Wonderful Weekend

Owner arrived safely back home on Friday after Her extended stay with Her family. It was wonderful to have Her back and i am pleased to say that, although we were apart, i kept up with my duties and studies whilst She was away. As mentioned in my last blog also Owner ensured that, although we were apart for a few days i was kept fully occupied by completing some additional activities and learning whilst She was away. The first of these was the jewellery workshop i attended one evening.

The second task set by Owner was also very interesting and has provided us with a number of ideas to help my continued development as Her wife. Owner told me to study a very interesting blog whilst we were apart about a woman in Toronto who documents Her attempts to live as a 1950s housewife with Her partner for two weeks. The blog can be found here and makes for a very interesting read. Owner requested that i read the blog in Her absence and then email a 1250 response to Owner documenting what i had learnt from the other woman's experience about life as a housewife in the 1950s and what ideas these had prompted that could be incorporated into our relationship and my service to Her as Her wife. i will post in more detail in future about this but needless to say Owner was delighted by my suggestions and has told me to start implementing some of them now.

Then over the weekend Owner treated me to a an overnight stay at the Morton Hotel just off Russel Square in London that we had never stayed in before but would highly recommend based on our own experience. i had bought us tickets to go to see the new Vikings Exhibition at the British Museum today and the hotel is just around the corner. Owner and i spent the evening in a local pub gossipping about the clientele   (our favourite activity) - though to be honest as the only male there who was wearing full makeup, dark nail polish and a pretty cardigan with a t-shirt with jeans, i suspect i was probably also the subject of gossip too!

This morning proved a real treat though. After breakfast Owner and i returned to our room where She promptly bound my wrists and then secured me to the bed before paddling me and then flogging my bits dangling from my chastised clitty. i confess that i absolutely adore being spanked and flogged on my testicles and Owner really gave them a good working over before She then pulled down Her own knickers and positioned Her backside just in front of my face for me to lick Her wonderful arse as She used Her vibrator to against Her clitty. i was in heaven as Owner buried my face in Her bottom and rode my tongue and vibrator to a powerful orgasm, whilst i remained securely bound and in chastity.I was a wonderful pleasure and treat to have an opportunity to taste and inhale Owner whilst my bits still throbbed from their flogging. Indeed, so arousing was the experience that i am still aching with pleasure now, many, many hours later! Here are a couple of pictures Owner took of me just before She rode my face.

the paddle Owner used

the impact of this flogger on my 'bits' was amazing

Flogging and paddling over Owner had me pose for Her. The hotel is themed on the art of the Bloomsbury set and Owner sought to take a few suitable shots of me posing with some of the prints etc in the room. As you can see the room was beautifully decorated.

Posing completed it was time to check out and head off to the Museum and the exhibition which was packed but very interesting.

It really has been a wonderful weekend and it is great to have Owner back. Incidentally, She starts Her new job tomorrow so wish Her well.

Whilst The Cat Is Away.....

This mouse is busy. After a lovely weekend together with Her family Owner and i are apart for this week. i am back in the UK but She doesn’t return until the end of the week. She starts Her new job on Monday and She has had a stressful time of late and Her family have also had to deal with bereavement so it’s good that She is able to spend some extra time with them. i miss Her terribly though.

Whilst i was there for the weekend we had a wonderful time together. We visited the town where She was born and i got to see the window of the very flat in which She was born as well as the flats where Her parents grew up – both at opposite ends of the same town. Owner and i even posed dancing together for Her dad in the very spot where he used to go dancing with Her mum. 

Now though i am back alone and She is still in Spain and i miss Her terribly. The good news is though that, knowing we would be apart, Owner took the time and effort to think of something practical and useful and enjoyable that i could do. She instructed me that She had found a short jewellery making workshop for me to do. Accordingly, yesterday evening after work found me at a delightful little studio/shop in West London called Homemade London. Together with our teacher myself and three women spent an hour and a half on a basic introduction to jewellery making course. It was great fun and i am now inspired (if Owner allows me) to buy some proper pliers and then start getting crafty with chains and charms. Mind you, Owner has already warned me that, since becoming feminised i like to wear jewellery too much, so this could be a dangerous new craft!

Anyway, you can see my small little creations below, one modeled on my ankle;

       

my little anklet in situ - note to self, toenails need re-painting!

bracelet and matching earrings

i am really loving the new skills i am starting to develop. Since knitting my first scarf a while ago i have knitted one for Owner from a pattern She liked and am now onto a third. Once that is done i hope to branch out to some more challenging knitting projects! Owner has also instructed that i learn some facial techniques during this phase of my development and we are both keen that we get a sewing machine so that i can start practice sewing. We have seen some beginners courses that look like they could be good for me to enrol on and there is also a local craft place that offers dress-making courses. It’s funny but i don’t hear much mention of learning crafty and other ‘domestic’ skills on other FLR blogs that i read. i really would encourage other women to have their ‘wives’ acquire skills that could be used for their Dommes benefit and also about the home, plus they are also great fun to do. All of the other people i have met on the courses i have done to date have been lovely.

Anyway, back to the here and now. There are of course plenty of things i need to be getting on with whilst Owner is away. My development and training do not stop simply because She is not here and so i am sticking to my rota of cleaning, study and other activities that i am expected to do and which do not require Her presence to be undertaken. In addition, Owner has also sent me instructions for an additional project that She requires me to complete today and has indicated She may send a further project tomorrow. We know it is best that i am kept busy and productive if i am to become the wife She wishes.

One thing that was lovely at the weekend was that Owner had advised She wished me to stay out of chastity for the duration of my stay. On our first morning at Her parents flat She had woken up and spooned Her body behind mine and then, covering my mouth with Her hand to prevent me making too much noise, grabbed my clitty with Her free hand and masturbated me whilst whispering in my ear that She wanted me to ‘cum like a slut’. i did copiously and noisily (it was a good job She was covering my mouth with Her hand to muffle my groans). Owner then scooped up my mess from my belly and the bedding and fed it to me. It really was a lovely way to start the day.

Now, however, i am safely locked up again and eagerly anticipating Her return later this week. i so hate it when we are apart. i know how lucky i am in that we live together and do everything together as a couple but it also means that when we are apart, even if just for a few days as now, i miss Her terribly. [Sent via email to Owner for checking prior to posting online].

Back to the Cinema

Owner and i went to see a movie this evening. Nothing that unusual in that you might think. However, now as part of the current phase of my development as Her ideal wife Owner requires that whenever we go to the cinema or the theatre i must wear a skirt whilst we are there.

So, here i am about to go and watch 'The Double' - which incidentally we both enjoyed

in couldn't resist flashing my crutch - what you can't see as i am also safely locked away under my tights

Spanking The Monkey

As a birthday/new job present for Owner i booked the two of us in at the lovely Apex Temple Court hotel this weekend. We both had a wonderfully relaxing time which included Owner giving me a wonderful spanking on my derriere with our hairbrush.

After She had warmed my bottom up Owner then rolled me over and positioned Her vibrator at the base of my unlocked clitty and then proceeded to spank my clitty too with the hairbrush and Her hand. It wasn't long before my hips were bucking and shuddering and i was begging to be permitted to cum as Owner spanked away at my 'bits' whilst the vibrator buzzed away against my swollen unlocked clitty. Owner granted me permission and began to rain down heavier blows against my wonderfully pummelled clitty. As She did this my legs locked straight, my knuckles whitened as they gripped the bed sheets by my side and my whole body stiffened and then spasmed and shuddered as my well and truly spanked monkey squirted across my belly. It really was a wonderful orgasm.

You'll be pleased to know, however, that immediately after Owner pronounced that i had enjoyed far too much fun and freedom this past week and that i was to lock myself back up as soon as we go home, which i have now duly done.

A Geisha In Montreal

Owner and i have just returned from our all too brief visit to Montreal. Although our visit had been cut short by 24hours for a family funeral we still managed to pack-in visits to the Old Town, The Village, Quartier Latin, the Underground City, the Place des Arts and Mont Royal. In short, we had a busy but highly enjoyable time - even getting a chance to see 'Songs of the Wanderers' by Taiwan's Cloudgate Theatre Company - which was superb.

Owner unlocked my clitty for the duration of our visit, and She had fun masturbating me and encouraging me to cum 'like a whore' for Her - which i did, loudly and copiously - after She had first taken Her pleasure with Her vibrator. Indeed, on one occasion Owner placed Her vibrator up against the base of my clitty and then just held it there until i begged Her for permission to cum. i made quite a mess of the sheets when She granted permission and i again groaned and heaved as i came. It was a wonderful treat to receive!

Owner also had me model the Kimono She requested that i order to replace my last dressing gown. You can see what it looks like below;

Tomorrow the next phase of my development starts in earnest with the commencement of Plin, Plan, Plon phase 3. i really do need to start to get my act back in gear because with the funeral, other work and family related events that have been going on and our trip to Montreal i have become in danger of becoming somewhat unfocussed, which is not something that either of us want. i need to knuckle down and focus on Owners needs and my own development again.

In the meantime, i'll leave you with some images from our little trip to Montreal.

Some of Montreal's great street art

Inside the Place des Arts

Cross on Mont Royal

Mont Royal

me having fun in the snow

Oh, and we also came across these - which looked fun and i would love to have been able to try them all!

A Difficult Week But Good Times Ahead

The past week has been a difficult one for Owner and i with two family deaths an a consequential rearrangement of our travel plans to Canada to attend a funeral. As a result neither of us have been quite our usual selves.

However, on a more positive front Owner handed in Her notice at Her current workplace and will be starting Her new job at the end of April. i am really thrilled for Her.

Today, Owner also provided me with the details of the next (3rd) phase of my development as Owner had adjudged that i had passed phase 2 of Her 'Plin, Plan Plon'. i am really excited as well as a little anxious as to whether i will be able to sustain my previous level of development whilst also successfully completing/learning the next set of skills and challenges Owner has set for me. My new development objectives - as set out in this 3rd phase of Owner Plin, Plan, Plon - are as follows;

Housework

•  Ensure all Owners clothes are hung/put away each day 
• Wife to check outside the front of the house for litter daily and tidy
• Wife to offer to book and arrange appointments for Owner
• Project:  research lounge refurbishment ideas - create portfolio
• Project:  reorganise all toys so that owner has preferred ones at hand
• At least 2 - 3 days p/w Owner gets breadless lunch to take to work
• Project:  organise Owner's wardrobe and keep tidy

Study/Skills

•  Prepare for Diplomas de Espanol como Lengua Extranjera (DELE)  level A1 exam
• Spanish reading - magazines/newspapers/books
• Spanish writing - one small written piece per week - 80 to 100 words
• Practice writing erotic short stories with the aim of publishing
• Learning how to do facial treatments
• Further knitting/sewing to create some clothing/home furnishings

Physical/Slut training

• Wearing unbuttoned blouses and remove knickers in the evening
• Learn to use Owner's preferred toys 
• Deep-throating practice once a week

General behaviour/Others

• Wife to create a spreadsheet and detail his expenditure each week
• Max. of 3 alcoholic drinks (if allowed) unless otherwise specified 
• Weekly exercise rota that must be complied with
• Wife to make labels (Naughty Poppet)* for his creations
• Wife to develop a scrap book of things he likes
• Unless instructed to relax wife always doing/finding something to do

The above are all to be demonstrated as having been achieved or built successfully into my everyday activities when Owner reviews this 3rd phase of the plan in August. i am, of course, expected to still maintain all other activities/learning developed under phases 1 and 2 and any other duties i have.

It is going to be a busy few months!

Tomorrow also marks the end of my two week no make-up punishment period. i really have missed not wearing any make-up at all and have felt quite under-dressed and so will be happy when, in the morning i can re-apply some slap again. Owner has stated that if i muck-up again it will be a longer period without make-up. i hope i have learnt my lesson and never need to b punished this way again.

Good Things Come In Threes

Just like the expression 'you spend ages waiting for a bus and then three come along together' so it has been for Owner and i this week. In short, there are three pieces of good news to impart. First, Owner passed the course She has been studying so hard for with an impressive score of 89% - She really is damn good! Second, She has received a firm job offer from another company and still has other companies interested in Her. Career wise things are really starting to look up for Her again.

Last, i passed the latest stage of Owners Plin Plan Plon training and development programme and even have this amazing certificate from Her to prove it!

Owner even gave a detailed breakdown of my performance scores against each of the main criteria of the Plan.

Needless to say i am thrilled. First and foremost i am so happy for Owner at Her passing Her course with such flying colours and securing a new job offer too. She has put a huge amount of time and effort into both enterprises and i am so proud of Her and what She has achieved. Studying and applying for jobs whilst also still working full time is not an easy task but She has pulled it off with aplomb

Second, i am really chuffed at being judged to have passed the latest phase of my development. After the punishments i received recently (see previous post) for my slip ups i wasn't sure i would make it but am delighted to have been judged to have passed by Owner. i will shortly receive the next Phase of Owners development plan and will post the details here when known to me. As has been the case with this latest phase i will be expected to continue to perform the development goals/activities to the required standard from this and the previous plan periods (Plin Plan Plon phases 1& 2) and also add on the additional development goals/activities set out in the next phase - whatever they may be. i can't wait to find out.

Life for us both truly is sweet!

Sex Toy Audit, Monthly Performance Review and Punishments

A couple of weeks ago Owner asked me to audit our current collection of sex toys - and also to research ideas for potential new toys. My audit was quite comprehensive and i am delighted to say that Owner commended me on the level of detail i had provided. You can find jpeg copies of the audit i conducted of our current toys below - including Owner decision as to whether She wants that toy to be disposed of or retained.

Current Sex Toy Audit

Ideas For Possible New Toys

Owner has requested that i provide Her with some additional details about some of those potential new toys She has expressed an interest in.

In the meantime, Owner has been reviewing my performance during the month of February. Owner noted that, although my performance was generally good, i nonetheless let Her down on three occasions. Consequently, Owner has stipulated some punishments/corrective measures that i am to undertake as a consequence of each of these failings on my part.

The first, and most serious misdemeanour of mine was that i purchased a hair reducing product without consulting Her. Owner responded to this by stating that,

'This was done on purpose without consulting Owner because pet knew Owner would disapprove.  This also has to do with two aspects of pet’s personality that can crop up sometimes:

¨ A tendency to be shallow and to worry too much about his appearance

¨ Insecurity about his looks

If Owner wanted pet to change anything about him she would say so.  I hope this is self-explanatory.

Corrective measure:

pet will not wear any make for 2 weeks starting from Monday 10^th of March'.

My second misdemeanour was that i made a sexual advance on Owner in order to try to satisfy my own selfish sexual desires, to which Owner has responded by stating,

'As agreed in pet’s development plan he should not seek to make sexual advances on his Owner.  This is also self-explanatory.

Corrective measure:

This corrective measure has started – pet has been requested to do a toy inventory for Owner with the purpose of keeping only those that would satisfy Owner’s desire.  He has also been asked to add any suggestions for new toys that would also serve that purpose. 

Any new toys that Owner decides to acquire will be paid for by pet.'

Last, one of the sandwiches i made for Owners lunch last week contained cream cheese but i forgot to inform Her of this in order that She could place the sandwich in the fridge at Her work. As a result Owner has said,

'Not the first time that pet attempts to poison Owner and this conversation has been had in the past and it’s becoming repetitive.

Corrective measure:

Next week, pet will not be allowed to have dinner with Owner during week days.  He will have his dinner in the kitchen, like a low rank servant, and he will be totally naked. 

From Monday 10^th of March to Friday 14^th of March.'

i am truly grateful to Owner for each of Her punishments and am extremely sorry to have let Her down so last month.