A Field Guide to Peeing in Chastity

A bit of a divergence from my usual posts this one, this is aimed at anyone who is new to or considering being locked in chastity for longer than an hour or two. 

What follows is based on over fifteen years of lived experience of being locked in chastity 24/7 for much of the time. It deals with the question of how to urinate in chastity and also offers some practical suggestions that i have found useful in my own life. Feel free to add any additional suggestions in the comments. Anyway, here goes.

Great! You have taken the decision, or have had the decision taken for you, that your penis is going to be locked into chastity for longer than just a quick role-play session. This means that, inevitably, you are going to need to pee whilst locked up. What follows may seem obvious but they may not be to a newcomer to the thrilling world of male chastity.

• You will need to sit down to pee. This in itself is, in my opinion, a good enough reason in its own right to require all men be placed in chastity. I mean, the state of most men's toilets/urinals is frankly disgusting as men seem incapable of 'hitting their mark'. Being locked in a device means you will need to sit down to pee.

sitting down to pee

• You will need access to toilet roll/tissues - especially if you have a very small cage (tip - these are actually the most comfortable ones to wear) - when you pee. Most men simply shake their cock and then stuff it back into their underwear when peeing standing up. You can still 'shake dry' when locked and sitting down. However, some pee will also wet the end of your cage. If you are wearing a flatter/nearly flat cage you will also find that some pee may take a few more seconds to make its way out of your body as it tries to pass through your permanently compressed penis. So my tip is always a) wait 30 seconds after you have finished to ensure all the liquid has come out and b) always carry a pack of tissues with you to dry your cage off - it's really frustrating to get to a cubicle only to find there is no toilet roll, this happens a lot.

drying off with toilet paper post-pee

• Being in chastity will show you how sexist the design of toilets are in most buildings. Women have to sit down to pee whereas most men pee standing up. However, women's toilets typically have hardly anymore cubicles in them than do men's - meaning women all too often end up having to queue to pee. Being in chastity means you too will get to experience the frustration of waiting for a cubicle to come free with no other way of passing the time other than watching a procession of men piss in the urinal whilst you stand and wait, and wait, and wait.

• Remove and clean your device regularly as any urine that gets trapped in it will quickly become stale and stinky! Shower heads are great for blasting water and soap through your device each day whilst you stay locked. However, you will also need to take it off for regular cleaning - forget the fantasy of locking it on and throwing away the key, it will need to periodically come off unless you have no desire for any human contact as all will avoid you due to the smell. Unlock the device (ideally under supervision) and clean. This is also a good opportunity to scrub and clean your penis. i use a nail brush for both (avoids accidental arousal) whilst Owner looks on. It is also a good opportunity to shave. Top tip is that plastic devices will eventually pick up the smell of urine, metal ones will not, so will need replacing every 2-3 years or so. i also have a little, pink (obviously) douche that Owner got me that i use to flush my clit and cage after each pee by squirting a jet of soapy water into it

my little, pink, re-fillable douche

• Night time erections whilst caged can make peeing at the same time difficult/impossible -contrary to popular belief chastity cages do not fully prevent erections, you still get them, it is just they are mostly kept inside your body (your penis can expand internally as well as externally). You will definitely still experience the phenomenon of night-time/early morning erections. The contents of your cage will become swollen, but not painfully so. If it is painful then it is likely that the base ring of your cage is too small, go up a size. However, it does mean that peeing whilst swollen like that is difficult or may even be impossible. Be patient, your erection will subside and you will be able to empty your bladder.

• Regulate your flow - if you are wearing a cage and you try to blast out a stream of pee the chances are that it will back up (as it can't escape your cage fast enough - unless a true cage design) and you'll end up with pee squirting out the top of your cage onto the toilet or, even worse, splashing into your knickers or on your skirt/blouse. Use your muscles to direct a controlled and steady stream of urine that goes where you want it to go, avoiding splash backs and oddly damp clothing.

A note on urethral tubes 

Some, especially small or flat cages come with added urethral tubes (in either plastic or metal) to insert in the head of your penis to facilitate easier urination - avoiding the possibility of trapped pee that i referred to in point 2 above. Personally, i have never worn and so have no experience of these tubes (and my cage is no deeper than a finger nail). Others report that using them can carry a risk of bladder infections (which can become quite serious) unless they are cleaned very regularly, but if good hygiene practice is employed i have been told by people who do use them that they are quick to get used to and do make peeing in flat cages easier.

And that's it. Good luck if you are just setting out on a chastity journey. i for one am amazed how natural being locked came to feel for me, i hope that it will be for you too.

For regular readers normal posting will resume, i just wanted to post something a little more practical that i hope some may find useful.

Top Tips for the Micro (Caged) Clit

So you are thinking of investing in a micro chastity device? Congratulations! There is nothing quite like the sight of nothing other than your swollen labia (testicles) between your legs with what you once tried to pass off as a penis now almost totally invisible to the naked eye. Yes, micro chastity devices really can make a penis vanish. You are no longer really a man. What you are who knows, but a real man? No. That is not to say that you don't have other male traits and characteristics, just that you no longer have anything that resembles a penis. Rather, you have become a person with a micro clit and a pair of labia that just cry out to be beaten and spanked. Welcome to your new reality.

It is quite possible that your first ever chastity device was a micro one, if so well done you. If, like me, you will be wearing it 24/7 for days,weeks, months even on end then you are in for a bit of a shock and a lot of adjustment, err down there. More likely you started with something bigger to try chastity out but then the itch to go smaller struck and well, you ended up down the rabbit hole. i myself started with a CB300 (far too big) and then, about six or seven devices later, ended up with a 3-D printed Cherry Keeper 'stub' size device before biting the micro-sized bullet with the Cobra Micro. That was back at the start of February 2023 and i have been wearing it 24/7 ever since.

Both devices are small. The cherry keeper had a cage that was a whopping 16.7mm deep whereas the cage of the cobra is a mere 13mm deep. That means your penis is confined to a space only just over 1cm deep. For context my thumbnail is 2cm deep. It means that your clit really, truly does become invisible. However, that extra 3.7mm size difference between the stub and the micro devices also plays out in a number of other ways which make wearing the Cobra micro device a very different experience from the Cherry Keeper stub.

The Art of Peeing in a Small Chastity Device

First off, peeing. Now, anyone who wears a chastity device of any size will immediately come to realise that you really do need to pee sitting down.  Personally, i think all men should pee sitting down anyway. A visit to any men's urinals will show you what lousy aim pretty much all men have and how messy they leave things. Yuck! Far better, in my view, to make them all sit and pee direct into a toilet (as is actually commonplace in some cultures even amongst uncaged men), which is what being in pretty much any form of chastity device requires. i have grown so accustomed to being in chastity that even on the rare occasions i am unlocked, i still sit down to pee.

Anyway, with small devices like both the stub and the micro you not only need to piss sitting down, you also need to ensure you are in no hurry to get back up again when you are done. You also need to ensure that you have some toilet roll or tissue paper to hand whenever you go to the toilet. This is because, confined inside a really small cage, your penis/clit will be somewhat compressed. That in turn means that your uretha is too. There is, therefore, the likelihood that urine will still be trapped somewhere in your slightly scrunched up urethal tube when you have stopped peeing. Because the tube is scrunched up you cannot guarantee that gravity alone will ensure all of your pee will find its way out. You have to help. Being caged you will need to focus more on contracting your bladder muscles to expel any remaining liquid out as well as angling your cage down and 'wiggling' (technical term 😀) it about  to ensure it is empty. Even then there may still be liquid inside your clit that has not yet dripped into the lavatory. That is where the toilet paper/tissues come in. After you have remained seated a bit longer whilst trying to expel the last of the liquid have a wad of paper/tissue in your hand when you stand back up. Chances are there will still be a little dribble of pee that needs mopping up before you are safe to pull your knickers up and exit the lavatory.

Peeing in a Micro Chastity Device

However, with a micro device another issue may arise, in fact it is almost guaranteed to. If you have a foreskin you will inevitably find with a micro cage that your foreskin, or bits of it, end up protruding through the end of your tiny cage if it is one the cage bars. For me this only happened with the micro device although i have seen images of others where it was also true when wearing bigger chastity devices. i presume their penis was naturally bigger than mine, which is naturally small. For me this it did not happen with the stub length cage, just with the micro cage. 

When this happens it can create quite an interesting visual affect. Your foreskin pokes through, almost like the petals of a flower just as they start to unfurl from the bud. It can look something like this

micro caged clit with foreskin protruding

closer view showing foreskin protruding from the tip

Having your foreskin protrude like this from a  micro device is super beneficial as it helps to anchor the device in situ when aroused (see later). However, it also creates a minor problem (in my experience) when peeing. If too much foreskin is protruding a combination of the bunched up foreskin and the bars of the cage create a kind of seal - imagine the tied end of a balloon with your foreskin being the bit of the balloon that is tied.

In a situation like this when you sit down to pee you bladder starts to empty but there is nowhere for the urine to go as the folds of foreskin effectively create a seal preventing the liquid escaping. Instead, what it does is leaks out of your penis/clit and fills any foreskin still inside the cage with liquid, creating a kind of miniature-reservoir/dam. Your bladder may feel a little less full but the liquid hasn't gone far at all, rather it is trapped in the elastic dam of your foreskin, held in check by the folds of foreskin protruding from the cage.

Were you to now stand up and pull your knickers up you are seconds away from disaster. The urine trapped in your foreskin will burst free at some point. This might not happen immediately, but happen it will. When it does it will soak your panties and wet the floor. i know as it once happened to me when i was not paying attention. Luckily, i was at home and not at work or visiting a restaurant etc. Soaked knickers and trousers/skirts re not always the best of looks! 

To avoid this what you need to do whenever you go to have a wee is pull some of the foreskin back into the cage with your fingers, if some is protruding, so that an opening forms allowing your pee to escape in the usual fashion. You can then mop up with your pad of tissue/toilet paper, pull-up your panties and be on your way. 'Problem' sorted.

Erections in a Micro Device

Contrary to what some people may think, being locked in a tiny chastity device does not prevent erections. Instead, erections are still attempted but are constrained, to a greater or lesser extent depending on the depth of the cage. Some have more space than others for your clit to expand into. 

What tended to happen with my Cherry Keeper stub device was that erections were half-hearted affairs. My clit was physically unable to extend outwards by more the 16.7mm depth of the stub's cage. This meant that my clit remained firmly trapped inside the the cage, unable to expand outwards and so instead it sort of retreated internally, pushing back into kind of reverse erection with the bulk of the 'length' inside my body, if that makes sense?

The situation with the micro cage is a little different. Because the micro cage is 3.7mm less deep it is that much easier for a determined clit to force its way past it in its daily dawn attempt to achieve a morning 'hard-on' which after all is a perfectly normal daily occurrence for anyone born with a penis, whether we like it or not. The stub device was sufficiently deep to be able to contain these morning thrusts for freedom but with the micro device a little extra help is needed to stop the head of your clit being able to escape by literally pushing the cage to one side whilst you sleep.

First off, in my experience you need a slightly tighter base ring than with a bigger cage so that there is less opportunity for your excitable clit to try and successfully bully its way to freedom. A smaller base ring on the device (i wear the smallest possible) helps to hold everything snuggly and securely in place meaning that there is less 'give' in the device which in turn makes it more difficult for your clit to force an escape. More difficult, but not impossible.

What really seems to be critical to ensuring that your clit stays in inside a micro cage, unable to force it way free, is whether or not the end of your foreskin is also trapped inside the cage rather than sitting outside the cage.  Ideally you want to have some of your foreskin poking through the end to anchor your cage in place - albeit note the slight peeing issue this can create (see previous). If any of your foreskin is protruding out from the side of the cage then, come the onset of early morning wood, it will become the pathfinder that the rest of your clit will follow, ending up with your clit poking free. 

This happened to me one morning shortly after i first got the micro device. When it happened i just lay there, totally puzzled by the strange and unusual sensation i could feel between my legs. It took a few minutes for me to realise that what i could feel was my own, unconfined erection, so unaccustomed had i become to physically experiencing one. But it was true, three inches of flesh was protruding from the side of my micro chastity cage. At the time i was able to hastily shove everything back int place and within minutes my clit had shrunk back to its usual, well clit-like, size. But it was a shock, seeing and feeling something i had not experienced for a long time. i was determined not to let it happen again.

To cut a long story short. if you keep your foreskin so that some of it protrudes a little from the end of your cage when your clit then tries to stiffen early in the morning as, i repeat, all clit's do,  the protruding flesh serves to anchor everything securely in place. Your clit may swell but it will remain trapped in situ within the micro cage and you can rest easy knowing that your clit is safely trapped out of sight behind bars, where it belongs. It won't be making any surprise, impromptu appearances.

So there it is, that has been my experience of the difference between wearing a stub-sized and a micro-sized chastity device. Has anyone experienced something similar, had different experiences? i would be interested to hear.