Service Poppet Installed (Until We Return Home to London) In Spain

First off, happy New Year one and all. Owner and i wish you all the very best for 2025.

Well, the good news is that, after a Christmas spent apart, Owner and i are at last reunited again. The really exciting news is that we are together in Spain in Her own little flat. After almost two decades spent staying with Owner's parents whenever we came to see Her family and friends we are now in the flat Owner and i bought earlier this year.

i say Her flat because although we bought it together it is very much Owner's place, one to which i am invited by Her to stay. i don't have my own keys and may only stay with Owner's consent and at Her invitation.  Thankfully, She has been very happy to, as She says, 'install' me in Her second home over this New Year period. Having Her own place means that i now finally have an opportunity to follow Her rules when we are in Spain as well as when we are at home in London. As well as keeping Her company and entertained my purpose is to ensure that Her flat is kept clean and tidy and that Owner is fully cared for and looked after by me. It is a role i relish.

Regular readers will be familiar with the slutty side of my personality. However, as Owner's submissive housewife i am also very service orientated and really do genuinely love to clean, wash and cook for Her. i now have the privilege of also doing so when i have the honour of being in attendance in Her flat here in Spain as well as in London. Something that before now, when we stayed at Her parents, had not been possible. A daily routine has already been established which sees me sweep and mop all the floors and dust and clean all the rooms each morning after i have made Owner Her breakfast, and before i do my daily exercises. 

One of the rules that applies here as it does at home in London is that i may only leave the apartment when accompanied by Owner or if needing to run an errand for Her, such as to take the rubbish out. Unlike at home in London i will never have a need to leave the flat for work, so accordingly there is no need for me to have a key as i will only ever go out with Owner or very briefly at Her request. With no key i am dependent on Owner letting me out and in, whereas She of course may come and go as She pleases. i love having my independence restricted and controlled by Her like this. 

The apartment itself is on the 5th floor. Whereas Owner can and always does use the lift i may not. Instead, as befits someone of my status, i take the stairs, racing up in order to meet the lift and open the door for Her when it arrives on our floor. i have come to love doing this, using the stairs is also good for my glutes :)

On New Years eve i had the pleasure and the privilege of cooking for Owner, Her parents, brother and sister, their partners and Her nephew. i loved cooking for Her and for them all and wanted to ensure that She felt proud of me. The meal was a success and Owner professed Herself delighted. Her guests all left well-fed and having had an enjoyable evening. i loved both the cooking, the waiting on and clearing away and cleaning. i want Owner to feel that whenever She is here with me at Her side not only will i cook all meals for Her but for any friends or family She wishes to have cooked for as well.

In short, 2024 ended and 2025 started as i very much hope it will carry on, with me serving Owner to the best of my abilities and greatly enjoying the opportunity to serve Her. Yes, i might also love being Her slutty exhibitionist wife, Her sextoy and the one She enjoys opportunities to challenge or inflict pain upon etc. However, i also really, really love cooking, cleaning and waiting on Her and and Her guests. It is a real privilege and a pleasure to do so. An opportunity to hopefully make Her feel proud of Her submissive wife. i hope to continue to make Her proud or me.i also love being Her stay at home wife and i am delighted to now be able to fulfill that role in Spain whenever She invites me to spend time with Her in Her flat here now too. It truly has been a lovely start to the New Year. i am very lucky to have such a wonderful Owner.

Seasons Greetings

It's that time of year again when the cleaning gets done in the Santa outfit. Yes, it is important to remember that whilst this maybe the festive season there are still chores to complete, in this case, bathroom cleaning.

Christmas this year will be a sad one because Owner and i will be parted. She is heading to Spain and will be in our new flat, close to Her family. Meanwhile, i will be heading down to Devon to spend Christmas in an AirBnB with my Dad, before then travelling to see my Mum to celebrate Her 80th birthday a few days later. Only then will i too get to head to Spain and catch-up with Owner and spend New Year and Three Kings out there with Her.

i will miss Her terribly but am pleased we will be getting to spend New Year together in our little flat in Spain. It will be the first time i have stayed in it. It will be wonderful to finally have a place out there of our own that Owner can install me in and have me clean and look after just as i am do in Her London home. For me it means i will, for the first time ever in all the years we have been travelling to and from Spain, be able to properly serve and care for Her in Her own place, not in Her parents flat.

i look forward to being able to serve Her in Her new second home, to clean and cook for Her and Her family and friends when She wishes to entertain. It means we can now live our lives as we want to both in London and in Spain with Owner able to fully exert Her authority over me whilst we are there as well as when we are in London. It is an exciting prospect.

Anyway, from Owner and i to you all. Wherever you may be and whatever you may be doing have a very enjoyable Christmas and a Happy New Year.

Home Is Wherever Owner Is

It is true that for me i am at my happiest and most relaxed when i am in the company of Owner, wherever we might be. Being at Her side is very much my happy place. Home is wherever She is.

Well, there is now another place that Owner can rightfully call Her home. As regular readers will know Owner is Spanish, hailing from a wonderful part of the North of Spain, the beautiful principality of Asturias. Her family all still live in the coastal city where She is from and each year Her and i travel out at least a couple (if not more) times.  Whenever we do visit we end up staying in Her parents flat, actually in the very room that Owner spent Her childhood in, the room She shared with Her younger sister. Lovely as Her parents are Owner's mum is very much the queen of her own domain and runs her flat according to her own strict set of rules that much always be obeyed. Woe betide the person that transgresses from such rules! She is a strong, assertive woman and quite a force of nature - an admirable trait that she passed onto Her daughter. But it can lead to tension. There is also not a lot of privacy and a constant risk that i will be walked in on by her whilst stood in her daughter's bedroom in my finest knickers or wearing just my chastity cage.  There have been numerous close shaves.

It also means that Owner is not free to dominate or discipline me as She might like to when we are spending time under Her parents/mother's roof. Owner has always said it would be nice to have a place of Her own. Over the years having such a place in Her home town has become increasingly important to Her, somewhere that She can spend time in whenever She wants, see Her friends, relax etc. She also wants a place where, in Her own words, She can 'install me'. Essentially, a second home from home to go with Her London flat.

Anyway, to cut a long story short we saw just such a place whilst we were visiting in the New Year and at Easter we returned to complete the purchase. Owner finally has the place She has always wanted, a flat of Her own.  At present it is unfurnished but as soon as it is She will be able to come and go as She pleases. In the same way that the London flat is very much Owners' place, decorated and fitted out as She wishes, so too will be the one in Spain. It was jointly purchased but my hope is that Owner will very much see the flat as Hers with my attendance there alongside Her very much being at Her discretion and according to Her rules.

It has already been agreed that i am to clean and maintain this second flat to Her standards exactly as i try to do with the London flat, albeit with some adjustments to account for the fact we will typically only be there for short periods of time, at least to start with. It ought to also be possible to fully apply the rules that i live by to the Spanish flat when we are there. i for one am looking forward to being able to feel just as much under Owners full control in Spain as i do here in London and to being able to serve and care for Her there in much the same way as i endeavour to do here. 

At present it is very much a second home, Owner has no immediate plans to leave London. But longer-term She will seek to spend more of Her time in Spain. When this happens i will need to quit my current job and look for something that allows me to work fully from home, either in Spain or the UK. Assuming, of course, that Owner wishes me accompany Her, which hopefully She will!

It is an exciting little milestone for us both and one that i greatly look forward to.

So that, in part, is what we have been up to. Owner was in Spain for a week over Easter. Unlike Owner's my current job does not allow me to work from Spain so i could only be there a few days - just enough time to complete the legal paperwork, before i had to return to the UK.  i have missed being apart from Her, i always do. 

We have also both been pretty stressed by our respective jobs and Owner has also had the stress of the flat purchase to contend with (my Spanish not being good enough to deal with legal paperwork). Added to that She has also not been well with a very bad, lingering cold that She has battled through. So sorry for the relatively absence of blog posts of late. Life has overtaken us. The good news though is that we are now reunited under the same roof. i am back in Her arms, back in my happy place.

Poppet at Repose (not in a good way)

This past week has not exactly gone to plan in that i went down with a case of the lurgy and ended up confined to bed. Meanwhile, Owner has been super busy with Her work whilst also looking after me. This always makes me feel very guilty as it should be me looking after Her. Owner, however, is always clear with me that She needs a healthy wife and sub and so whenever i am an ill She insists that i do not do anything and She sweeps in and takes full care of me. i am so lucky having an Owner as wonderful as She is.

The good news is that i am feeling a lot better than i was and so hopefully i will be permitted to resume my normal service and duties. There are three or four days worth of cleaning that i need to catch-up with together with my Spanish studies and exercises to resume. Luckily, or perhaps conveniently, it is a weekend so i have plenty of time available to me.

This coming week i turn 54, which makes me feel rather old. i know Owner has a few things planned for me, both on the day itself and the following weekend, which is super exciting. The day itself is also the 16th of the month which, as regular readers will know, means an outdoor challenge, something i am also looking forward to completing.

Oh, one final exciting bit of news. In my last post i mentioned that Owner and i had looked at some flats in Her home town in Spain when we were there together over the New Year. Well, we put in an offer and that has now been accepted. Fingers crossed within a few months we will have a place there too. Owner is already saying how nice it will be to have me installed there whenever we are visiting. Having our own place there will be good for me as it means i can maintain my routines and chores etc irrespective of whether we are at our London flat or the one in Spain. This i know will be good for my own development and will also provide Owner with a more relaxing and enjoyable environment for Her. 

Longer-term i know that Owner will relocate us to Spain on a permanent basis. This will happen when Owner judges that financially there is no longer any need for me to bring in money by undertaking paid work, allowing me to finally become Her full-time submissive housewife. This is something i have long wanted to be. i really look forward to that day arriving. i know it will require some adjusting to on my part but it is an exciting prospect. 

Finally, i came across excellent blog (note - the original is in German) by sklave in stahl (slave in steel) about his life as slave to his wife/Mistress. It is an inspiring read, especially for people like me who aspire to submit completely to their partner.