A Productive But Chilled Weekend

Owner and i are enjoying a productive weekend but one that has also seen us both relax and chill-out together. The weekend started with me doing some housework and having the opportunity to imbibe a delicious glass of Owner's finest nectar.

Next we moved onto a period of intensive clothes rummaging to identify items to be donated to charity. i should explain a key difference between Owner and i. It is that i am a horder and Owner is not. Given half the chance i will hold onto anything and everything on the off-chance that it might, some day in the dim and distant future, be of use. Over the years Owner has successfully managed to ensure i get rid of nearly everything that is not essential to me, or more importantly, of use to Her. My books, records, ornaments and general bric-a-brac have all long gone to the great jumble sale in the sky [Edit by Owner - I would like to point out that your CDs are still all on display and the two metal candlesticks are also yours]. Other than one or two items of genuine sentimental value everything on display in our flat is Hers [Owner: this is a lie]. Yes, our female-led relationship extends to household items too :)

Anyway, back to clothing. Owner presented me with an ultimatum, namely to identify clothes that i don't wear that could be recycled as my side of the wardrobe was getting 'ridiculous'. It was hard going through things and pulling stuff out to get rid of, but i did as i was told and soon had a couple of piles of clothes and shoes to get rid of. Owner also did the same exercise (unlike me She regularly has big clear-outs). Between us we filled five large black bin bags full of clothes, shoes and bags to donate to charity. Hopefully, my wardrobe is now 'safe' for a few more months [Owner: I will be the judge of that].

i also did some baking. i love to bake for Owner but for various reasons have not done so for ages. It felt good to have my hands deep in dough again and the resultant biscuits were, according to Owner, delicious.

On returning Owner gave me a caning (postponed from the night before on account of Her feeling knackered from work). i was caned hard across my bottom whilst my chastised clit was adorned with twenty mini-clothes pegs. It was painful but my bottom felt delightfully 'hot' afterwards.

caned bottom and thighs

caged clit adorned with pegs

It is not all about pain and punishments i do sometimes get to experience some pleasure too. Earlier in the week, after i had done my outdoor challenge, Owner treated me by allowing me to fuck myself with one of Her dildo's under Her supervision. It was a rare pleasure and one i quickly started to enjoy. Luckily Owner was on hand to ensure that i did not enjoy it too much. i was a good 'gurl' and didn't even leak let alone get anywhere close to cumming. However, it did leave me feeling wonderfully aroused.

Then yesterday, Owner returned from the shops with some drinks for us to have at home (rum and coke for Her and cider for me) whilst we settled in and watched a movie together. The film we saw was a wonderful Danish production called Another Round about a group of middle-aged, male teachers who decide their work and relationships would be much improved if they spent all of their time drunk. It is fair to say their efforts end with mixed results. The film is superbly acted and is one of the greatest discourses on alcohol (good and bad) i have seen. It is well worth a watch.

Today, after completing my daily list of chores and my Spanish study (which incidentally i have been doing religiously everyday apart from on days when i was ill) Owner and i are booked to go the cinema to watch Aftersun which also promises to be good. 

i hope everyone else is having an equally enjoyable and productive weekend.

Annual Appraisal

Last Sunday Owner sat me down and went through my annual appraisal with me. i had completed a self-assessment earlier in the week for Her and the session constituted Owner's response. Owner agreed that, whilst it had been a challenging year (She has not been well and then there was lock down) i had in some respects performed well but that there were many other areas where my performance fell below expectations. In particular, a number of the bigger domestic projects She expected me to organise and complete had not even started and i had fallen behind in my studies (Spanish). i was also becoming lazier as Her chef in that the variety of dishes i cooked and prepared for Her had diminished, providing Her with more limited meal options.

On the plus side, Owner observed that i had become a better muse for Her in that was less 'plank-like' when posing for Her to photograph me (an activity we both enjoy). She also confirmed that i had performed my outdoor exhibitionist 'challenges' satisfactorily and that i had kept on top of my daily chores etc. Owner advised me that She greatly enjoys the weekly disciplinary sessions, when She will cane or spank me, and that She wants to increase my pain thresh hold by beating me harder in future and adding clamps etc to me during these sessions. She also confirmed that She is satisfied with the sexual pleasure i have provided Her when required and that She may review and extend further my chastity periods but that She likes to have me unlocked at times as well.

It was also agreed that we would return to a system of monthly performance reviews (for me) to keep me focused whilst Owner will also review some of my tasks and challenges. Owner instructed me to join a Spanish language evening class, something i am less keen on for fear of not being good enough - but She of course knows best so i will join one. She also indicated that i may, in future, be rewarded with additional opportunities to drink Her delicious golden nectar and sniff Her used knickers. We may also visit one of the London fetish events now that some of the lock down restrictions have eased. Owner also stated that She would, on occasion, like me to be Her chauffeur and to hire a car for the occasion (we don't have our own one) in order for me to drive Her to places She would like to go, with me being in some sort of 'uniform'.

It was a very fair review by Owner and i welcomed the opportunity to receive Her guidance and instructions as i recognise that my performance and behaviour as Her slutty wife could be further improved.

Review aside not much else happened of note during the past week. Owner bought me a new pair of flat shoes, complete with a cute little bow, to wear

my new 'flats'

Then, on Monday Owner had me do 50 Russian twists for Her whilst wearing 20 mini-clamps on my clitty and on Thursday i had to complete a lap of our local park whilst wearing nipple clamps. Later today (Saturday) i know Owner will be administering a spanking but before that we are both off to an exhibition in London. Tomorrow i will be doing an audit of the loft and identifying all those items that can be donated to charity.

That's about it from me.

Discomfort Level Set To High

Owner often teases me, describing me as being a 'fluffy princess' who enjoys an overly easy life as Her submissive. By which She means that i am permitted to wear pretty clothes and that She treats me well. Both of these are completely true.

However, to demonstrate that my life is more than just photo shoots and frills and that i do, indeed, get to suffer for Her as well this is a picture of me today after i had finished sweeping and mopping all of the floors. i spent the next 30 minutes kneeling in front of Her with twenty mini-clothes pegs attached to my chastised clit and another ten attached to my breasts, five on each.

chastised clit and breasts clamped

Part of my development as Owners' wife and submissive slut involves increasing my ability to tolerate pain and discomfort. So, although i can be a 'fluffy princess' i am also expected to be a pain slut too.

Clampdown in Lockdown

Many things have changed as a result of Covid-19 and its impact upon our daily lives. We are restricted in what we can do, where we can go or who we can see. i have not completed a monthly outdoor challenge for two months and there is little prospect of another as long as the restrictions remain.

But some things have not changed, are as constant as the rythm of the seasons. Amongst such things are the dice that get rolled at the beginning of every week and which determine how some of my household duties will be combined with challenges that Owner has set for me. The activities and the challenges are each loaded onto two separate dice, one for the activity and one for the challenge. They are rolled twice to determine two 'random' things that i will need to do as a challenge that week.

For the most part these challenges involve discomfort as Owner strives to increase my ability to endure pain, especially on my nipples or my testicles. So sometimes you will find me wandering the house sweeping and mopping the floors wearing weighted nipple clamps, cleaning the kitchen or bathroom with pegs strategically attached to my bits. Very rarely the dice lands on something a little more 'rewarding' and i get to spend some time plugged. But mostly it lands on clamps or weights and with it my pain tolerance slowly improves.

Owner has announced that she will be refreshing these dice this week, adding some new activities/challenges to them and retiring some others. i wait, slightly nervously, to see what that might entail but leave you with some pictures of some of my recent clamp 'experiences'

caged clit decorated with 20 mini paper clips

Full-size clothes pegs and weighted table cloth clamps - before

and after

The mini paper clips experience was quite memorably intense. They were worn whilst cleaning the fridge which is a mercifully quick activity. They would be quite something to experience for a longer period of time, or to have weights suspended from them. i am just grateful that Owner has not yet suggested that clamps be combined with some of the lighter dumbells.

Stay safe everybody and have fun.