view but the plug was still there

It was a very exciting way to start the day!
Owner has bought Herself a new little camera in preparation for a forthcoming trip of ours. She bought it yesterday and today asked if She could do a photo shoot of me in the park to test it. i, of course, leapt at the opportunity! So, after doing some exercises and baking this morning (lemon and blueberry bread) and making lunch for us both we set off to our local park to take some pictures. Here are a selection:
in the kitchen just before heading out
posing in the park
love my hood

wearing one of my new bras underneath my top
This coming weekend we are going to France for my birthday (48!) which we are both really looking forward to. However, next month we are heading to the USA for a super special trip - this is the exciting event i have been alluding to in a few recent posts. There is so much i want to tell you about that trip but i am afraid i am going to keep you in suspense a little longer.
Just a quick little post to wish everyone a belated (very) happy new year and that all of your dreams for 2018 come true. Owner and i had a relatively quiet time over the holidays. We were apart for Xmas with our respective families but then were reunited again shortly afterwards. On New Years eve we went to a pub we have recently discovered near Holborn in Central London and which we both like after having earlier hit the shops. But we were home in time for me to cook a roast dinner for us both and were in bed before midnight.

i got some vouchers for Xmas from my Dad which, with Owners permission, i used to invest in some fancy new knickers. We both like them a lot and you can see them (and my bum) below

i also have been wanting to get a new blazer to wear for work for some time now. Owner permitted me to buy one but it took ages to find a single breasted, non-fitted woman's blazer that might be appropriate. Seemingly double-breasted is all the fashion this year but i wanted a single-breasted. Anyway, after much searching on line by us both i eventually tracked down this one in Very It arrived super quick (the next day!) and we both really like it. You can see me modelling it below
Owner has also got me a special treat for my birthday (later this month). She has booked us a trip to Lille in France for a weekend which we are both looking forward to. Then the following month we are doing something super exciting which i can't wait to tell you all about - but not yet :)

Have a wonderful 2018!
Yesterday Owner and i went to the theatre to watch the production of Venus in Fur starring David Oakes and Natalie Dormer [of Game of Thrones fame]. Although the production had received some mixed reviews we both thoroughly enjoyed it and it received a deserved standing ovation at curtain call.

What made the experience all the more enjoyable was that Owner had instructed me to wear a corset, hold-ups and be pantyless for the show, and subsequent pub drinks and restaurant meal. In fact the whole day was one huge treat and Owner and i thoroughly enjoyed ourselves. i also wore my padded bra the whole time. You can see what i looked like below:

in the theatre
showing a little bit of cleavage
the beautiful interior of the Theatre Royal Haymarket
Natalie Dormer spent much of her performance in stockings, suspenders and a basque and i spent much of the time thinking what fun it would be to be similarly attired in front of a live audience, but then i have always been something of an exhibitionist!

The corset ended up being on for over six hours before i eventually had to remove it (with Owners permission and insistence) during the meal in the restaurant. It is a steel boned under bust one which i had tightly laced, but tight lacing and beef medallions do not mix.

The treats continued this morning with Owner sitting on my face and riding my tongue for Her pleasure, having already had fun with Her vibrator, until She came. However, this time, and unusually, as She rode my mouth She also instructed me to masturbate to orgasm. It has been over a month since i last came and i did so copiously.

Then to top things off when i walked into the kitchen to start making breakfast i saw that it was snowing outside, winter is coming!
i had to attend a conference for work this week which meant that i was away from Owner overnight. Neither of us like to be separated from each other like this and it happens only vary rarely, usually around Christmas time when we visit our respective relatives. Luckily it was only for one night and we were soon back together again. i tried to do a bit more of the household cleaning just before i left so that there would be less to catch-up on when i returned.

Yesterday saw us both enjoying a day at home in the morning. Owner caught up with some TV and eased Herself into the weekend and even prepared our lunch for us whilst i went to the shops to complete some chores after doing my morning exercises. After lunch i did some cleaning and Owner rewarded me with a glass of Her delicious urine that was full almost to overflowing. i do so love the taste of Her pee and it made for a lovely treat.

Cleaning completed we then headed out to a pub near to where we live that we have never previously visited. i think you can see from the picture below that i had a good time

We are now a two-tier punishment household. In our lounge there is a pot that Owner received as a gift and which, for quite some time, sat unused on the kitchen windowsill. It now has a new lease of life in our lounge as the 'instant punishment pot'. It contains about 20 or so hand written punishment cards each of which contains a single instant punishment. They are varied but comprise punishments such as being spanked X number of times, standing in a corner for X period, having X number of clamps attached for X period of time etc, etc. In short, short sharp punishments for minor misdemeanours on my part.

Owner recently also decided that a condition of me being permitted to sit and watch TV with Her in the evening (when i could instead be doing something useful) is that i need to ocassionally also pick and complete an instant punishment card. It is not that Owner does not enjoy having me watch TV  with Her, it is just a recognition that this is a treat for me and that i should thus be punished for the privilege. Last night, for example, i drew a card that required me to stand with my hands on my head facing the wall for 20 minutes. The other night the card i picked that required that my clit be decorated with 10 clamps for 20 minutes, as you can see below
Owner has now also introduced a second tier of punishments for those situations when i really annoy Her or piss Her off, which unfortunately can and does sometimes happen - most commonly when She finds some food that has expired that i have not dealt with. Well these punishments are different from the 'instant' ones. They have now been placed into a bag that hangs from our fridge and when/if (and sadly it will be a case of when) i have to complete one i will have to draw it at random from the bag. The list consists of 6 different punishments:
- recycle an item of my clothing
- give £20 from my monthly allowance to Owner (my allowance is £100 a month so that would make quite a dent)
- wear no make-up for a week (i wear make-up daily)
- wear no jewelry for a week (i do like my bling)
- wear men's underwear for a week (the horror - actually this would require me to buy some as i only have one emergency pair for use when i go to the doctors all the rest of my knickers are just that, pretty knickers)
- no alcoholic drinks for a month (i drink much less than i once did -now perhaps once/twice a month now that Owner decides whether i can drink or not)

More generally i am pleased to report that i have been getting back into my old groove the past few weeks and hopefully i am back to being the housewife/sub that Owner both desires and deserves. There is still a lot of shit going on here in the UK and the world at large but i am trying to just focus on my role as Owners submissive slut and to be less distracted or obsessed by politics and the news. i am still political but i had got the balance wrong and was not focussing enough on Owner or my submission to Her. i feel much happier in myself to being back doing the things Owner expects and deserves to get from me.

i leave you with a gratuitous shot taken today by Owner of me cleaning our kitchen (and yes i am always without panties at the end of the day :) )
Owner expects me to be many things for Her, a domestic diva, a sex kitten, a submissive pet and a multi-tasking ninja. She also expects me to behave and act like slut and whore whenever She requests and to fulfil such requests without question. Over the years She has had me complete a variety of different challenges to demonstrate both my submission to Her and to highlight my readiness to do whatever She asks, no matter how humiliating. It would seem She has decided She has been too easy on me to date and that She wants to push me harder.

Yesterday i suggested to Owner that maybe i could complete a challenge of some description. She quickly and rightly upbraided me by reminding me that it was not my place to suggest things to Her and that my suggesting a challenge automatically makes it non-challenging as i would already be mentally prepared for to complete something. The subject was dropped and i thought no more of it. Owner clearly had though.

Today i was working from home whereas She was in Her office. It wasn't long after i had returned from walking Her to the train station and i had changed into my regulation home working attire (skirt, blouse, stockings etc) that i received a message from Her. The message instructed me to plug my pussy from 10am-12pm. This obviously excited me greatly but there was more, much more to come.

Over a series of follow-up messages Owner instructed me to make a sign stating that my pussy was plugged, put on a jacket but be still be wearing my skirt and stockings etc, pin the sign to the jacket (ensuring the writing was legible), go out into the street outside our flat and take a selfie of myself with the sign clearly visible and send it to Her. The request left me very excited and nervous, for two reasons. First, our street is not the world's quietest. It's on a bus route, there are often people walking along. Second, i also knew that our downstairs neighbours were at home and i had already heard then come in and out of our communal entrance a few times. It would be pot luck whether or not i bumped into them wearing my sign or equally if there would be anyone in the street or passing in a bus etc that might see me.

It was a wonderful challenge to be set. To add a further layer of challenge. i had a morning of teleconferences so i knew that i would have to complete the challenge whilst also on a conference call. Thankfully the wonder of mobile phones made that possible.

Anyway, below are a couple of pictures i took of my challenge. The first shot i took i realised my arm wasn't long enough for the selfie to show i was wearing my skirt, as was part of Owners requirement. i then had to put the camera of the phone on the timer and balance the phone on a neighbours wall to take the second shot. i think you can tell from my face that i was a little apprehensive! :)

where i realise i need longer arms to show my skirt
note the headphones for my teleconference - how nervous am i?
Luckily no buses passed and our downstairs neighbours didn't come outside, but there were people about in the street.

When She set me this challenge Owner also wrote that 'challenges will change from now on'. She seemed pleased with the results i sent Her and i sense such challenges will become more difficult, or 'challenging' (ha, ha!) in future. Though i was apprehensive about completing the challenge it was a real thrill to do. After all at heart i am an exhibitionist slut. Thank you Owner.
Today has been a wonderfully relaxed day at home with Owner. i painted Her toenails and She painted mine, She helped me to choose a dress and heels for a special occasion (more about that in the future). Owner also made popcorn for us both before we sat down to watch a classic femme fatale movie together Bodyheat - which explains the popcorn i later found down my bra! It has been a lovely day.

Meanwhile, Owner has also been putting the new regime, of me having to pick a 'punishment' card at random for a jar in return for being permitted to watch TV with Her, into action. In addition to having to stand facing the wall with my nipples clamped for 20 minutes, and having 10 mini wooden and metal clothes pegs attached to my clitty, i have also enjoyed having my testicles spanked hard ten times by Her with a wooden spoon and had to lie across Her knees for a good old fashioned bare bottom spanking. Move over TV dinners hello TV challenges!
pink cheeks from my over the knee spanking