Saturday 26 November 2022

'Extreme Femdom' and Other Updates

Now, i promise you that the title of this post is not just a feeble attempt at click bait. It stems, instead, from me becoming intrigued by a small and sudden spike in readership of this blog that happened this week.

i am sure that any of you that have blogs of your own will know that every now and again the analytics that are available show a sudden increase in readers or visitors to your sites. Sometimes this happens for no apparent reason. Last year i recall there was a period of about a month when the traffic to this blog leapt by about 300%...all of which came from Sweden. i have no idea what prompted that sudden surge of interest amongst Swedes. It faded away within a month of starting. There was no apparent reason for the geographically specific interest. Maybe the blog got mentioned in some Swedish social media but the traffic was not coming from any specific referring site, just from within the country itself.

This week there was another (smaller) spike in traffic. By small i do mean small. If you are reading this blog then you really are part of a niche global audience whom I could probably invite out for a drink and still find there was enough space to get through to the bar. In the 14 years of blogging this blog has received (checks stats) just over 900,000 page views, which works out at about 180 page views a day. So when i am talking of a sudden 'surge' i am talking about say an extra one hundred or so visitors.

That is what happened earlier this week. This time, however, there was a reason. It turns out that this blog featured in this Reddit thread on the Most mean, cruel, or extreme femdom you've seen, read or experienced 

The thread begins with a reference to Mistress Scarlet's excellent blog and her depictions of the regime she has created for her submissive 'bitch boy'. However, part-way into the thread someone who reads this blog added a link to my ramblings about the life i live with Owner. Firstly, whoever you are thank you for taking the time to say the kind words you did. However, appearing in such a list did make Owner and i laugh a little. Owner remarked that a more appropriate title for a thread describing our relationship would be something like the 'silliest Femdom relationships' as everything we do, or that i have to do, is invariably full of lots of laughter, amusement and merriment on both our parts. Owner is not cruel and in many respects i am treated with great leniency and always with much love and affection by Her. We always have a fun time together whether being kinky or not.

Neither of us really think of our relationship as being in any way mean, cruel or extreme. i mean, yes there is the caning, the caging and the piss drinking...all perfectly normal activities, right? i agree the inside of my head can sometimes be an 'interesting' place to inhabit and there is not a lot that i wouldn't do if Owner insisted. But, in many respects i think we think of ourselves as being in a relationship that is not unlike many others.

But, as they say, all publicity is good publicity so thank you to whichever reader it was that gave this little blog a little plug on Reddit.

Meanwhile, life continues for Owner and i. The week ended with me being caned whilst wearing the vicious spiked nipple clamps. As you can see my bottom was left a little pink from the caning which was a good hard one that most definitely made me wince. i am most grateful to Owner for caning me as She did, i know it is good for me to be regularly reminded of Her dominance over me

my freshly caned bottom

Earlier in the week i received a treat in the form of being allowed to wear a pair of Owner's used knickers over my head so that i could inhale Her delightful fragrance whilst also being simultaneously gagged whilst i dusted and cleaned. Here i am below:

gagged and wearing Owner's used knickers

Then this morning i was lucky enough to be served with a large, warm glass of Owner's wonderful amber piss for breakfast. Which was a lovely way to start the day

a large glass of Owner's finest
down the hatch

This was followed shortly afterwards by Her tickling me remorselessly, which was less fun as i am extremely ticklish.

So as you can see, just a normal couple doing normal everyday stuff. Nothing extreme at all. Take care one and all and thanks for reading.

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