Owner and i are now back in the UK after our trip to Spain to stay with Her family for New Year and Dia de los Reyes (Three Kings' Day). We both had a great time although it reaffirmed Owner's view that we really should buy a flat out there so that we have our own place to stay, rather than stay with Her parents, both of whom are lovely but Her mother is very much queen of her house and requires that anyone staying in her presence follow her rules to the letter. Owner's mother is a quite remarkable woman and one in whom it is easy to see where Owner gets Her dominant traits from. Not, that i am suggesting She dominates her husband in the same way that Owner dominates me, but she is very much in charge. In fact, all of the women in her family are very strong-willed and independent-minded. Owner has excellent genes in that regard!
It would, however, be wonderful to have our own place out there in which we could stay, if nothing else it might mean we could also be our 'usual selves' with each other. That is not to say that our own Femdom relationship 'switches off' whilst we are staying there, but it does definitely go into 'silent mode'. It would be marvelous to have a place of our own in which i could live according to Owner's rules, rather than her mothers'.
That said, Owner did continue to rate my performance each day and, except for one day when my performance was ranked as quite unacceptable, i continued to get good feedback from Her. i was also in chastity throughout, as i will remain until at least mid-march when Her dice will decide my chastity state again.
One thing i immediately did, however, when we got back home was, after i had unpacked our suitcases and put the washing on, to re-apply my make-up and put my padded bra back on. Visits to Owner's family are now the only times when i do not wear make-up or a padded bra (having worn both to see my own parents in 2021). Owner did, however, make a passing reference to my feminine nature in the gifts She bought for me as part of Her family's Amigo Invisible ritual that plays out each year at Three Kings when gifts are given 'in secret' to a family member chosen at random at the start of December. It means you don't know who has got you your gifts as you all open them together until the mystery 'invisible friend' is revealed. The only rules of the ritual are that gifts should value approximately fifty euros i.e be affordable for all and not be extravagant.
This year, unbeknownst to me, Owner had got me as Her 'amigo invisible. However, it quickly became apparent to me when i opened my gifts with the rest of her family that they must have come from Owner. The reason? Well, i don't know who else in Her family knows my belly button is pierced and would have thought to get me a pretty piercing, or a gorgeous little coin purse or a pretty but practical rucksac. Not the sort of things all 51 year old men might expect to receive as presents, but ones that were ideal for me and which i loved and was happy to show-off to the rest of Owner's family - including with the new piercing in situ.
Anyway, we are now back in rainy London. i hope 2022 proves to be the year the world finally beats the pandemic and, who knows, perhaps it might also be the one in which Owner and i can start to plan for a place of our own in Spain as well.
No comments:
Post a Comment