Keeping Busy Whilst Owner Is Away

Owner has been in Spain all of this past week (i fly out to join Her tomorrow) and i have been determined to show Her that i can be a good, hard-working housewife in Her absence. Ok, i confess, i also actually quite enjoy housework it is just i also have a slightly lazy streak that we are working hard to eradicate.

Anyway, back to this week. Before Owner left i sent Her a list of all the household cleaning and other tasks that i would try to do whilst She was away. These on top of my usual daily chores and cleaning routines and my work. It was actually quite a busy week for me work-wise. This was what i said i would do in Owners absence:

• Empty out and clean all cupboards and wardrobes in the kitchen, spare bedroom, bathroom and lounge
• Wipe down all walls
• Touch-up paintwork as needed and fill-in any cracks and paint over
• Clean all windows inside and out and wash and clean the windowsills
• Move all furniture/beds and clean underneath/behind
• Hoover and dust in the loft
• Clean the communal hallway, front door and outside porch area
• Tidy-up the garden
• Polish/de-stain all of Owners jewellery

To this list i also added:

• Clean oven, washing machine and fridge
• Wipe down all skirting boards 
• Wipe clean net curtain poles

It is now Saturday lunchtime and i have managed to get through everything above with the exception of touching up the paintwork and filling in of hairline cracks which won't take me long as will get done next and then tidying our little garden/front yard. That will be the last thing i get done.

Crikey! i am in danger of completing everything i set out to do, which begs the question, was there more i should/could have done? Working hard and keeping busy is, i know, good for me and Owner seems very pleased with how i have got on. In fact, She has been complaining about having to do things Herself in my absence whilst She is in Spain, things She would normally simply expect me to do for Her, and rightly so. i am looking forward to being reunited with Her in person not just because i love and have missed Her but also because i long to serve Her in person again.

Anyway, here are a couple of pictures of me in some of my cleaning attire, cleaning and posing

At the start of the week i also had some 'gentlemen visitors' in the form of a gas engineer servicing the boiler, a fitter measuring up for new blinds we are having installed and a technician/sales surveying and advising on a new boiler. Obviously i greeted them at the door and escorted them up the stairs in my regulation micro skirt, bra, blouse and stockings. Our staircase is steep and with me leading the way  everything is on full view.

i ended up talking to the surveyor/sales rep for a good thirty minutes as he got down all the details needed for to prepare a quote. It made me realise how far i have developed, what a slut i have become, in that i have completely normalised being on my own, talking to a man i do not know, flashing my panties as i bent over to move something out of the way or stretched to retrieve an item from a cupboard. This was what i was wearing;

i hope readers have had an equally productive week.

UPDATE - i did indeed get everything done

p.s. She may be out of the country but this post was, as always, first approved by Owner before publishing 

Public Slut

Owner occasionally loves to give me a little humiliating task or challenge to complete, just to keep me on my toes and to test my willingness to do anything that She tells me. i am, after all, expected by Her to act and behave as Her shameless slut whenever i am asked, irrespective of where we are or what i am doing.

Owner is also very creative and in the past has come up with a range of new and novel activities for me to complete to demonstrate my willingness to do as told, no matter how humiliating that might feel at the time. Examples have included going through airport security wearing a badge declaring that i am being trained (i even had to make my own badge!), wearing Her used knickers as a face mask whilst shopping, deep-throating dildo's in public etc, etc.

The subsequent successful completion of these tasks - alongside the monthly public photo shoot challenges - has boosted my self-confidence and helped me to become more comfortable embracing my inner slut.

Anyway, today i was sent on an errand to collect a prescription for Owner from the pharmacy and then buy Her a coffee from the cafe in our local park on my way home. This is something that i am often told to do. This time, however, Owner added an additional instruction. i was to write the word SLUT on my forehead in the park and then take a selfie and send it to Her as proof.

The heatwave has eased a little but it was still a warm and sunny day in London with lots of people in the park when, having bought Her coffee, i sat down on a park bench, took out the lipstick it had been agreed i should use for the purpose, and wrote SLUT on my forehead. This is what i looked like

And this was me writing on my forehead on the park bench

Note to self - i really need to be better at spacing out letters! It looks more like i have drawn a wiggly worm than written the word SLUT. Oh well, Owner was happy with my efforts.

Here is a little video of the finished 'look'. At least i did as i was told, sort of

Thank you Owner.

Nipple Stretching, Calf Exercising Plus a Sneak Preview [edited post to correct]

It is important for all of us that we exercise and maintain flexibility but especially for us older gurlies. Unfortunately, my body has the natural flexibility of a plank - looking back how i regret not having been enrolled in ballet or gymnastics classes as a child. However, i strive to maintain what little flexibility i have as i get older. It is important to Owner that, as it ages, i keep my body in as good a condition as i can for Her.

Exercise is an obvious way of doing this and i combine that with a daily regimen of stretches to help protect and strengthen my back. Housework is another excellent way to remain active and flexible - all that mopping, sweeping, dusting and cleaning etc benefits not just Owner but is also good for my body.

Prostrating myself before Her or being locked in my cage also helps to maintain flexibility.

My pussy and mouth also benefit from regular workouts and stretching to ensure they remain loose and accommodating so that they can take Owners' cock whenever She wishes. In fact just about the only part of my anatomy that does not get stretched is my clit. It stays confined. It is redundant. 

This week i have also benefited from some additional stretching activities.

Firstly, yesterday after work Owner took me out for a walk around the park. You might think it was an opportunity for me to stretch my legs after being sat in front of my computer all day and you would be correct.  However, stretching my legs was not the reason for the walk. The real reason was to stretch out my nipples and tits.

Owner instructed me to complete a lap of our local park with weights suspended from my nipple piercings. i put on my customised 'free the nipple' top and then 200g (6oz) was suspended from each tit and She and i set off for a lap of the park. 

Owner took these pictures of my nipples and titties being given a stretch during our walk.

The day before Owner had instructed me to prepare and serve Her dinner wearing high heels and dressed like a slut. i wore an old party dress with stockings and heels - no knickers of course! 

It has been a while since i last spent any time in high heels and by the time i took them off my calves were aching from the workout they had received and were in need of a good stretch afterwards

washing up in my heels after dinner

Like i say, Owner ensures that every part of my body bar my clit benefits from exercise and a good stretch.

This Saturday is the 16th and regular readers will be pleased to know that, after the hiatus last month when Owner and i were in Japan, it will see the return of my monthly outdoor challenge. That time each month when i get set public dress-up challenges via Owners dice. However, this month will be different in that Owner has already decided what outfit She wants me to go out in public wearing. She has told me to wear the fabulous kawaii skirt She bought me when we were in Japan and to team it with my white and pink cropped top. The latter has the words 'Breedable and Submissive' emblazoned across the front, just in case anyone might be in any doubt about whether i am fuckable and do what i am told :).

This is what i will be wearing.

i am super excited and cannot wait to hit the streets dressed like this in a few days time! Wish me luck.  

More Time With Parents + Location, Location, Location + Sluttiness

The weekend just gone saw another of my parents birthdays being celebrated, this time it was my Dad's on the occasion of his 83rd. The good news, however, was that on this occasion i was not traveling without Owner, She accompanied me on the trip down to Devon in SW England to mark the occasion with him.

The visit went well and my Dad enjoyed his birthday, which was the most important thing.

On the way back to London Owner conducted a little bra and breast 'inspection' of me on the train, as you can see :)

In other news. One thing that i really love and which i find quite comforting is for Owner to always know where i am. It is expected that, unless out accompanying Her, my place is in Her home. However, there are still occasions when i need to leave the flat, such as to attend a work meeting/event or to run an errand for Owner or for a family visit that Owner cannot make.  

To me it is important that Owner should always have the means of knowing where i am, and technology now enables that. So it is that i have now voluntarily started sharing my location data from my mobile phone with Owner 24/7. She may not check it but to me that is not really the point, i don't sneak out without Her knowledge! It is more that, as a someone She owns, who belongs to Her and who submits to Her, i feel that She should have the right to know exactly where i am at all times. To me Her being able to track me 24/7, should She ever wish to, is something that just feels right and proper. i don't know if any other readers have a similar arrangements with their owner or dominant partner?

Finally, Owner and i were both working from home today. We have had a problem with our sink drainage pipe which our neighbours advised was leaking into their garden whenever i washed up. Accordingly, i arranged for a plumber to come and fix the problem. As usual i was wearing my favourite skirt, my little black one. This is the view the plumber will have had as he followed me upstairs from our front door and into our flat

Meanwhile, this was me 'supervising' the work :)

Yes, i am wearing panties! A g-string

i am pleased to report that the leak was successfully fixed.

Juggling Time and Space plus Slut Moves

Readers may recall that Owner and I purchased a second flat about 15 months ago. This second property is in Owners home town in Spain and provides us with somewhere to stay when we are visiting. It is also somewhere Owner can work from whenever She chooses whilst also being close to Her family and friends.

Owners expectation (rightly) of me, and my own desire, is that I should provide and maintain the same level of submission to and service for Her at each of Her properties. In fact, Owner should expect me, as Her submissive wife to serve and submit to Her at all times, irrespective of location.

Owner also expects, again rightly, that my place should always be at home, unless I have been invited to accompany Her or am running an errand for Her. This is also something I want as well, namely to be expected to always be at home with Her or waiting for Her, and allowed out only when accompanied by Her or to run an errand for Her.

These mutual desires and expectations work well for the most part, with one big exception. Work. My job does not allow me to work from abroad whereas Owners does. My job also requires that i sometimes attend external meetings or present at conferences/events. The latter i try to minimise. I will also only attend something for work that necessitates me being away from Owner overnight if She permits it.  If She does not i will not do it. Only in certain very restricted circumstances e.g.if i am visiting my elderly father who lives some distance away should Owner find Herself without Her submissive wife at home.

This usually works well. i have grown accustomed to being at home by Owners side or waiting at home for Her return. My work also now knows not to expect me to attend something that necessitates an overnight stay. Gone too are the days when i might attend after work socials if i am in the office. Now i choose to return straight home and am happier and healthier as a result. In short, and even a little to my own surprise, i love being as much of a stay-at-home wife as i can possibly be.

This may sound extreme, my younger-self definitely would have thought so, but it is how we both like and want to live our lives. Owner expects me to be with Her always or, if She is out without me, expects that i am at home waiting for Her. When She goes out and socialises with Her friends i remain at home, venturing out only to come and meet Her and carry Her bag as i accompany Her home from the station or go on somewhere else with Her. For my part i love the fact that, work aside, i can only go out with Owners permission and then only to run errands for Her or to visit family.

Work, however, can still complicate matters.

Just under a fortnight ago Owner travelled out to stay and work from Her flat in Spain and to catch-up with family and friends. Her plan was to work for a week then spend another week out there on holiday. By rights She ought to be able to expect me to accompany Her. However, i was only able to join Her for part of the time as i am not permitted to work from abroad and did not have the days to take as leave. Worse still, i had a conference mid-way through Owners second week away that i needed to present at in London. At the time i agreed to do it i had thought nothing of it as was in London and would not necessitate an overnight stay and Owner did not, at that stage, have any plans to travel to Spain. When She booked and i realised i had a diary clash i mistakenly felt obliged to still cover the event as i had previously had to pull out of another, run by the same people, at short notice due to ill health. i felt i could not let them down twice.

So it was that Owner found Herself without me by Her side in Her flat in Spain for just under a week before i flew out to join Her for a few days, only for me to then have to return ahead of Her (She returns today, Saturday) to present at this conference. We both really missed each other during this period apart from one another although i at least got to spend a few days with Her out there.

Whilst we were separated the first week i kept getting lovely but painful to read messages from Owner saying, not just that She missed me but also how horrible it was that She was now left having to do things in Her flat, things that by rights She ought to be able to simply expect me to do, like cleaning. i did try to make amends by doing my chores whilst out there but i felt really bad knowing that Owner did not have me there with Her to start with and so was needing to spend time doing things that rightfully She ought to not have to do. She ought to be able to always depend on Her stay-at-home submissive wife to do them for Her.

i perhaps make it sound like we didn’t also go out and have fun together, we absolutely did. We took a day trip up the coast, we attended the midnight bonfire and fireworks on the beach to mark the shortest night, we had a boozy night out with Her sister and Her sisters partner and we hosted and entertained Her family and their respective partners.

Incidentally, one thing i have come to love about time in the flat out in Spain is the fact that it is easy for Owner to invite all Her family over and the opportunity that provides me with to try to demonstrate my domestic service training. Owner and i don’t really entertain in London so i don’t really have an opportunity to display my ‘service’ to others. In Spain i do, even if discretely. My hope is that Owners family all think that She has me well-trained and under Her control😊.

My time in Spain was, however, regrettably short as I had to return to the UK for this damned conference. My leaving early, though known about in advance, still upset and annoyed Owner. In hindsight, i was wrong to have put my attendance at this event ahead of staying at Her side and She was right to be disappointed in me. At the time i said yes to the conference i did not know about the Spain trip and did not think to discuss my attendance with Owner as the event was in London so no overnight stay was needed. However, in the intervening time Owner organised to go to Spain and i should, i now realise, have adjusted accordingly. Her needs and expectations should always come first and, on this occasion, i failed Her.  Now Owner has two homes i need to adjust my thinking and my mindset, plan ahead but also be adaptable so that She can be confident that i will be with Her/in Her flat looking after it and Her whether She be in London or Spain. Neither of us would want for this to happen again.

The sooner we can both retire the better. Then there will really be no need or excuse, bar occasional family visits, for me to be anywhere other than:

• At home in whichever of Owners flats, be that London or Spain, She is using at the time
• Accompanying Owner outside when invited to join Her
•  Undertaking a solo errand or task for Owner

When i am alone at home i always contact Owner and tell Her what clothes i propose to wear that day and seek Her permission to do so before then getting dressed. We did try having Her choose my outfits for me in advance but it became quite tiresome for Owner to have to think about so we agreed i can choose but then must seek Her approval before wearing.

Yesterday was just such a day. It also being a Friday it was also one of my more ‘dress-down’ for work days. Accordingly, as we exchanged morning wishes on whatsapp, me in London and Owner in Spain, i sought Her permission to wear this outfit, namely my red bra, pattered white blouse and my wrap tartan skirt. As i am demonstrating it was worn without knickers

By the way, as you can see i am back (finally) into chastity. Owner agreed i perform better and have a better (submissive) mindset when i am locked, even though She enjoys the opportunity to ‘tease’ me when I am unlocked. i am back in an old device of mine pending the arrival of a new one – we have tried a few different ones lately with no real success.

But, back to yesterday. My, i think, suitably slutty outfit led to two memorable moments during the day. The first happened on a work Teams call when i suddenly saw on the screen that as i was leaning forwards over my laptop my blouse was ‘gaping open’ a bit and my bright red bra strap and part of the bra cup was clearly visible. For a second i thought about hastily trying to cover myself but realised that it must have been visible for a good few minutes and any sudden move to cover would only serve to further draw my colleagues attention to it. So instead I thought ‘fuck it’ and continued the meeting, bra partially in view. Slut move number 1.

Then later in the day the grocery delivery arrived. i knew this was coming as i had booked it the previous day. Anyway, i pranced downstairs to our front door to take delivery dressed as above (albeit with skirt covering chastity cage but still sans panties). The driver was a short, middle-aged, balding man whose eyes popped out in surprise when he saw what i was wearing. Honestly, he gave me a full, slow look his eyes slowly moving up from my bare legs, the hem of my skirt to my navel and then to my bust. It is the most blatantly and salaciously i have ever been stared at by a stranger. i possibly made it worst for him as well each time i bent down to pick up the groceries and carry them inside. Poor chap 😊. Little did he know (i was facing him as i bent down) that were I bent over a bed i would have looked like this

pussy open and ready, as always!

Slut move number 2.

Now, where did that aubergine go? 😊