A Difficult Week But Good Times Ahead

The past week has been a difficult one for Owner and i with two family deaths an a consequential rearrangement of our travel plans to Canada to attend a funeral. As a result neither of us have been quite our usual selves.

However, on a more positive front Owner handed in Her notice at Her current workplace and will be starting Her new job at the end of April. i am really thrilled for Her.

Today, Owner also provided me with the details of the next (3rd) phase of my development as Owner had adjudged that i had passed phase 2 of Her 'Plin, Plan Plon'. i am really excited as well as a little anxious as to whether i will be able to sustain my previous level of development whilst also successfully completing/learning the next set of skills and challenges Owner has set for me. My new development objectives - as set out in this 3rd phase of Owner Plin, Plan, Plon - are as follows;

Housework

•  Ensure all Owners clothes are hung/put away each day 
• Wife to check outside the front of the house for litter daily and tidy
• Wife to offer to book and arrange appointments for Owner
• Project:  research lounge refurbishment ideas - create portfolio
• Project:  reorganise all toys so that owner has preferred ones at hand
• At least 2 - 3 days p/w Owner gets breadless lunch to take to work
• Project:  organise Owner's wardrobe and keep tidy

Study/Skills

•  Prepare for Diplomas de Espanol como Lengua Extranjera (DELE)  level A1 exam
• Spanish reading - magazines/newspapers/books
• Spanish writing - one small written piece per week - 80 to 100 words
• Practice writing erotic short stories with the aim of publishing
• Learning how to do facial treatments
• Further knitting/sewing to create some clothing/home furnishings

Physical/Slut training

• Wearing unbuttoned blouses and remove knickers in the evening
• Learn to use Owner's preferred toys 
• Deep-throating practice once a week

General behaviour/Others

• Wife to create a spreadsheet and detail his expenditure each week
• Max. of 3 alcoholic drinks (if allowed) unless otherwise specified 
• Weekly exercise rota that must be complied with
• Wife to make labels (Naughty Poppet)* for his creations
• Wife to develop a scrap book of things he likes
• Unless instructed to relax wife always doing/finding something to do

The above are all to be demonstrated as having been achieved or built successfully into my everyday activities when Owner reviews this 3rd phase of the plan in August. i am, of course, expected to still maintain all other activities/learning developed under phases 1 and 2 and any other duties i have.

It is going to be a busy few months!

Tomorrow also marks the end of my two week no make-up punishment period. i really have missed not wearing any make-up at all and have felt quite under-dressed and so will be happy when, in the morning i can re-apply some slap again. Owner has stated that if i muck-up again it will be a longer period without make-up. i hope i have learnt my lesson and never need to b punished this way again.

Good Things Come In Threes

Just like the expression 'you spend ages waiting for a bus and then three come along together' so it has been for Owner and i this week. In short, there are three pieces of good news to impart. First, Owner passed the course She has been studying so hard for with an impressive score of 89% - She really is damn good! Second, She has received a firm job offer from another company and still has other companies interested in Her. Career wise things are really starting to look up for Her again.

Last, i passed the latest stage of Owners Plin Plan Plon training and development programme and even have this amazing certificate from Her to prove it!

Owner even gave a detailed breakdown of my performance scores against each of the main criteria of the Plan.

Needless to say i am thrilled. First and foremost i am so happy for Owner at Her passing Her course with such flying colours and securing a new job offer too. She has put a huge amount of time and effort into both enterprises and i am so proud of Her and what She has achieved. Studying and applying for jobs whilst also still working full time is not an easy task but She has pulled it off with aplomb

Second, i am really chuffed at being judged to have passed the latest phase of my development. After the punishments i received recently (see previous post) for my slip ups i wasn't sure i would make it but am delighted to have been judged to have passed by Owner. i will shortly receive the next Phase of Owners development plan and will post the details here when known to me. As has been the case with this latest phase i will be expected to continue to perform the development goals/activities to the required standard from this and the previous plan periods (Plin Plan Plon phases 1& 2) and also add on the additional development goals/activities set out in the next phase - whatever they may be. i can't wait to find out.

Life for us both truly is sweet!

Sex Toy Audit, Monthly Performance Review and Punishments

A couple of weeks ago Owner asked me to audit our current collection of sex toys - and also to research ideas for potential new toys. My audit was quite comprehensive and i am delighted to say that Owner commended me on the level of detail i had provided. You can find jpeg copies of the audit i conducted of our current toys below - including Owner decision as to whether She wants that toy to be disposed of or retained.

Current Sex Toy Audit

Ideas For Possible New Toys

Owner has requested that i provide Her with some additional details about some of those potential new toys She has expressed an interest in.

In the meantime, Owner has been reviewing my performance during the month of February. Owner noted that, although my performance was generally good, i nonetheless let Her down on three occasions. Consequently, Owner has stipulated some punishments/corrective measures that i am to undertake as a consequence of each of these failings on my part.

The first, and most serious misdemeanour of mine was that i purchased a hair reducing product without consulting Her. Owner responded to this by stating that,

'This was done on purpose without consulting Owner because pet knew Owner would disapprove.  This also has to do with two aspects of pet’s personality that can crop up sometimes:

¨ A tendency to be shallow and to worry too much about his appearance

¨ Insecurity about his looks

If Owner wanted pet to change anything about him she would say so.  I hope this is self-explanatory.

Corrective measure:

pet will not wear any make for 2 weeks starting from Monday 10^th of March'.

My second misdemeanour was that i made a sexual advance on Owner in order to try to satisfy my own selfish sexual desires, to which Owner has responded by stating,

'As agreed in pet’s development plan he should not seek to make sexual advances on his Owner.  This is also self-explanatory.

Corrective measure:

This corrective measure has started – pet has been requested to do a toy inventory for Owner with the purpose of keeping only those that would satisfy Owner’s desire.  He has also been asked to add any suggestions for new toys that would also serve that purpose. 

Any new toys that Owner decides to acquire will be paid for by pet.'

Last, one of the sandwiches i made for Owners lunch last week contained cream cheese but i forgot to inform Her of this in order that She could place the sandwich in the fridge at Her work. As a result Owner has said,

'Not the first time that pet attempts to poison Owner and this conversation has been had in the past and it’s becoming repetitive.

Corrective measure:

Next week, pet will not be allowed to have dinner with Owner during week days.  He will have his dinner in the kitchen, like a low rank servant, and he will be totally naked. 

From Monday 10^th of March to Friday 14^th of March.'

i am truly grateful to Owner for each of Her punishments and am extremely sorry to have let Her down so last month.

And the Oscar Goes To.....

Owner and i went to the cinema this afternoon to watch The Grand Budapest Hotel (which by the way was excellent). It was a welcome opportunity for Owner to distract Herself from Her studies and for us both to distract ourselves from the ominous events unfolding in Europe.

Owner also decided to make the visit more interesting by setting a little challenge for me. When we got to the cinema i was to go to the bathroom, remove my jeans (keeping on the tights i was wearing underneath) and replace them with shorts. The picture below show me in the cinema lobby just after i had got changed. Owner professed Herself to be pleased with the outcome, you can judge for yourself below. Not exactly an Oscar winning performance but one that pleased Her and which i enjoyed too. i stayed dressed like this for the film but was then permitted to put my jeans back on over my tights before we headed back home.

It SHOULD Happen to a Wife

Just some selfies i took to illustrate my day to Owner when She got home, and then post on here. They illustrate my attempts to fulfill a few of Owners maxim's;

A Good Wife Should Try To Look Pretty (well i clearly need some more practice with this!)

Wives Should Be Locked Up

Wives Should Be Practical

Wives Should Practice Sucking Cock

Hope you all had a good day too.

Learning and Development

It has been a very busy fortnight for both Owner and i. Owner has been continuing Her course studies, preparing for Her final exam and also attending job interviews. Meanwhile, i have completed two additional courses and graduated with diplomas in Indian Head Massage and Manicures and Pedicures from the Beauty Academy. Both of these courses were great fun and quite intensive. On each there were between 4 and 6 students and a tutor and there was lots of practical as well as theory work. As students we all got to practice on each other. On both courses all of the other students were female. i was a little nervous at first but i needn't have been and not an eyelid was batted at the fact that i was wearing my collar, make-up etc nor that my toe nails were painted pink or that i was wearing a slip under my blouse (which became obvious when we all had to remove bare our shoulders during the massage practical).

It really was great fun and it has really sparked my interest in potentially doing a full qualification in beauty therapy - something which some of the other students also encouraged and which a number of them were working towards themselves. Owner and i have discussed the idea as well as which other courses She would like me to complete next to help me become a better and more useful wife. There is one in particular which She is enthusiastic that i complete, namely a one day introduction to sewing course (including using and setting up a machine). She has also highlighted some flower arranging courses that are available. However, Owner has suggested i wait a month or two before commencing a new course.

Meanwhile, my Spanish studies are coming along and this evening i passed an online Spanish course i have been doing. Owners desire that i be equipped with a full range of skills befitting my role as Her wife, appear, so far, to be progressing relatively well. i am now getting ready for the start of Owners formal assessment of my development over the past few months of Her second phase of Her development plan for me - Her 'Plin, Plan, Plon'. Owners assessment of my performance will dictate whether or not She regards me as having reached a sufficient standard to progress onto the next stage of my development. To that end, Owner requested ideas from me for areas/activities etc that i thought could be incorporated into my future development i.e. ideas for how i thought i could be further trained. Depending on whether i am judged to have passed this stage of my development Owner may choose to incorporate some of these ideas, or equally ignore them completely, or adapt them etc, etc. To be clear She is firmly in charge but likes to sometimes request ideas or suggestions from me for Her to consider. It is quite fun to be asked to occasionally be asked to be the potential author of your own development/training and also reduces the burden on Owner - after all the purpose is ultimately to make Her life more relaxed and stress free and to serve Her, not place demands on Her.

Owner will be conducting my performance review next month (March) and i'll up date with the outcome as soon as i find out.

Request to Help Support CCK

This post is a little off topic but Owner and i feel it is for a good cause.

London folk, or visitors to London, may recall a wonderful cafe that used to exist near Covent Garden which catered for people engaged in alternative lifestyles (including S&M and Femdom)  - as well as anyone else who popped by. The cafe was called Coffee Cake and Kink (CCK). Sadly, after a protracted legal dispute with their landlord that cafe was forced to close a number of years ago. Since then CCK has continued as a social enterprise - see here for their website - albeit minus the cafe.

Since losing their original cafe CCK have been looking to identify new premises in which to open another cafe in London. The good news is they have found a place, now they just need to raise some capital which they are looking to do via the kickstarter crowd funding site. In their own words the new venue will be;

'A relationships-focused social design space. Tease your taste buds and stimulate your senses in the place that makes you go "mmm"!'

Owner and i are both really excited at the prospect of a return of CCK, albeit now as Coffee, Cake and Kisses. We have pledged our support. If anyone else that would like to see a cafe/creative space in London that embraces people of all backgrounds, lifestyles and genders etc then please consider supporting the

COFFEE, CAKE AND KISSES KICKSTARTER FUND

Thank you

The Sex Toy Files

This morning after breakfast Owner took me back to bed whereupon She stripped me and began to softly caress my pussy and titties. Of course, no sooner did She start doing this than my little locked clitty began to pulse and throb in response to Her touch. Owner then permitted me to suckle briefly on Her wonderful breasts, which only served to increase my desire and excitement still further.

However, Owner had no intention of permitting me to enjoy Her body for long. Instead, She pushed me away and gagged me with Her dildo gag, advising me as She did so that She wanted me sucking cock. Then She retrieved Her vibrator from Her bedside drawer and informed me that as i was Her sex toy i should become adept at using Her vibrators for Her pleasure and focus my efforts exclusively on Her enjoyment. With that She handed the device to me with an instruction to bring Her pleasure. For the following 15-20 minutes i performed my task of  sex toy holder/manipulator. Owner lay with on Her side with Her legs parted and i manipulated the vibrator and responded to Her verbal instructions, adjusting the vibrators speed and intensity when She wanted it changing, re-positioning it, pushing it more firmly against Her sex and so forth. All the while i lay curled behind Her, mouth gagged and sucking on cock, clitty throbbing helplessly in its cage, its tip moist and glistening slightly in helpless, happy arousal.

Later, when Owner was lying spent by my side and my head rested on Her shoulder She said that She realised that too many of our sex toy collection had been purchased with my own enjoyment in mind and that that had to end. Owner rightly stated that as Her wife my duty was to focus solely on ensuring Her sexual desires were satisfied and that our toy collection should reflect that. To that end Owner has set me the following task to be completed by the end of the month.

i am to present Owner with a detailed written report which itemises each of our current sex toys. Each toy should have a detailed description of its potential uses together with an analysis of how and whether it can be used to provide Owner pleasure. Toys which offer no potential pleasure or service for Owner are to be identified and recommended for disposal in the report. Equally, i am to ensure that i  include a full assessment of how i could better use each remaining toy in order to maximise Owners pleasure/enjoyment. i am also to  practice using the toys more so i am fully familiar with their function i.e. so i can still use/change settings etc even if blindfolded for example. Last, as well as recommending toys for disposal (i.e. those which i would be the only beneficiary of their use) the report is also to contain recommendations for any additional toys that could be purchased which might add a new pleasurable/useful dimension for Owner. In other words, toys which might fill any existing pleasure gaps for Her in our toy collection.

In short, Owner reinforced the fact that my sexual role is simply one of ensuring Her pleasure and sexual satisfaction. As such our sex toy collection should fully reflect that. She is, of course, quite right.

Knit, Purl, Cable

Well i have finished my first ever knitting project and am quite pleased with my scarf though i say it myself

Next is the matching hat.

Amazed by Owner and Development Update

The period since Christmas has been an incredibly busy and stressful one for Owner. She has been studying most evenings for a course as part of Her career development whilst also dealing with a whole load of issues at work. At the same time She has been applying for new jobs and attending interviews, She is currently at the final stage for a couple of possible new jobs. In addition, a close member of Her family is terminally ill. She is, quite understandably, exhausted and drained.

As Her wife i have been trying my best to support and look after Her during this time. What has amazed me though is that, despite all that She has on Her plate right now, Owner continues to have time to oversee and monitor my own development as Her new wife. Owner provides regular feedback and encouragement to me about my own progress in delivering the current phase of Her development plan for me. She checks up and comments, applauds me if She feels i have been doing something well, and scolds or chastises me when i slip up.  Unfortunately, of late there have been two occasions which have given Owner particular cause for annoyance at my behaviour. The first time was when i added an additional beauty product to an order i placed on-line without having consulted Owner first. i'd ordered some hair growth inhibiter products (with Owners permission) for us both to use on our legs after shaving. However, i had also added a version of the same product to use on my face without asking for Owners permission. This was wrong and not acceptable on my part.

My second significant slip-up occurred this morning. Owner texted me from work to state She wanted to have me do reflexology on Her feet tonight. i replied saying of course i would do that. However, i then went on to enquire whether or not She would like me to also lick Her derriere? Owner immediately rebuked me saying i was not to ask Her if i could do things She knows i enjoy doing. For many years now i have been forbidden from initiating any form of sexual activity with Owner - only She may do this.Owner was quite right to rebuke me for my text i should have known better and i swiftly apologised.

The above significant slip-ups aside Owner has given me a number of compliments over how i have been performing in this latest Phase of Her development plan for me. She has stated that i have become more practical, attentive and useful domestically and She has seemed pleased with the new skills i have acquired as Her wife. i will find out just what She thinks of my development when the current Phase II of Her 'Plin Plan Plon' development plan for me gets formally assessed by Her next month. i hope She deems me worthy of progressing onto Phase III.

Since becoming Owners wife last year i have also noticed some wonderful developments in how Owner behaves towards me. Owner now seems to have higher expectations of what She should expect of me and also seems more confident Herself in making demands/expecting things of me. As Her submissive wife i am really thrilled to have the privilege of experiencing Owners continued and increasing dominance over me. My soul sings each time:

• She instructs me to do this or get that
• She automatically hands me Her bag to carry for Her
• She leaves things out/drops them on to the floor for me to put away/tidy-up after Her
• She says 'no' to me or denies me permission to do something
• She decides when and whether or not we are going out
• She announces what She wants me to cook
• She tells me that what i think about a particular matter is irrelevant
• She tells me to pay greater attention and to 'think!' 
• She passes judgement on my cooking
• She tells me that i am a whore
• She highlights areas of my behaviour/performance that are not acceptable and need  improvement

Life with Owner as Her wife keeps getting better and better!

happy wife