Hot, Wet and Steamy in the City

It may be winter outside but Owner and i have just returned from a wonderful hot, wet and steamy 24hours in the ever amazing city in which we live. Owner took me away for a belated birthday celebration to a hotel in Bermondsey in London, close to London Bridge and The Shard, called the Bermondsey Square Hotel. Owner booked us into a top floor suite which had an outdoor hottub which afforded fabulous views towards the London Eye and equally fabulous opportunities for yours truly to prance about in my heels and bikini.

If there is one thing that i really can't resist then that is an opportunity to wear not a lot outside, be photographed just wearing heels and lingerie in a hotel corridor, put on a dress or generally just try to act the tart that i am at heart. It was an absolutely wonderful 24hours. Owner also let me have an alcoholic drink when we out on Saturday evening and She chose a wonderful meal for me to have in the restaurant.

This morning She even permitted me to choose my own breakfast and we followed that off with another refreshing dip in the hottub before doing some more cultural activities in the Fashion and Textile Museum and then at the White Cube Gallery (wonderful exhibition entitled Walhalla by Anselm Kiefer).

This video by Owner (and what a great video editor She is) shows some of the highlights from our short stay.

The build-up to our trip was equally exciting. i was working from home on Friday and so was wearing this 'dress down Friday' outfit.

Shortly after this shot was taken our neighbour rang the doorbell and so she too got to see me in my tights and shorts with a blouse and my 'breasts' from my new padded bra. She seemed momentarily surprised by my outfit but she didn't say anything, neither did the supermarket delivery driver when he called came later to delivery our groceries - though he did offer to give me a hand up the stairs with them :) - they never normally do that. Owner also permitted me to wear my heavy metal butt plug in my 'pussy' for two hours in the day whilst i was working.

It was a wonderful prelude to the fun and games on the hotel balcony the following day. Readers will be relieved to know (ha, ha!) though that underneath all my various outfits i remained safely locked up in chastity. My new 'nano' device has been in situ without a break for almost a month now (i will post a review shortly) and it has now been almost six months since i last had an orgasm. i am genuinely loving my locked and denied life.

Hope you liked the video.

Lights, Camera, Action! - Video Time

You know that feeling you get when you are waiting for a bus? You wait for ages and none appear and then suddenly a few turn up at the same time, well you might feel that way about these videos. i have been promising since last year that Owner and i will shortly be making some videos covering aspects of our life together and my training and development. Well, after a series of technical glitches and assorted interruptions due to work, life and travel etc we now have, not one but two videos ready for you.

The first video covers my daily routine and the key things that i do everyday of my life as part of my service and submission to Owner. We hope that you like it, it took a lot of effort on Owners part to edit and produce and there were a number of false starts. However, we're both pleased with the end result and have learnt a lot along the way (and i have learnt that in future i need to sit with my shoulders straight!). Anyway, let us know what you think, the video is below:

The second video is shorter and was shot this afternoon on a windy day in London and is me wearing my high heels on Blackheath. Sadly, i appear to have forgotten how to swing one of my arms - think i need some more catwalk practice :)

We hope you like our videos.

Dress Down Friday, Chastity and High Heels

As i have previously blogged about Owner has stipulated what style of 'uniform' i am to wear when i work from home, either a smart skirt and blouse or smart trousers with blouse and a pair of flats. She has identified items that are appropriate as work uniforms and since then these are what i have been wearing when working from home, paired with either stockings or tights (depending on the weather). At first i confess that i was a little nervous at the prospect of potentially having to interact with our downstairs neighbour or with delivery people etc whilst wearing my new 'uniform'. However, having now met and talked with my neighbour so dressed and with a number of different delivery people (supermarket delivery drivers, parcel deliveries, postman etc) i have now gotten a lot more used to it.  In fact, i actually wake-up quite excited at the prospect of dressing up in my work uniform when i don't have to go into the office.

Then, a few weeks ago, Owner had the idea of introducing a 'dress down Friday' theme when i work from home on a Friday. This is how i interpreted 'dress down Friday' whilst working from home a few days ago;

Owner has, however, pointed me in the direction of this 'Casual but sexy' page on Pinterest to show me the sorts of outfits that She expects me to wear when i work from home in future on a Friday. The page is great and full of inspirational ideas. The trick now will be for me to try and pull off a casual yet sexy look on future Fridays.

Owner has also decided that She would like me to get a new chastity device. Although i have a Mature Metal device it has not been worn much of late, in part because i lost the locking pin and so have had to use a screw instead, something Owner rightly says is not really appropriate. Anyway, She told me to research potential new devices.

Over the many years in which chastity has figured i our relationship i have had a number of different devices, some good and some less so. It was interesting to once again have a look and see what, if any new chastity products were available on the market since the last time we researched. The good news was that there were some new ones. The device we both particulalrly liked is one that is called the 'Holy Trainer' (great name!) and is available in regular and small, and is also available in pink. The small pink version is the one that i will be getting. It should arrive later this week and i will post about it in future. One advantage of a return to non-metal devices that Owner highlighted was that it should be OK to wear through airport security. As you know we both travel a fair amount and it would be great to have a device that could remain in situ when we do so. We are off to Northern Norway in a few weeks so that could be a good time to test it through the security at the airport.

This morning, however, Owner treated me to an intense orgasm, my first in over a month. First, She caressed and teased me and then She gagged with with the cock gag before having me position myself on the bed on my belly. Owner then took our Her favourite vibrator and wedged it between my butt cheeks and proceeded to 'ride' and pleasure Herself astride of me. Then She told me She wanted to fuck my face and rolled me over and sat astride my head and squatted down so that She was resting Her weight on my gagged mouth. My nostrils were filled with Her scent as She continued to pleasure Herself with Her vibrator whilst grinding down on my gagged mouth, ensuring my mouth was well and truly stuffed full of cock.

After Her own orgasm Owner then switched Her attention to me. She positioned Her vibrator on my belly, so that it nestled just under my excited and aroused little clit. Then She retrieved Her riding crop and proceeded to crop my clit and nipples. Owner was soon beating my clit hard with Her riding crop and then switched Her attention to my exposed and vulnerable 'labia'. She knows how aroused i get when She beats these hard and regular readers will know that most, if not all of the orgasms i am permitted these days come about as a result of Her beating my bits. The combination of Her beating me with the riding crop and the vibrator buzzing away against the head of my clit soon had me highly aroused. Owner granted me permission to come 'like the slut i am' and no sooner than She had given Her consent than a month's worth of cum was squirting and splashing and soaking my belly. Owner scooped my mess up with Her vibrator and Her hand, then un-gagged me and fed me my mess, having me lick and fellate the dildo and pouring and wiping the mess from Her hand into my eager mouth. i truly am lucky to be treated so well by Her! :)

Later today we are heading out, in part for me to complete a challenge wearing high heels in public. i will update about that and our upcoming video in my next post.

The Joy Of Learning

Owner is, by profession, a trainer and so it should come as no surprise that She puts quite an emphasis on my learning and acquiring new skills and abilities at the heart of my development as Her wife. Over the past couple of years i have studied and attended courses ranging from knitting, jewellery making and embroidery through to reflexology, manicures and massage.  All of these offer practical benefits to Owner in that they diversify the range of useful services i can provide to Her and/or generate things She or we both can enjoy.

In addition, although Owner has lived in London for longer than me She is Spanish by nationality and may one day wish to return to Spain. As Her wife it goes without saying that i would of course go with Her should She ever decide to make such a move. This became the spur for me to try to learn Spanish and Her guidance has helped me to progress to a level of language ability, which though basic, i had all but assumed i was completely incapable of given that every previous attempt on my part learn another language, any language had ended in utter failure.

In short, Owner has encouraged and pushed me to learn a lot and i have had tremendous fun doing so. The study has, for the most part always been enjoyable, and i have had the pleasure of meeting lots of other interesting students and teachers along the way.

However, the latest learning project that i am embarking on at Owner's request promises to take the notion of enjoying your studies to a whole new level. Owner likes to hear about and read my sexual fantasies. She also wants me to try to earn some money for Her. Owner began to encourage me to write and publish some erotic short stories last year and i have published a couple on lulu.com - to a deafening silence. Owner expects me to improve my erotic writing skills and start to sell some stories and so to achieve these outcomes She instructed me to enrol on an erotic writing course run by wade-erotic.

The course looks very interesting and i have now enrolled. One of the points that the tutor makes in the first lesson is the importance of reading other erotic fiction - which is obviously going to be a real chore to have to do! :) i will let you know how i get on and, if i manage to come up with any stories that my tutor thinks has merit, i will share them on the blog for your feedback as well.

Another recent idea of Owners is that i should start to make and publish 'instructional videos'. Her rationale is that i have learnt or acquired a number of skills over the years that others might find of interest and am also something of an exhibitionist (as this blog attests to) and like to perform. Owner would like to know if there are any particular 'instructional type' videos readers i.e. you, would find of interest?  i would 'perform' the task, whatever that is and She would film. We would both be very interested to hear of any ideas or suggestions you may have. We will also be developing some of our own and i hope we will start to make some videos available in the coming months.

i do love these opportunities Owner provides for me to learn new things and am also ridiculously excited at the prospect of being on camera!

Izzy Wizzy Let's Get Busy

As the title suggests this is proving to to a very busy month for Owner and i. Both of us are studying outside of our normal working hours, except in Owners case She is studying to help further Her career whereas in my case i am continuing to seek to develop skills appropriate as Owners wife.

Owner has commenced an intensive career-related training course that occupies much of Her free time at the moment. i try to be as helpful as i can for Her by ensuring nothing disturbs Her study or by offering Her support and advice if and when requested. We joke that wouldn't it be good if She could work for Herself and i gave-up my job and became Her secretary instead - sadly this isn't a viable financial option and of course it would be even better if neither of us actually needed to work in the first place. But it would be great to be of service to Owner at work as well as outside.

Meanwhile, in addition to my ongoing Spanish study i have also started a knitting class. i have not knitted since school (and then only very badly) but Owner has stated that i should develop skills appropriate to and becoming of Her wife and i am really enjoying learning. i was inordinately excited when i completed my first mini-homework project- to produce a cloth using a combination of knit and purl - and during last nights class i progressed onto the art of cabling. For our class next week i need to bring in a pattern that i want to create. Mine will still be basic, am thinking of a pretty scarf, but i want to set a goal of producing a project every X number of weeks/months. i also found out last night that the teacher also teaches dress-making. First, i need to learn to sew and use a machine but dress-making would be fun and practical too :).

At the end of this month i am also doing a basic reflexology course to improve my foot massage skills and then in February i am booked onto an Indian head massage course and a manicure and pedicure course. With the latter i would like to progress onto a full beauty therapy course, but we'll see how i get on. However, the general ambition of Owners is that Her wife should be equipped with a full range of skills from the practical at one end to the downright dirty at the other.

For me i really enjoy learning anyway and am really enjoying the opportunity to develop new skills and abilities, skills which i hope will prove of use to Owner. i'd be interested if there are any skills or crafts that readers are studying/have studied? In addition to the courses i mentioned above which i am already enrolled on i am also keen to study the following, again all of which i think could be of practical benefit to Owner;

• sewing/needlework
• dress-making
• full beauty therapy course
• cup-cake design
• flower arranging
• embroidery
• lace-making
• web-design 

i mentioned that Owner is keen that i develop the full range of skills becoming of Her wife and that these are on a spectrum. At one end there are the practical skills/abilities highlighted above. At the other end there is being a wanton slut.

i did once research whether there was such a thing as a 'glamour model' course or a course for wannabe sluts, sadly nothing was found (gap in the market?). However, we did find a few glamour photography (how to) books. Being photographed by Owner/or posing for Her amusement is something we both greatly enjoy. However, i can also sometimes be shy/get embarrassed when posing in public, being publicly molested by Her and so forth. As Owners wife She expects me to act as  a slutty whore whenever She would like me to. Accordingly, Owner has an ongoing project to train me to overcome my remaining shyness/hesitation - much of which has been documented here in the form of public challenges etc.

However, in addition to this Owner also expects me to keep Her regularly supplied with naughty photos or porn clips. i'll leave you with the latest of the little videos i made

Videos and Piercing

Whilst Owner and i were on our holidays in the Balkans Owner shot a couple of little videos of me. This first one is me posing next to the road and our hire car on the Lustica peninsula

 

Whilst this next one is me looking very nervous indeed whilst undressing and playing with myself on a beach near to the wonderful island of Sv Stefan. i think i can safely say that the porn industry is a better place for my absence!

We both really enjoy making these little films and although i am naturally quite an exhibitionist and have been since i was a child i still have some way to go until i have become the totally wanton performer Owner deserves. i remain somewhat shy still but am gradually becoming less so under Owners supervision and guidance.

Now we are back home Owner is in the midst of the horror of workplace redundancies and having to compete for Her job with other colleagues. i really do feel for Her as it is a horrible situation to be in. Hopefully, however, it will be over soon with a positive outcome for Her. Meanwhile, Her parents are coming to visit soon for a week so i have been trying to ensure that everything is in the flat is to a standard that will pass 'inspection'.

Despite this we have also been trying to further our plans for the remainder of what will be a very exciting year for us both with a number of developments planned. One wonderful event Owner has planned by way of Her anniversary present to me is that She is getting me pierced in my belly button (to compliment my nipple and ear piercings). Accordingly, this morning as we snuggled in bed together Owner researched different ideas for ring designs to adorn my belly. i can't wait to be able to parade around in a short little top with a nipple ring glittering and twinkling above my belly chain. i love being adorned this way and know that i am very lucky to have an Owner who is also happy to have Her pet decorated in this manner.

Incidentally, you may have noticed the new map and photo widget that has appeared on the side of the blog. It is an experiment. Owner said it would be nice to have a map record of my challenges on the blog. This is an attempt to create something like. i have only put a few things on it at the moment. If anyone has any comments/suggestions about it or a better map widget to use please do let us know.

By 'Royal Appointment'

Today was an opportunity for Owner and i to head back into town for me to complete some of my last remaining World Cup challenges. On getting to the tube station the first challenge was to bend over so that i flashed the top of my pink thong over the top of my jeans (something that then happened repeatedly during the day as my jeans are girls low-cut ones) and then Owner and i set off on our little adventure. First stop was Buckingham Palace which i was to wear my crown in front of. When we arrived there were hoardes of tourists who'd all come to see the changing of the guards. Well, they got to see me in my crown as well;

Having greeted my subjects (Lol!) it was then off to Trafalgar Square (via a pit stop in St James Park to re-fuel on caffeine) for my ultimate challenge to date, walking across Trafalgar Square in my see-thru lace top with pink bra underneath. Owner was delighted with the result

 

We were both quite chuffed by how it went, and being the exhibitionist i am i'm loving Owners recent interest in videoing my challenges. Anyway, challenge completed we headed into Soho for a late lunch before heading home. There is still one more potential classic World Cup challenge for me to complete which involves me wearing my bikini in Hyde Park and then that is the lot. We'll both miss them but i have a feeling that it probably won't be long before Owner has me doing some more.

Kim Bassinger i Ain't

Well that's my Kim Bassinger 9 1/2 Weeks challenge completed

i don't think Kim need be too worried about the competition!