Home Is Wherever Owner Is

It is true that for me i am at my happiest and most relaxed when i am in the company of Owner, wherever we might be. Being at Her side is very much my happy place. Home is wherever She is.

Well, there is now another place that Owner can rightfully call Her home. As regular readers will know Owner is Spanish, hailing from a wonderful part of the North of Spain, the beautiful principality of Asturias. Her family all still live in the coastal city where She is from and each year Her and i travel out at least a couple (if not more) times.  Whenever we do visit we end up staying in Her parents flat, actually in the very room that Owner spent Her childhood in, the room She shared with Her younger sister. Lovely as Her parents are Owner's mum is very much the queen of her own domain and runs her flat according to her own strict set of rules that much always be obeyed. Woe betide the person that transgresses from such rules! She is a strong, assertive woman and quite a force of nature - an admirable trait that she passed onto Her daughter. But it can lead to tension. There is also not a lot of privacy and a constant risk that i will be walked in on by her whilst stood in her daughter's bedroom in my finest knickers or wearing just my chastity cage.  There have been numerous close shaves.

It also means that Owner is not free to dominate or discipline me as She might like to when we are spending time under Her parents/mother's roof. Owner has always said it would be nice to have a place of Her own. Over the years having such a place in Her home town has become increasingly important to Her, somewhere that She can spend time in whenever She wants, see Her friends, relax etc. She also wants a place where, in Her own words, She can 'install me'. Essentially, a second home from home to go with Her London flat.

Anyway, to cut a long story short we saw just such a place whilst we were visiting in the New Year and at Easter we returned to complete the purchase. Owner finally has the place She has always wanted, a flat of Her own.  At present it is unfurnished but as soon as it is She will be able to come and go as She pleases. In the same way that the London flat is very much Owners' place, decorated and fitted out as She wishes, so too will be the one in Spain. It was jointly purchased but my hope is that Owner will very much see the flat as Hers with my attendance there alongside Her very much being at Her discretion and according to Her rules.

It has already been agreed that i am to clean and maintain this second flat to Her standards exactly as i try to do with the London flat, albeit with some adjustments to account for the fact we will typically only be there for short periods of time, at least to start with. It ought to also be possible to fully apply the rules that i live by to the Spanish flat when we are there. i for one am looking forward to being able to feel just as much under Owners full control in Spain as i do here in London and to being able to serve and care for Her there in much the same way as i endeavour to do here. 

At present it is very much a second home, Owner has no immediate plans to leave London. But longer-term She will seek to spend more of Her time in Spain. When this happens i will need to quit my current job and look for something that allows me to work fully from home, either in Spain or the UK. Assuming, of course, that Owner wishes me accompany Her, which hopefully She will!

It is an exciting little milestone for us both and one that i greatly look forward to.

So that, in part, is what we have been up to. Owner was in Spain for a week over Easter. Unlike Owner's my current job does not allow me to work from Spain so i could only be there a few days - just enough time to complete the legal paperwork, before i had to return to the UK.  i have missed being apart from Her, i always do. 

We have also both been pretty stressed by our respective jobs and Owner has also had the stress of the flat purchase to contend with (my Spanish not being good enough to deal with legal paperwork). Added to that She has also not been well with a very bad, lingering cold that She has battled through. So sorry for the relatively absence of blog posts of late. Life has overtaken us. The good news though is that we are now reunited under the same roof. i am back in Her arms, back in my happy place.