Staying Home and Going Out

As regular readers will know i have increasingly become a stay-at-home wife for Owner. At home is where She expects me to be and where i enjoy being. It means that She knows where i am and it ensures that my focus stays where it should be, on Her and looking after Her home, be that here in London or in Spain. 

The only occasions that i leave Owners home on my own are: 

• to attend work meetings that cannot be conducted online 
• to complete a challenge set by Owner 
• to see/visit either one of my parents 
• to run errands for Owner e.g emptying the rubbish, collecting Her prescriptions, doing the shopping or buying Her a coffee etc
• to get my haircut or see the dentist/doctor 
• to meet Owner at the train station/airport and carry Her bags home
• to meet-up with Owner if She is already out 

Until last year i still undertook the occasional work trip abroad but we have agreed that this is no longer an appropriate activity for me . It is also expected of me that i do not stay away overnight for work unless it is absolutely unavoidable, and only then if Owner approves.

My staying at home has become the norm. It is where i spend the bulk of my time. i would not want for it to be any other way. 

On those occasions when i do leave the house unescorted by Owner i make sure to return straight back home as soon as possible. i also provide Owner with regular updates about my journey and where i am/what i am doing. More recently still i have set my mobile phone so that it shares my location details with Owner 24hours a day, everyday, meaning that should She ever wish to, She can now track my precise whereabouts all the time. Owner did not ask me to do this but it feels a quite natural and proper thing for me to do.

In short, as Owners control over me has grown and my submission to Her has deepened so it has become increasingly expected of me that i should, in so far as it is possible, always be at home unless i am accompanied or chaperoned by Her.  Likewise, when i am not at home Owner can now always see, if She wishes to, exactly where i am.

Luckily for me Owner enjoys my company as much as i enjoy Hers and so i am regularly invited to accompany Her on a walk, for drinks, a meal or for some other occasion or activity. Take this weekend for example. i went out twice with Her, once on Saturday and then again on Sunday. On Saturday Owner went out for lunch with friends, leaving me at home to get on with some housework. However, She then invited me to meet up with Her in town later in the day and go for drinks with Her.

Spending time out, in Her company, are special moments for me as i never fail to have a good time out with Owner. Here are some pictures from last Saturday

Out having drinks with Owner

On Sunday Owner took me to the cinema with Her to watch one of our favourite films, Wong Kar-Wai's In the mood for love that was being shown in a central London cinema. 

For Her part Owner is obviously free to come and go as She pleases and spend Her time however and with whomsoever She chooses. Owner is not a naturally social person but She does have a close circle of friends and colleagues whom She enjoys seeing. To me it is beautiful and appropriate that Owner goes out and has a good time whilst i stay at home awaiting Her call to come and meet Her at the station, or the airport if She has gone abroad. 

Owners freedom and independence, and Her ability to do whatever She wishes, is important to us both just as is the absence of such freedoms and independence for me. Whilst i really miss Owner when She is not here i am also happy and content getting on with my chores and tasks in the knowledge that She is out having a good time somewhere and making sure She has a clean and tidy home to come back to.

Most of the time Owner simply leaves me to get on with things. She likes me to be proactive and to think of things that can be done in Her absence. There are, however, occasions when She will leave me with instructions. When She does that my little submissive heart really does sing with joy. They can be the dullest, most boring etc tasks but being given them to do when She is out or away enjoying Herself really does make me happy. i still fondly recall the time i was left to work hard, redecorating the whole flat, whilst She went to Rome for a long weekend with Her friend.

Whilst there may be less occasions when i get to leave the house these days i do still get out a lot it just means that those occasions when i am allowed out with Owner are all the more enjoyable and special. i also get the immense pleasure and satisfaction that comes from staying in whilst Owner goes out and enjoys Herself whilst i get on with my chores. It is a win-win arrangement for us both and one i would never wish to change.