Seventeen Years and Still Evolving (and Laughing)

On Thursday this week it will be seventeen years to the day that Owner and i have been a couple. At first we were online friends, then would meet regularly in person for trips to the cinema or the pub etc but it took a few more months before Owner made sure i got the hint by grabbing and snogging me on the platform of Charing Cross station in London. From that point on things quickly developed from a vanilla relationship to the start of our FLR one. These past seventeen years have been the best years of my life and hopefully, fingers and toes crossed, we will be celebrating our anniversary in New York City....yay! Yep, we are off on another little adventure. 

In those seventeen years our relationship, my submission to Owner and Her control over me, has continued to steadily strengthen and evolve to the point we are at today. The most recent manifestation of that has been the new regime that has been introduced which requires me to secure Owner's permission to leave the house unescorted by Her except for going to work or running errands and which also places new constraints/expectations on me when at home. These include requiring that i study Spanish on a daily basis; restricting my use of the internet/mobile phone to set hours each morning and evening; and having me chained and caged when i have completed all my chores/studies and when Owner does not require my presence at Her side.

This new regimen began in early September. Owner has now provided me with feedback on how i got on to the effect that She feels i have got off to a good start, is pleased with how i have got on but that i need to make sure i maintain this new standard. My performance will be reviewed every month (i submit weekly performance updates to Her) and, if needed, i will be severely punished for any lapses in my performance or behaviour.

i could never have imagined that when Owner and i first started 'dating' i would end up having my life being so controlled and dominated by Her, not could i have ever imagined how much joy and pleasure that that would bring for us both. It is also something that provides us with an endless source of fun and entertainment.

i truly am the luckiest person alive to have had the opportunity to share my life with Owner and to submit to Her. Ours is a journey that i hope will continue to evolve and grow until the day i die (we joke about one day needing to find a care home for the kinky and perverted). Owner has taught me so much about myself and has helped me to grow and evolve into my true self. i owe more to Her than i could ever possibly hope to describe. She makes me truly happy and i love Her with all my heart. 

Owner and i