Showing posts with label rules. Show all posts
Showing posts with label rules. Show all posts

Saturday, 15 November 2014

Blog Housekeeping and Progress Update

i have done a little bit of tidying up to the blog landing page which i hope makes it a little less cluttered. Previously i have listed all of Owners rules for me and the routines i follow and activities i am expected to undertake down the side of the blog. i have now created two new pages for the blog which i hope you will find interesting. These are

  • About Us - this is a short biography page that provides a bit more background information about Owner and me, our relationship and how we developed as FLR FemDom couple over the years
  • The Rules and Routines by Which i Live - this is now the home for all of the rules Owners sets down for me and the place where i also detail all of the daily, weekly etc tasks and activities that i am expected to undertake. i have updated these to reflect the latest development goals Owner has set out in Plin, Plan, Plon 4.
Meanwhile, although the next Phase of my development (Plin, Plan Plon 4) is not due to commence until the start of December (and runs through to April 2015) i have already started to try to implement some of the new expected behaviours etc so that i can (hopefully) hit the ground running on the 1st December. This new Plan is organised using Trello. i must say that now i have got used to it i am finding it a really, really useful tool. It has enabled Owner and i to rationalise what had previously been a whole suite of separate documents and spreadsheets into a single place. i can now update what i have done from my laptop, tablet and phone and Owner can check and comment at any time too. This is what the main page of my account now looks like and this is what i now check daily to see what tasks need doing, mark off what i have done, etc, etc.


Yesterday, Owner treated me to a special surprise. i was walking to collect Her from the station as i usually do when i am working from home, to carry Her bag back (i also carry Her bag for Her to the station in the morning) when She suddenly called me to say that She was sat in one of our local bars and had ordered me a drink and that i was to join Her. There has been no repetition of the infamous occasion a few months ago when i had an alcoholic drink without first having been invited to do so by Owner. We have had different family members staying and have gone out for meals, i have cooked at home and served them drinks but i have not had one myself as Owner had not said that i could. Last night, however, Owner decided that She wanted to have a drink with me and so i was permitted to have a couple of beers.

We are now at a point in our relationship where Owner makes all the decisions as o whether or not we will be going out, what and where we will be going and whether or not i will be permitted to drink alcohol or not. That control is also now extending to Owner deciding what food i will have when we are eating in a restaurant and will order for me. i love this continued extension of Owner control over my life. Owner may at times permit me to make suggestions but She is in control and that is how we both agree it should be.

Last, it is just under a week to go before i sit my Spanish exams. i have an oral exam on Friday and then written exams on the Saturday. i have been revising hard and have also been sitting past papers - fingers crossed i may actually pass my first ever formal language exam - which will be a minor miracle! Meanwhile, whilst i have been revising Owner has started practising making Her own jewellery. She made me these beautiful earrings which i love, She truly is a woman of many talents.

The silver heart at the base is actually a little bell as well so i tinkle as i walk!

Thursday, 21 March 2013

Bad Pet, Dirty Pet

This week has not, in too many ways, been my finest hour. On Sunday i finished off painting the bathroom and even had time to catch-up on some of my duties, duties which had not been completed as i was painting and decorating. Thus on Monday as i bade Owner goodbye in the morning and then headed out to work shortly after myself i was feeling dangerously pleased with myself. The painting i had wanted to get done was done, i was up to date with my tasks and duties and Owner was happy and pleased (which in turn pleased me).

Over the weekend Owner also came up with a wonderful idea that She would like to put into practice. We have been discussing ways to ensure i keep fit now that i work primarily from home and which can also compliment my regular back exercises and pilates lessons. Owners solution is 80s style aerobics. Essentially, i am to purchase a bright coloured leotard with clashing leggings and leg warmers (think Fame) and start to develop an aerobics routine that is a homage to all those 1980s workout godesses. Owner expects me to produce some workout videos. They promise to be great fun to make and i suspect the content will end up being shared on here for your amusement.

However after this the week started to go wrong. On my return from work the first of what was to become a litany of short-comings on my part became evident. Owner was already at home and had started to unpack the veggie box delivery in the kitchen whereupon She discovered there was some food that had started to go bad in the fridge that i had not got rid of. Rightly She was very annoyed at me as i should have checked this. Meanwhile, in the morning Owner had advised that She wanted to administer a caning that evening so i had carefully laid out all of Her implements in preparation, including clamps, weights, strapons etc 'just in case'. However, after administering 100 well-deserved strokes and then clamping my titties and the underside of my chastised clitty Owner turned to pick-up Her vibrator and have a little bit of fun. Unfortunately, i had forgotten to put this out for Her amongst Her other things. Worse still when She did find it it was not charged and so useless. Owner immediately brought an end to the proceedings and instructed me to put everything away and made clear Her disappointment that i had let Her down again.

The day after this i had a work trip and whilst out during the day i bought Owner a small gift that i then promptly lost somewhere on the journey home, albeit not before i had told Owner i had got Her something. Again, i had let Her down. Then the next morning i forgot to plug Owners hair straighteners in whilst She was showering so that they were ready and warmed up for when She needed them. All in all i was not having the best of weeks in terms of doing things properly and as i ought to for Owner who was justifiably annoyed.

However, it is now about 48hours since my last mistake so i am now hoping that i am back performing and behaving as i ought to. Meanwhile, the weather in London continues to be cold and getting colder. Accordingly, this evening Owner advised that She wanted me to do another park challenge, albeit this time that i was to wear weights suspended from my nipple clamps as well as being naked save for my chastity device, socks, boots and coat whilst i accompanied Her around our local park. i think you can tell from the picture below (taken just as we were about to leave the house) that i get quite excited at the prospect of being so 'exposed' in public:

and then a few minutes later here i am posing like a slut in the park before heading off to do a circuit with Owner.

Whilst out we passed a whole group of joggers all of whom had weights too - except they were holding theirs rather than having them suspended from their clamped titties, they should try it!

Incidentally, the keen eyed amongst you may have noticed that i have updated my list of rules and tasks as these had become a bit dated - another thing Owner had pointed out this week.