Update and Review Meeting Request from Owner

For what has felt like the first time in ages i actually got to work from home one day this last week. Thus, i was able to dress up in my usual home working uniform. i can't tell you how much we have both missed it (both Owner and i) but it was lovely to be able to do again. Owner remarked that She too has missed having not Her 'wife' dressed appropriately and working from home lately (even though She has to go into Her office). We had no deliveries or other visitors during the day so i didn't get to parade around in front of others but it was lovely to be back at home dressed appropriately for work. This is what i was wearing, nothing fancy, just one of my office 'uniforms',

i am working from home one day this coming week too and am looking forward to the prospect of dressign appropriately again already. Incidentally, i got my haircut yesterday so it now looks a little shorter than it does in the picture above.

This mornign before breakfast Owner treated me to a wonderful orgasm (i have been out of chastity all summer at Her request). Owner awoke and began to rub Herself against my body, touching and fondling my 'clit' and my 'pussy', caressing my nipples and stripping me out of my nightie. Next She straddled my hips and, placing Her vibrator against Her clitoris, She proceeded to rub Herself against the shaft of my excited little clit until She orgasmed. It was wonderful to lie there and watch Her as She focussed on pleasuring Herself this way. allowing me the opportunity to caress Her breasts at the same time.

After satiating Herself Owner then reversed positions so that She was facing away from me and began to gently beat and strike my clit and then masturbate it whiilst presenting me with Her anus to lick. The opportunity to do this always drives me insane with excitement and arousal and, coupled with the mild clit spanking, it wasnt long before my clit was ready to explode over my belly, which She allowed me to do.

After making breakfast i then set about doing some washing and laundry, changng the bedding and preparing dinner for later. As i did i was conscious that Owner was busy doing somethign in the loubge but did not know what. It soon transpired that She was setting up a meeting with me to formally review our 'Housewife Academy' and how to pick-up and take forward my training again after a period in which things have slipped (see previous posts). But, it is  not any old meeting. She has booked us both into a hotel for the night in a few weeks time so that we will be undisturbed and She can conduct the review of my behaviour, performance and development without distractions.

i will, of course, update you on the outcome of the meeting afterwards. However, in the meantime, it does now feel like we are starting to get back to 'normal' again.

Training and Development Update

This afternoon Owner and i had one of our regular reviews of my ongoing training and development. Readers may recall that Owner has developed a programme for me which She calls Her housewife Academy. This is divided into four broad training and development areas encompassing:

• Domestic diva
• Sex kitten
• Submissive pet
• Multi-tasking ninja

i am given goals to achieve under each category and, when these have either been successfully completed or incorporated into my daily life (where they require an ongoing and permanent change) new ones are added until these too have been completed, and so on and so on. Anyway, today Owner agreed that sufficient progress had been made to warrant some new additions to my learning and development.

As of today i have, therefore, had the following added;

Domestic Diva

• research a sewing project for our flat that i could complete if i am permitted to purchase a sewing machine, now that i have completed a course on learning to use sewing machines.
• do an audit of our houseplants and remove ones that are not looking too good and tidy up the plants we have outside

Sex Kitten

• Drink a glass of Owners urine once a day at weekends

Submissive Pet

• Restrict my coffee intake by only being permitted to drink coffee in the morning and to have a single one straight after lunch (this afternoon coffee to be removed over time i.e. so that i will only be permitted coffees in the morning)
• Initiate a system of 'on the spot' punishments for any transgressions - Owner has written out a series of punishment cards (about 20 of them) which She has placed into a bag. Whenever i do something wrong i will have to take a card from the bag and complete the punishment on the card. These range from canings, standing facing the wall to being clamped on my nipples, having mini metal clothes pegs attached to my testes or adopting the plank position and combinations thereof.

Multi-Tasking Ninja

•  Three times a week to only be permitted to read or listen to Spanish magazines or websites on my tablet in bed to improve my Spanish and create a log of all that i have read/listened to.

Hopefully i will soon have either completed or have sufficiently incorporated the above into daily life for further tasks or activities to be added. This is how Owner trains me to become Her ideal submissive wife, adding new restrictions or challenges or tasks to complete, waiting until they have been done or normalised into our relationship and then adding new ones.

Meanwhile, my testicles still throb exquisitely from the spanking they received this morning. Today has been a good day :).

Sewing Lesson Part 2 - i made a skirt

Yesterday i had the second of the two sewing machine lessons that Owner had instructed me to enrol onto. Like the previous lesson this was an all day session held at a lovely place in East London called  Fabrications. Once again, i was the only non-female in the class. In this lesson we learnt how to attach zips and make button holes using sewing machines and also how to create a lined edge. In the afternoon we had a choice of making either a pair of shorts or a skirt, i chose a skirt.

Owner had permitted me to buy some fabric so i was able to choose a nice black and white one from the shop to make my skirt out of. The tutor showed me some examples of different styles of skirts i could attempt to make and i chose a less fitted design that i said i wanted to come to just above my knee. She then measured me to get the correct sizes and i was off. The first stage was to cut the fabric into two equal lengths. However, it took me a while as the fabric i had chosen was heavily patterned and i wanted to ensure that the patterns aligned on the finished product, i know Owner has an eye for such things and didn't want to disappoint Her.

Next, it was back to the machine and beginning the process of sewing the skirt together, creating the gathers and fitting the zip etc. i confess i made a number of errors and actually broke the sewing machine needle twice by running it over the zip! However, i eventually, with a lot of help from the tutor, succeeded in assembling my skirt to a point where it was almost ready to wear. She had me put the unfinished skirt on a few times to check it would fit as the skirt slowly came together. However, time passed and it was starting to get late. i was due to meet Owner for dinner and had to leave before the skirt was 100% finished in order to make my rendezvous with Owner who was taking me out for dinner and cocktails! As a result the final fitting of the side poppers on the skirt had to wait until the next day at home.

This morning i attached the popper fastenings and hey presto! What the tutor had described as my '1950's housewife' skirt was finally complete. It is far, far from perfect but i am still quite proud of my first attempt at making a garment on a sewing machine. Owner would like me to put my new found sewing skills to good and so shortly i have been permitted to buy a machine to have at home where i can practice making, decorating and repairing more items - just as She would like Her housewife to be able to.

Let me know what you think of my creation.

Modelling the skirt skirt i made

Attaching the poppers to my skirt back at home

New Skills for Owner's Wife

Owner is a firm believer in Her wife (yours truly) having a range of practical and useful skills becoming of her station in our relationship. Thus, so far i have undertaken a range of different short courses and classes encompassing knitting, massage, manicure, flower arranging etc. All have been great fun to do, a chance to learn some new skills in the company of others and then apply them at home for Owners benefit. Owner has now identified a new skill She would like me t learn and some courses for me to do, namely sewing using a machine. Accordingly, over two weekends next month i will be attending some beginners sewing classes, learning how to use a sewing machine and progressing through to being able to make a basic skirt. i am excited and grateful to Owner for encouraging my continued development in this way.

In other news, my ankle tattoo is healing nicely and we're both very pleased with it. i have also been continuing to enjoy some days working from home with Owner, which has been a real pleasure. Owner took this picture of me wearing my glasses - my eyesight is not quite what it once was but Owner and i both think i look quite secretarial in these.

Meanwhile, it has now been well over seven months since i last had an orgasm and i have been continuously locked 24/7 in my chastity device since early January without release. i am really enjoying my new totally chaste state :)

New Tasks and a Lovely Start to the Day

Owners review of my performance got a little delayed but has now been completed and She has started to identify some new tasks, behaviours and areas of learning for me to complete. Overall, She adjudged that all that i could do, from my previous review, had been done. There were a couple of outstanding items but these have gone on hold as they will not be possible to fully implement until Her shoulder is fully recovered (such as receiving weekly canings).

Meanwhile, Owner has started to identify some new things for me to undertake, including to book myself onto a course from a list of suggested options She provided. These included a lingerie making workshop, a dress making workshop and a handbag making workshop amongst others. i am really thrilled and excited at the prospect of doing another course as it has been a while since i last did one (flower arranging back in the autumn). They are always good fun to do and they help build up my portfolio of useful and practical skills. i will, of course, keep you posted on which course i end up doing and report back on how it goes.

Owner had also requested that i make a flower arranging tutorial-style video and has also stipulated that She would like me to put on a monthly show for Her, which She may video. These shows are to be varied and not all should be stripteases. i used to put on shows for Her in the past but then rather got out of the habit, it will be fun putting them on again.

Owner is still adding items of learning/development for me for this next stage of Her 'housewife academy' as She describes it and i look forward to seeing what these might be as they are revealed to me.

Meanwhile, i was the lucky recipient of a lovely treat this morning. Owner used the leather fly swat to spank my breasts and then repeatedly spank my testicles (or labia). My little locked up clit got very excited by this and i eagerly spread my thighs wide open and lifted my hips  to afford Her an easier target. Owner then had  me rub myself against Her foot with my pussy. i was soon on all fours eagerly spreading my cheeks and rubbing my pussy all over Her wonderful foot whilst Her toes pushed hard against and pleasured the entrance of my sex. All the while Owner continued to spank my dangling labia with the fly swat. At one point i was told to suck and lick Her foot and i revelled in taking it completely inside my mouth and moistening it thoroughly before She once again explored the entrance of my pussy with it whilst continuing to spank me hard on my bits. By this point i was starting to really get excited and, sensing this, Owner brought proceedings to a halt, having me lick and suck Her foot and toes clean before dispatching me to prepare breakfast. It was wonderful to be aroused and denied this way and my little clit bulged happily in its cage.

It's now been well over six months since i last had an orgasm and i have been locked away in my xtra small nano chastity device continuously since the early January. It may sound an odd thing to say but the longer i am denied and kept locked up the happier and more focused on my daily duties i become, and with that hopefully i continue to become a better wife to Owner as well.

Chilling before the Verdict

The times they have been quite easy the past few days. Yesterday i was working from home and, it being dress down Friday, had Owners permission to wear a more informal outfit. This is what i had on, as you can see i was in my element

Then today, Owner and i went to a great exhibition of kinetic artworks in London after which we went fro lunch and then had drinks in a local pub. This is the first time we have gone out for a Saturday afternoon drink in, well months really. It was lovely to do and we both had a really enjoyable time. Here we are relaxing in the bar

Tomorrow, i have my review with Owner during which She will give Her assessment of how i have been performing as Her submissive wife over the past few months. Although there was a period towards the end of last year where i freely admit i was not performing at my best i think i have got into a much better groove since Xmas. i feel my performance has been much better and also feel happier in myself as a result. i guess i will discover tomorrow whether or not Owner concurs.

Travails and Flower Arranging

i would had hoped that this post would have included an account of Owner and my planned holiday to Denmark, but unfortunately the holiday did not happen. Two days before we  were due to travel my back went big time, to the point where i was physically unable to move. It was the worst it has been in almost 5 years. We had to cancel everything as just getting out of the bedroom was a struggle, let alone travelling to Denmark. So instead of two weeks on holiday, Owner spent an extra two weeks at work and a month looking after me - which She did a fantastic job of.

The good news is that i am now much better than i was. I can walk normally again and can sit down now too - you forget how useful it is to be able to do this! The bad news, however, is that Owner has injured Herself (a torn arm muscle) - which in turn has meant She has not been sleeping and thus not feeling well. This coupled with Her also having very bad period migraines this month has meant that our flat has become more of an infirmary than a den of sexual deviance and submission of late!

However, one sign that my own recovery is well on the way was that yesterday i was able to attend a half day vintage flower arranging class that i had booked a few months ago. Owner had asked me to attend it as part of my development as Her wife, flower arranging being a skill She wants me to acquire. The class was held at a lovely South London florists called Pesh Flowers.

i had a wonderful time and managed to create the following two arrangements which i was very proud of and the tutor seemed to like too - Owner was delighted with them. What do you think?

Both arrangements are now brightening up our flat/hospital.

Owner and i are hoping we might both be OK to go on holiday in early November instead. i hope so.

Caning, Flower Arranging and 'Pussy' Training

You might rightly wonder what all of the above have in common? Well, they are all components of my current training and development by Owner. It used to be the case that i received regular canings or puddling's at the hand of Owner. i can't say i have ever been one who enjoys being caned in the way that some people do, i do not find it a sexually arousing activity. However, i do appreciate and understand its usefulness in helping to, at least partially, prevent me from becoming too 'fluffy' a pet for Owner.

In addition, although at the time i initially always find canings painful i do start to get used to the pain when Owner settles into Her stride and am able to process it into something more pleasurable - though never as pleasurable as testicle/clit spankings for example. i also enjoy the warm glow of the aftermath. The main thing, however, is that Owner enjoys giving them and they are good for me and so i am delighted to say that Owner has determined they should be reintroduced into our lives. i received my first one this week, 50 strokes after some initial strokes from a paddle. They were an uncomfortable but welcome return and they left their mark

Unfortunately, as a result of not having been able to do any of my butt exercises since April, because of the problems with my back, my 'pillows', as Owner used to describe my butt cheeks, have deflated. i will have to try and bring them back to life again, though my doctor says i am not to lift weights so it will have to just be via squats and hip thrusts. We shall see, but i digress.

Owner also likes me to acquire or learn skills that She may find useful and She has had me attend a variety of courses, during some of the extra days off a year i get over Her, to learn them. So far, i have attended courses on  head and neck message, manicures, knitting and reflexology. On some of them i was the only male on the course but they have all been enjoyable to do. Owner, has now identified another skill She expects Her wife to acquire, namely flower arranging. i researched details of a number of courses for me to attend and presented them to Her and She chose a one day 'Vintage Flower Course' for me to attend at the end of September. i will report back on how i got on.

In addition to having me acquire practical skills becoming of Her wife, Owner also expects me to become Her consummate slut and whore. To that end She has decreed that i am to have some regular 'pussy' training by having my butt plugged on occasions. Owner selected two metal plugs for me to order, one to be worn at times of Her choosing when i am working from home and the other - also metal but with a tail - to be used for challenges and photoshoots. i ordered both from Bondara and they arrived two days later. Each came in a lovely box and i have to say they look beautiful and i can't wait to start trying them out. You can see them in their boxes below

i am truly blessed to have an Owner such as mine who continues to lead me down the path of submission to Her and who is training me to become Her ideal wife.

Training and Development Update

Owner formally sat me down after lunch today to run through the progress (or not) i have been making in the current version of Her 'Housewife Academy' training plan for me. The good news was that, i had actually made progress in a number of areas - though my Spanish learning had been a complete failure these past few months and needs paying serious attention to. Owner also placed my high-heeled training and hula hoop training on continued hold until my back is fully recovered - i haven't been doing any of either since April.

The 'housewife academy' consists of four key areas and these are my current training and development objectives in each:

Domestic Diva

• Paint the flat and de-clutter the walls
• Book myself onto a flower arranging course and practice making arrangements
• Re-organise Owners wardrobe and chest of drawers seasonally so that She always has appropriate clothing to hand

Sex Kitten

• Wear padded bras when working from home on dress down Fridays
• Be pussy plugged when working from home when requested by Owner
• Have weekly canings before bedtime 

Submissive Pet

• Owner will choose my breakfast whenever we are staying away [n.b. She already chooses all other meals for me when we are eating away from home]
• Owner will choose what clothes/accessories i am to wear when we go out
• i will start a 'treat' savings fund for Owner - save a set amount each month to use to get Owner nice treats [this to come out of my main account - which Owner controls access to - not my monthly allowance]  

Multi-Tasking Ninja

• Complete another instructional/lifestyle video before Xmas
• Become Owners PA - responsible for making all Her bookings, ordering any items She needs etc
• Study Spanish at bedtime at least 3 times a week 

i am very grateful to Owner for my new set of development goals and instructions and look forward to continuing to learn to become a better wife and slut for Her

Who's That Slut In The Window?

The flat in which Owner and i live is one of the typical terraced London streets that afford limited privacy for their occupants at the best of times. At the same time i am also an exhibitionist. This morning Owner used both of these to Her advantage.

We had woken early as usual (6am) and, with the street outside still being relatively quiet i decided it would be a good time to clean the curtains we have in our lounge. They are white and see-thru (almost like net curtains) but provide us with some degree of privacy from our  neighbours opposite and the street outside. i was still just wearing my negligee when i fetched a stool, stood on it and started to take the curtains down. As i did so i decided i ought to clean the windows as well. So there i was, stood right in front of the window in just my nightie.Of course i had to stretch-up when taking down the curtains - an act which flashed my bits to the street outside. However, i was able to protect my modesty with the curtain material. Of course, that was no longer the case when i started to clean the windows. i briefly paused thinking i ought to stop and put on something more appropriate but then decided, what the heck. There are not many about and i have started so i shall finish. We have three large windows and so anyone who was about or onboard the bus that passed along the street at one point would have got an interesting view! Though to be honest, whether they would have found the sight of me cleaning windows naked save my nightie, or the fact that i was wearing a leather collar and cuffs connected my a chain through a ring in the collar whilst doing so, the more surprising i don't know.

Anyway, Owner knows what an exhibitionist i am and also knows exactly how to exploit that to Her advantage and ensure my humiliation. Shortly after i finished cleaning - and with the curtains in the wash - we returned to bed, only for me to re-appear a few minutes later completely naked this time except with Owners used and deliciously aromatic panties on my head. She had put them on me and then instructed me to slowly parade in front of the lounge window like that before returning to bed. She has me do this twice before instructing me to sit at the dining table in the lounge. She stood behind me a toyed and played with my nipples as i sat on display for all to see with Her knickers on my head before She wandered off.

Upon returning She had with Her a glass full of Her delicious urine which She handed to me to drink. i eagerly gulped all of the aromatic amber nectar down. i love the taste of Her piss and it was even more delicious knowing i was drinking it in full view of the neighbours opposite - if they were up and watching. Last, Owner then had me play with and masturbate myself whilst sitting in my chair facing the open window, still devoid of any curtain to protect my modesty. i felt like one of those street window prostitutes in Amsterdam as i played with myself like the shameless whore i am. Incidentally - i am sure some of those women could make as much, if not more, money just renting out their booths to exhibitionist sluts like me! But i digress.

Satisfied with my performance Owner finally instructed me to leave the lounge and return to the bedroom. Here She masturbated Herself to orgasm with Her vibrator whilst positionign Herself so that i could inhale and lick Her delicious backside. It was difficult to lick Her with Her panties still in situ on my face but She seemed to appreciate my efforts. FInally, She had me lay down on the bed, positioned Her now even more wonderfully aromatic crotch on my face and permitted me to masturbate myself for Her whilst She watched. As i pleasured mysef for Her amusement She then told me to slip a finger up my own 'pussy' and 'cum like a whore'. Masturbating furiously with my finger up my arse i came all over my belly, scooping up my mess with my fingers and swallowing it down as i am expected to do.

EDIT - i hadn't realised that Owner had taken some pictures of me, here are a couple of me in our lounge sans curtains

It was a deliciously dirty way to start the weekend. Yesterday, whilst working from home Owner had also instructed me to spank my 'bits' i.e. my balls with a belt 50 times. She likes to have me beat my testicles (or do it Herself) on a regular basis to keep them nice and aching. However, this was the first time i had been told to use a belt rather than the usual wooden spoon or paddle. It was  painfully wonderful.

All told i think it is safe to say that we are now fully back to normal! My back is much, much better than it has been and Owner is reviewing my current development goals and objectives and will present me with some new ones as She continues to train me to become Her ideal of a submissive, slut wife and whore. i think this morning's show could be taken as evidence that, at least in terms of beign Her whore - i have made some progress over the years :)!!

Allowance and Development Update

This morning Owner sent me the link to a very pretty summer dress that She had found for me in the sales online. A few months ago this would be an invitation for me to purchase the outfit and i would have ordered the dress straightaway, leaping at the chance to be permitted to expand my wardrobe with a lovely new outfit. However, today i had to thank Her but inform Her that i wouldn't be able to buy the dress until next month as buying it would blow what is left of my allowance for this month. Such is the reality of now having to live within my means and being restricted to a set monthly allowance with Owner completely controlling how much money i have to spend each month. We are now three months into this new arrangement of my having only having access to a set monthly allowance to cover all of my routine expenditure and it has been working very well. Financial control has now well and truly passed over to Owner. i just hope that the dress is still as heavily discounted at the start of April as it is now.

Owners financial control of my was a new addition to Her dominance and control over my life which was added back in January. Today, Owner has set out some new requirements of me in an update to Her 'housewife academy' training and development plan. Each addition is designed to further Her control, deepen my submission and help my development into becoming the perfect wife for Her. So, what has been added?

• Owner will now choose what clothes and accessories i wear whenever we go out. Owner has always chosen what items of clothing, accessories etc i am allowed to buy and until now i have always had to seek Her approval to what i wear each day. However, from now on She will select the clothing and accessories She wants me to wear Herself - i will no longer have a say.
• Whenever we stay in hotels (which we do a fair bit) Owner will choose what i am allowed to eat for breakfast (whether from the in-room menu or the buffet). Whenever we eat out for lunch or dinner Owner always chooses and orders for me. However, breakfasts have been an anomaly and i have chosen my own when we are eating away from home. This will no longer be permitted. i will no longer exercise any choice over any meals.
• i am to be solely responsible for making any bookings that Owner may wish to make
• when i go to bed i must only read Spanish books/magazines or on-line articles for at least 3 days a week to help improve my Spanish  
• i must learn how to hula hoop with a view to making a sexy hula dance video
• i will have a twice-weekly clit spanking (Wednesday and Friday). This could be administered by Owner or a self-spanking if She requests.
• Support Owners wheat and gluten-free diet by cooking accordingly. i am responsible for cooking all meals and Owner is trying to become wheat and gluten-free and so i shall need to adjust my recipes accordingly.
• Create pretty all-year planting arrangements outdoors using window boxes and pots and keep the outdoor area clean. i will need to liaise with our neighbour on this as this outdoor area technically belongs to her but hopefully she won't mind me putting out some pots and the window boxes we can do whatever she may say.

i am very grateful and excited at the latest additions to my training and development and thank Owner for demanding them of me as She continues to strengthen and deepen my submission to Her and Her control of me and ensure i continue to develop into the wife She wants.

Our New Year Break

Owner and i have just returned from a lovely romantic break over the New Year. We rented a wonderful little cottage in a small village on the edge of the Chilterns. We had planned to do a few walks but the weather was fairly lousy (rain - constant) and so instead we spent our time snuggled up in front of the log fire in the cottage and exploring pretty little neighbouring towns and villages and in the Cotswolds (about an hours drive away from where we were staying). Some of the places had delightful names, like Upper Slaughter and Lower Slaughter.

This is a picture of where we were staying:

and here are a couple of shots of some of the places we visited

Chipping Camden

Lower Slaughter

Bourton on the Water

The little cottage we were staying in had both a wet room and also a lovely old -fashioned roll-top bath which i couldn't help but lounge in (with Owners permission of course!). Here i am enjoying some quality time with bubbles

The beautiful bath in the corner of the bedroom

Fun with bubbles

Of course, we also had time for a bit of naughty fun whilst we were away too. This morning Owner brought me a small bowl of Her delicious pee for me to drink from in bed (it was super tasty as always) and then She had me kneel on all fours on the bed whilst She tested out a lovely new leather fly swat that we bought in one of the village stores (it was actually marketed in the shop as a 'fly swat/weekend paddle' :) - a kinky lot these villagers!). Owner had me fellate a dildo whilst She spanked me.

Having warmed-up my backside Owner then positioned Herself on a trunk at the foot of the bed and presented Her wonderful pussy at nose height to me for me to inhale. She permitted me to lap Her clitoris whilst She pleasured Herself with Her vibrator. As i sniffed and licked Her Owner instructed me to hump the pillow and mattress with my hips and make myself hard. When satisfied that i was indeed nice and aroused by the combination of Her scent, taste and humping the bedding Owner then  turned around and presented me with Her anus to lick. As my tongue went to work, delighting in exploring and tasting Her backside, Owner continued to pleasure Herself with Her vibrator whilst insisting that i continue to dry hump the duvet.

Owner brought Herself to orgasm and then clambered back on then bed between my legs. Utilising the new leather fly swat Owner then started to spank my exposed testicles with it and masturbating my clitty, all the while commenting and reminding me what a pathetically small clit i have and how dirty i am. My excitement quickly grew and i was soon begging to be allowed to cum. Owner gave Her consent and i came over the bedding as She continued to spank my testicles with the paddle. It was a wonderful way to start the day, though i am sure these orgasms are not good for me!

You will have seen from my last post that we have also established some new rules by which i am to live which will see Owner further extend Her control over me and increase my submission to Her. We are both really excited and pleased by these. i have now applied for a new bank account in order to be able to set it up as my 'monthly allowance' account. It will be topped-up each month with £100 from my main account and that £100 will be my allowance from Owner for the month. The rest of my money will now be controlled by Her and i will be surrendering my other current account card and credit card to Her safe-keeping.

i am also really excited at the prospect of developing ideas for uniforms for me to start to wear. i will submit some ideas to Owner but She also really liked the 1950s suggestion from one of our readers called Michel who left a comment earlier today with some suggested ideas.

it has been a great start to 2016 and i can't wait to spend another wonderful year with Owner.

New Year New Developments

Owner and i would like to wish everyone a belated Happy New Year, we hope you all had a great New Year's eve and that 2016 brings you joy and happiness. Having been apart at Xmas we are spending a wonderful time together in a little cottage hideaway, it really is wonderful.

Today, to mark the start of the New Year, Owner sat me down to review how my development is progressing and to agree how my submission to Her and Her domination of me will further intensify over the next few months. All of this as part of Her training me to become Her perfect wife. i wanted to share with you the outcome of this discussion as there are a number of new ways in which Owner will be further extending Her control of me.

In summary, Owner has decreed the following:

Financial Control - Owner already has significant control over my expenditure. All main purchases i make must be approved by Her and i need to document everything i spend for Her to review. However, Owner will be moving towards assuming total control of my finances (with my full consent), in many respects taking a leaf out of how Her mother completely controls Her fathers finances. Owner suggested moving in stages to this point and so, as an interim measure from now She is going to permit me £100 a month 'allowance' to spend on necessities like travel, going out, clothes etc. This does not include major item expenditure like holidays. Any amount i wish to spend over the £100 in an individual month must be approved by Her. We are looking into getting me a card that can be charged with money for me to use so that i do not need to keep access to my bank card.

New Ownership Tattoo - as a symbol of Owners continued and growing domination of me She has asked me to get a new Ownership tattoo. She has advised that this will be an ankle chain tattoo design. The catch is that i must save up for it from my monthly allowance.

Audit Remaining Household Items and Recycle - we have agreed in the past that our flat will be decorated to Owners taste and that She will be the one who approves what may or may not be bought for the flat. However, there are items that we have which were bought before then and things that Owner no longer wishes for us to have. Accordingly, She has asked me to produce a full audit of all we have which She will the use to identify everything She wishes to have removed and recycled.

Design Household Uniform(s) - Owner wants me to start to wear uniforms at home and has asked to produce ideas for uniforms i could wear when completing/undertaking specific tasks/activities i.e. cleaning, cooking etc. All my ideas are to be submitted to Her for approval and She has encouraged me to consider ways in which i could up-cycle items of clothing i don't often wear into uniforms.

i am really excited at how Owner is continuing to further Her control over me and can think of no more wonderful a way to start a new year than to do so with a discussion about how She plans to increase Her domination of me. i am a truly lucky wife, and a very happy one!

Happy New Year to you all.

Good Times

Owner and I had a great weekend, rounding off what was a really enjoyable week. With no more travel plans for a while now and Owners exam out of the way it means we can properly get back to our normal routines and activities. For me this has meant not just ensuring that i try to keep on top of my expected duties and task but that i also make some progress with new things too, like writing a new short story, working-up ideas for videos to make and developing a comprehensive forward travel planner for Owner.

For Owner it has meant having Her time back to do as She pleases and this, in turn, has led to Her having some fun with Her wife. Last week She set me the daily task of spanking my clit hard for a minute each day and recording  the results to show Her. i used a different implement each day, paddle, hair brush, wooden spoon etc, etc and produced a one minute video of each for Her. They were fun and enjoyable to do though Owner concluded that they were too easy and enjoyable and has said that my next tasks will be more demanding (see further down).

During the week Owner also selected some amazing high heels for me to start my high heel training with, as part of my ongoing training and development in the housewife academy. The heels arrived today and are amazing! i adore them. You can see them below:

Anyway, where was i? Oh yes. On Saturday morning after we both completed our respective exercises (we do different routine) Owner delighted me by handing me a glass of Her delicious urine to drink before having me join Her back in bed. It was wonderful being able to not only drink Her lovely pee but to also then worship Her wonderful post-exercise sweaty body. Owner allowed me to suck and worship Her breasts before She had me roll onto my stomach so that She could straddle my buttocks. Then She took out Her vibrator and used a combination of the vibrator and the action of Her grinding Herself against my glutes (something She greatly enjoys doing) to enjoy some pleasurable orgasms. I too love being used as a sort of human sex-toy in this way.
Whilst She was fucking Herself against me Owner kept teasing me about how the following week She wanted me to fellate different things every day like a slut for Her. After Her orgasm Owner decided that I should start straight away and show Her how i loved to suck and try to deep-throat anything by handing me one of Her shoes and telling me to get on all fours and lick it all over inside and out and fuck my throat with it. As i readily obliged Owner reached between my legs and began to rhythmically masturbate my clit.

By the time Owner told me to 'cum like a slut for Her' her shoe was rammed so far down my mouth only the heel protruded and saliva was running freely from my mouth. Unlike some people i have never really had a big thing about shoes but i have to say that being facially fucked hard by one, the heady smell of the shoes leather and the wonderful odour inside the shoe from Her feet filling my nostrils as the shoe itself filled the back of my throat, combined with the actions of being vigorously masturbated by Her after weeks of denial, whilst being told what a slut and whore i was, led to one of the most intense orgasms i have had in a long time - OK so i know i am not permitted to cum very often but even so this was an especially memorable one. Owner then immediately told me that i would be returned to chastity on the Monday as i was enjoying myself too much, which was true :)

Later that day we went to the cinema where we watched a great film called 99 Homes  and then we went to one of our favourite pubs afterwards for a drink before going to a Korean restaurant we've not tried before. It was great and, as is now the norm, Owner chose my meal for me.

Yesterday we went for a 6 mile walk through a part of London we've only partially explored previously before heading to one of our favourite shopping centres for some ice-cream and retail therapy. It was a lovely day.

Then today i was put back into chastity and later had the opportunity to deep-throat my dildo for Owner for a minute. i do love gagging on it :).

As i said...good times!

Training and Development Update - Housewife Academy Launch

Owner has officially now started the next stage of my training and development, She has started me on Her Housewife Academy training programme. i am thrilled, honoured and excited. The Academy builds upon my existing training and is an evolving programme of learning and development designed to further develop my skills as Her wife, slut and whore and deepen my submission to Her and Her control over me.

It is naturally expected of me that i will continue to follow, perform and obey all of the previous rules, behaviours, chores etc that Owner has trained me in over the years. However, the Academy will, over time, introduce a whole new series of skills, behaviours, tasks etc that Owner will expect me to complete. Rather than having a formal review at the end of a set period my performance in the Academy will be continuously reviewed by Owner and new elements may be added by Her at any time.

Owner has broken down the Housewife Academy syllabus into 5 core areas:

1. Domestic Diva
2. Sex Kitten
3. Submissive Pet
4. Multi-tasking Ninja
5. Happiness Fairy

Each area has a description and an initial set of tasks/expectations for me to complete. These may and will be added to whenever Owner feels it is appropriate to do so. The following are the descriptions for each area and the initial tasks She has set me to complete. 

Domestic Diva

This instructs me to:

'Create a comfortable home for Owner
Keep all areas of the flat clean and tidy
Cook healthy recipes
Manage any refurbishment/repair projects
Manage pet and Owner's diet'

The first tasks i have been given in this category are to:

• Get quotes for bathroom refurbishment
• Reduce pet and Owners sugar consumption

Sex Kitten

This instructs me to:

Look sexy and desirable
Be ready to follow orders
Behave like a whore when requested
Able to endure pain and humiliation

The first task i have been given is to:

• Learn how to walk in high heels

Submissive Pet

This instructs me to:

Follow rules properly
Always ask for permission for agreed activities (if in doubt, always ask for permission)
Major decisions (and even some minor decisions) to be ultimately taken by Owner
Hand control over to Owner

The first change Owner has introduced is:

• Owner will choose pet's food and drinks even when they are apart (e.g. if i am going for a meal and Owner is not there to choose what i will eat or drink in person for me She will provide general instructions via text i.e. Vegetarian and an orange juice).

Multi-tasking Ninja

This instructs me to:

Be ruthlessly organised
Develop superpowerful skills
Make unproductive time productive
Learn it, try it, get it done! KAPOW!

The first task Owner has assigned to me in this section are:

• Become a travel planner for Owner
• Complete list of potential instructional videos for blog

Happiness Fairy

This final area instructs me to:

Provide Owner with unexpected entertainment (either at home or outside)
    Provide creative surprises
   Remember: a little effort goes a long way
   Be ready to entice and enchant
 
It is for me to come up with creative ideas to deliver as part of this

The above 5 areas are the main themes of the Housewife Academy. In addition to these i also have a long-term project area as part of the Academy programme. At present there is only one project in that area which is to study for the next level Spanish exam.

Owner has also established a set of over-riding rules that govern all aspects of the Academy. These over-arching rules are as follows:

• MASTER RULE: A housewife must be the perfect combination of all of these in equal proportions: A domestic diva, a sex kitten, a submissive pet, a multi-tasking ninja and a happiness fairy 
• Follow all tasks/procedures as stated in each current focus area 
• Clarify any queries immediately 
• Inform of any potential delays/issues/obstacles immediately 
• Aim for consistent behaviour all the time for all the focus areas 
• Strive for excellence 
• Punishments will count negatively and will be graded 
• Achievements will count positively and will be graded 
• Do not forget about your long term projects 
• Challenges will be related to any of the focus areas and considered high achievements
• Each area together with challenges, long term projects, punishments and achievements will be reviewed every month

All of the is captured and needs to be followed and reported on to Owner using Trello. This is a section of what the Housewife Academy looks like on screen:

 As you can see, Owner has designed a very attractive dashboard for the Academy.

i am very excited and thrilled to be embarking on this next stage of my development. This weekend i had to travel down to my Mum's without Owner who is currently studying hard for Her exams. i was delighted to be able to put Owners' new rule into action when i advised Owner that my Mum wanted to take me out for a meal. Owner texted me to say 'fish and apple juice'. So whilst my Mum perused the menu and ordered herself a glass of prosecco and then some white wine i ordered the one fish dish on the menu (seabass) and an apple juice. i love the fact that Owner will now always decide and choose what i eat and drink, even when She is not there. It is a small increase in Her control over me, but a further increase nonetheless.