Drinks With Owner

It has been another busy working week for Owner and i but i am pleased to report that i have kept on top of all my chores and have faithfully documented my slip-ups and misdemeanours in my punishment log. This has been passed to Owner for Her judgement. i am determined not to let myself slip backwards again in my performance and behaviour.

For anyone interested my misdemeanours this week consisted of:

• forgetting to put water and snacks next to Owners desk for Her at the start of Her working day (at home) on Monday
• forgetting to place Owners reading glasses into Her office bag the day She worked from Her office (mercifully She checked before leaving the house so did not go to work without them)
• giving Owner yoghurt for breakfast instead of toast on Thursday when She had specifically asked for the latter the night before
• annoying Owner on Friday with the number of vegetables i had ordered with the supermarket delivery 

There were far too many such mistakes made and i am not proud of myself for having made them. Owner would be fully justified punishing me for each and everyone one of the above. 

Yesterday Owner took me out into town for drinks and food. We had a lovely time out together. It was the pride parade here in London so the city was full of a delightful and colourful melee of queers out being themselves. We, however, walked to another part of town to visit a little urban wildlife oasis next to the hustle and bustle of Kings Cross station. It is called Camley Street Natural Park and is well worth a visit. Afterwards we headed for drinks.

Sitting chatting, enjoying each others company, people watching and gossiping about the people around us is one of Owner and my favourite past-times. She is great company and we had a lovely time together. Here i am, drink in hand

wearing my big hoop earrings

Incidentally, the pin-badge i am wearing on my t-shirt is one Owner bought for me a few years ago and says 'wifey for lifey' - a legend that would also make for a great tattoo!

 

Whilst we were out Owner and i also had a good chat about my performance, the factors that had affected it recently and how we are both keen that i get back on track. We also discussed diet and exercise regimens and areas for change and improvement with respect to these.

 

Owner has, however, decreed that today will be a quiet day. After completing this blog draft and submitting it to Her for approval (She checks and vets every post pre-publication) i will then do my daily Spanish study, a bit of exercise and housework and then settle down with Owner to watch a movie together. Depending on how She feels there may or may not be a punishment or two delivered.

 

At some point in the day i will have my weekly supervised shower, in which my chastity device is briefly removed for clitty and device deep cleaning with a nail brush. My clit will also be shaved smooth before it is locked back up. i have been wearing the new black device 24/7 for just under a week now and so far, so good. 

 

i hope all is well with my readers and you are also having enjoyable weekends? 

Happy Pride

Hello lovelies. i hope that this finds you well? It is Pride weekend here in London. Owner and i did not attend the parade but, as always, we were there in spirit. i am lucky in that i get to live my life and express myself as my true (admittedly unashamedly slutty) self. Many are not able to or feel reluctant to do so because of what might happen to them. To be gay, queer, trans, bisexual, non-binary, a cross-dresser or any other spectrum of the beautiful rainbow can result in death, jail, assault, abuse, intolerance and isolation in far too many places. Even in my own country, the UK, people can be and are attacked for simply being who they are, loving who they do and presenting themselves as their true selves.

Dive back into history and you will find societies and cultures that celebrated and embraced diversity in their ranks. Sadly, a combination of religious dogma and the patriarchy refused to accept, let alone celebrate, such differences. Instead they chose to punish anyone that was different to themselves, which also typically included all women as well as people whose sexuality or gender identity did not conform to such newly imposed societal 'norms' and hierarchies.

Thankfully, increasing numbers of society, especially the young are choosing to say 'screw all that'. They together with those brave activists who have long campaigned, championed and advocated for their rights and/or the rights of others, have helped bring us to the present day. A time where diversity is starting to slowly, gradually, be once again be recognised and celebrated for what it is. A day where women are starting to enjoy equal rights where people of all different sexualities and genders can publicly celebrate the variety of human love, identity and expression in all its many beautiful forms.

i am someone who is uncomfortable with the notion of labels, i am me, i am unique. But, i also know myself to still be quite different to the societal 'norm' and very, very different to most 'men'. Owner and i live a relationship that is just as loving as anyone else's (i would argue more so than many). She has always accepted me for who i am and helped me on my own journey to discover my true self.

However, i am fully aware that even in a place as diverse as London with its myriad of cultures and identities there remain others still will be and who and are quick to judge us and our relationship. i also chose to dress and act and in a manner that it true to who i am but which some, a minority, find so challenging they would not hesitate to physically or verbally abuse or assault me. Some countries would imprison me, others still condemn me to death.

So let us celebrate Pride. Celebrate those who are now able to live their true lives and provide solidarity for those still denied that right. Pride is an opportunity to celebrate people for all that they are. Fabulous, loving and different in so, so many wonderful ways. It is also a time to say thank you to those, like Owner, who love us for the people that we are. So to all you beautiful people, happy Pride month.

In other news, i am delighted to say that Owner is now fully recovered and our life has started to return back to normal, well 'normal' for us :).

Take care and i leave you with a few gratuitous pictures of me being, well me!

Bathroom poppet

My work outfit from earlier this week