My Cunning Plan

Well Owner and i got to road test the Lelo Tor vibrating cock-ring that (that i mentioned in my previous post) last weekend. Owner had suggested that we spend the weekend away in the lovely little city of Lincoln. The city itself was wonderful with an amazing Cathedral and Castle, bustling river/canalside waterfront and medieval centre. It really is worth a visit.

Anyway, back to the cock ring. My theory was that i would be able to wear it around my chastity device and Owner would be able to enjoy its pleasurable vibrations whilst i remained safely locked and denied. Well, that at least was the theory. On a positive note i can happily report that, judging from the expression of focused rapture on Owners face and the noises She made it definitely succeeded in bringing Her a lot of pleasurable enjoyment. Unfortunately, the small tide of cum that trickled down my belly and onto the bed sheets was also testament to the fact that - despite my being locked up - the little vibrating ring had managed to cause a major mishap on my part too. Yes, i leaked all over the place. My theory is that this happened as the vibrating part was positioned so that it rested on top of my testicles. Next time i will re-position it so that it stands proud of any of my bits (though still easily enjoyed by Owner) and see if that is a safer position to ensure Her pleasure but my denial.

Later that morning Owner used the opportunity of a late lie-in to take some photos of me in the hotel modelling my leather spanking skirt.

It was a really enjoyable weekend.

Meanwhile, i am continuing to work on trying to build my butt. Owner has commented of late that it has become both firmer and bouncier. i have added 20lbs ankle weights to my wok-out routines and am increasing the intensity of the butt exercises i do. My aim is to develop a big round bubble butt for Owner to enjoy. It is still a way off but i think some progress is starting to be made.

Chastised Sex Toy

Since the beginning of our Femdom relationship together Owner has always made it clear that only She may initiate any form of sexual activity between us. She also stipulated that any sexual activity that She initiated would be for Her pleasure, enjoyment or amusement alone. These principles have remained in place ever since. Over eight years into our Femdom relationship we have never deviated from these principles. Sex is only ever initiated by Owner and takes place only on Her terms and for Her enjoyment.

i never, in the conventional sense, have sex with Owner.  My 'clitty' (as we both refer to my penis) has not been inside Her for many years. It spends most of its time locked-up in chastity albeit that sometimes Owner stipulates that She wants me unlocked in order to more easily tease or play with it.  Having my clitty locked up this way helps me focus my efforts and energies on satisfying Owners sexual desires and urges rather than my own. Instead of an orgasm, and the brief moment of pleasure it can bring, i am instead rewarded with that delicious, frustrated, intense, aroused, uncomfortable, throbbing ache that chastity and denial bring - a pleasure that lasts for hours and days on end.

Instead my role is either to be molested, abused and fucked by Owner for Her pleasure, or more often, to assist Her to masturbate Herself to orgasm. She has trained me to masturbate Her in the way that brings Her maximum pleasure. She also likes to grind and rub Herself against me as She plays with Herself, humping my legs or my buttocks as She cums. One of Her favourite positions when masturbating Herself is to have my tongue fully buried deep inside Her derriere, smothering me whilst She rides my face to orgasm.

In short, i am Her human sex toy for Her to use as She pleases.

However, we recently had the idea that maybe more use could be made of my chastised clitty by fitting a vibrating cock ring around its metal cage so that Owner could then use it as a mini-vibrator. This would have the potential to even further reinforce my status as Her sex toy and intensify still further the focus on bringing Her sexual pleasure whilst i remain in frustrated (but happy!) denial.

With Owners permission i ordered a beautiful vibrating Lelo Tor 2 cock ring which fits perfectly around the base of the metal cage of my locked clitty. Most cock rings are intended to provide pleasure to the wearer and their partner but in our case the idea is that, though it is perfectly positioned for Owner to pleasure Herself against whenever She might choose, by attaching it around my chastity cage it will not provide any significant degree of stimulation to me. That way, Owner can pleasure Herself against my locked clitty safe in the knowledge that there is little danger that i might become overly aroused by the vibrating cock-ring myself. This is what the device looks like in situ on me

We are hoping that it could be a good way of ensuring that my Owner can utilise my locked clitty for Her pleasure whilst it remains safely and securely denied.