Owner and i are back together again after our enforced Christmas absence spent visiting our respective families . We both hate such enforced periods of separation so it is wonderful to be reunited again. This year we again decided not to get each other presents and instead take ourselves away on a little trip. This year was no exception and in a few weeks time we will be off to Munich to enjoy a bit of Bavarian culture and hospitality. That trip also happens to fall on my birthday (whisper it quietly....45...oh my god!) and i am secretly hoping that Owner might let me buy and model a traditional Dirndl which i think would make for a wonderful photoshoot opportunity :)

Talking of photoshoot opportunities Owner asked me to design and produce a 2015 calendar for Her to hang in our bedroom, specifically one with some photos of Her wife (me) appearing in it. Well, i rummaged through our photo archives and managed to find a seasonally appropriate photo for each month of the year. The next stage was a simple case of develop an online design with the images and then get the whole thing ordered. Owner's 2015 calendar of Her wife arrived in the post today. i must say the paper and image quality is very good. We used vistaprint and the whole process was very easy - though i am intrigued to know what they made of my photos. Here are a selection of shots from the calendar

front cover
January 2015
October 2015 (our anniversary month of my becoming Owner's wife) 

The company can also print images and designs onto lots of other things as well and that was what proved to be my undoing. i thought it might be a nice idea to also make a mug for Owner with a picture of Her wife on it with the legend 'Owners wife' written underneath (see below)
That was my big mistake. Owner, though Spanish, is an English language scholar and has a far, far greater grasp of English and, more importantly, the rules of the English language than do i. i had, as i now know, missed out the saxon genitive. i fear that mistake could have repercussions!

Just a quick post to wish everyone a wonderful festive season and best wishes for the New Year. It has been quite a quiet time here as Owner has not been very well and i have been busy with work and travelling. However, this morning Owner started Her day by fucking me with one of Her dildos whilst masturbating Herself to orgasm with Her vibrator before then masturbating me to orgasm afterwards whilst continuing to fuck my pussy - so hopefully She is starting to feel a bit better :).

Unfortunately, we will both be apart for Christmas visiting our respective families but will be re-united again shortly afterwards. We both hate being parted. Hope you all have a great time and that Santa brings you something nice and naughty.
Well Friday evening and Saturday morning i had my Spanish exams. Friday was the oral exam (no NOT that type of oral!) and then Saturday was listening, written etc. The exams were the DELE - Diplomas of Spanish as a Foreign Language. Although mine was the basic level exam it is a credit to Owner that She has got me to a point where i actually felt that i stood a chance of passing a Spanish exam, even a basic one. English aside i have no language ability whatsoever and have been an abject failure at languages all my life. Owner has helped me to learn and develop and become more confident with Spanish (it is even part of my development plan as Her wife). She is Spanish and so rightly wants me to understand Her native tongue. As my life is devoted to Her and to going wherever She goes then should She ever one day decide She would like to return to Spain then it is important that i have a reasonable grasp of the language and can assimilate. That said, we don't have any such plans at present and are very happy in London.

Anyway, back to the exams. They were OK, i don't think i did as well as i have done in some of the practice exams i have been sitting this past fortnight. But we shall see. i will find out in about 3 months time if i passed or not but Owner has said She is very proud of my efforts and how i have tried. i will continue studying and trying and i know this is something that She expects from Her wife.

Meanwhile, we continue to enjoy the deepening FLR/Femdom dynamic of our relationship together. My submission to Her  continues to deepen and so too does Her control over me. i have already started o implement some of the new requirements of the next stage of my development (Plin, Plan, Plon phase 4) which officially commences on the 1st December. This has been approvingly noted by Owner.

i also love the fact that Owner can and does paddle me. Last night was a case in point. i was washing up after having done some baking when Owner sidled up behind me, took the paddle from where it hangs next to the kitchen sink for just this purpose, and proceeded to paddle my naked backside. All the while i continued washing, my voice muffled by the dildo gag i always wear when washing and drying dishes. It was just one of those 'normal' (to us) moments of domestic interaction in our flat that Owner and i love so much.
With freshly pink buttocks
Gagged as always when washing-up/drying
Last night Owner instructed me to remove my chastity device and to not put it back on until this morning. When we went o bed She used the opportunity to gently tease and caress my now liberated clitty before going to sleep. She did the same again this morning before breakfast and then after we had eaten She had me spoon up against Her in bed and rubbed Herself against my excitable little clit, which She also encouraged me to masturbate until it was hard. All the while She focused Her attention on masturbating Herself with Her fingers.

Once my little clitty was hard and rubbing firmly against Her She reached into Her sideboard and extracted a vibrator and one of Her large plastic hair clips. She instructed me to attached the clip to my swollen clit and then start to masturbate Her with Her vibrator. Owner directed operations, telling me when She wanted the power of the vibrator increased, its position changed or when and for how long i should also lick and suck Her nipples. All the while the teeth of the hair clip made their mark on my clitty.

Tiring of my own efforts Owner took the vibrator from me and rolled onto Her side. She re-positioned the vibrator between Her thighs and then asked if i would like to lick Her arsehole? This is one of my all-time favourite activities and i eagerly replied in the affirmative. Thus it was that i spent a happy few minutes with my tongue exploring deep inside Her anus as Owner brought Herself off to a shuddering orgasm with the vibrator.

So, what has this got to do with having sex like a dog i hear you ask? Well, Her own pleasure sated Owner turned to me and asked if my clitty was sensitive and aroused. On hearing that it was She then instructed me to masturbate it against Her leg. It didn't take much of me humping Her thigh until i could feel myself close to cumming. Owner instructed me to 'come like a slut' and so, one arm wrapped around Her upper high and clit grinding back and forth against it i came all over Her beautiful leg. Owner quickly had me lap up my cum from Her pearly white flesh and the bedclothes before instructing me to return back to chastity again.

i was very lucky to be allowed to lick and explore Owners anus with my tongue and also to cum on Her leg and lick up my mess. Owner often remarks what a slut i am and i love to be Her slut. She also made it clear this morning that i have not spent enough time being tied-up, tortured, teased and tormented and used purely for Her sexual pleasure as Her human sex toy, a situation She intends to correct. Her words put a spring in my step and i returned to chastity and to the days chores a very happy wife indeed!
i have done a little bit of tidying up to the blog landing page which i hope makes it a little less cluttered. Previously i have listed all of Owners rules for me and the routines i follow and activities i am expected to undertake down the side of the blog. i have now created two new pages for the blog which i hope you will find interesting. These are

  • About Us - this is a short biography page that provides a bit more background information about Owner and me, our relationship and how we developed as FLR FemDom couple over the years
  • The Rules and Routines by Which i Live - this is now the home for all of the rules Owners sets down for me and the place where i also detail all of the daily, weekly etc tasks and activities that i am expected to undertake. i have updated these to reflect the latest development goals Owner has set out in Plin, Plan, Plon 4.
Meanwhile, although the next Phase of my development (Plin, Plan Plon 4) is not due to commence until the start of December (and runs through to April 2015) i have already started to try to implement some of the new expected behaviours etc so that i can (hopefully) hit the ground running on the 1st December. This new Plan is organised using Trello. i must say that now i have got used to it i am finding it a really, really useful tool. It has enabled Owner and i to rationalise what had previously been a whole suite of separate documents and spreadsheets into a single place. i can now update what i have done from my laptop, tablet and phone and Owner can check and comment at any time too. This is what the main page of my account now looks like and this is what i now check daily to see what tasks need doing, mark off what i have done, etc, etc.


Yesterday, Owner treated me to a special surprise. i was walking to collect Her from the station as i usually do when i am working from home, to carry Her bag back (i also carry Her bag for Her to the station in the morning) when She suddenly called me to say that She was sat in one of our local bars and had ordered me a drink and that i was to join Her. There has been no repetition of the infamous occasion a few months ago when i had an alcoholic drink without first having been invited to do so by Owner. We have had different family members staying and have gone out for meals, i have cooked at home and served them drinks but i have not had one myself as Owner had not said that i could. Last night, however, Owner decided that She wanted to have a drink with me and so i was permitted to have a couple of beers.

We are now at a point in our relationship where Owner makes all the decisions as o whether or not we will be going out, what and where we will be going and whether or not i will be permitted to drink alcohol or not. That control is also now extending to Owner deciding what food i will have when we are eating in a restaurant and will order for me. i love this continued extension of Owner control over my life. Owner may at times permit me to make suggestions but She is in control and that is how we both agree it should be.

Last, it is just under a week to go before i sit my Spanish exams. i have an oral exam on Friday and then written exams on the Saturday. i have been revising hard and have also been sitting past papers - fingers crossed i may actually pass my first ever formal language exam - which will be a minor miracle! Meanwhile, whilst i have been revising Owner has started practising making Her own jewellery. She made me these beautiful earrings which i love, She truly is a woman of many talents.

The silver heart at the base is actually a little bell as well so i tinkle as i walk!
Today Owner revealed to me the next phase of my development.  Entitled Plin, Plan, Plon IV this development phase will commence on the 1st December 2014 and will run through until 1st April next year. As with all previous Plans this Plan builds upon and is additional to what went before it i.e. i still need to continue to implement the contents of all the proceeding plans whilst also completing the requirements set out in this new plan. Once again, the my performance against the objectives set out in the Plan will be formally reviewed after its completion when a decision will be made as o whether or not my progress has been satisfactory and i can be considered for further development and training or not.

i am really excited about this new Plan. There are some really innovative elements to it and it also seeks to extend Owners control over me into new areas and arenas. It should also help me to become a more useful wife for Her. So, what is new and what does the Plan contain?

Perhaps the mot significant innovation is that Owner has set-up the new Plan on Trello. Previously, i have had a series of spreadsheets, word documents and other things to complete that Owner has then reviewed monthly to monitor and comment on my progress and performance. There are also a series of 'reminder' tables posted up in our kitchen that detail the duties i must complete daily, weekly etc (and which are also listed on the sidebar of this blog) and into which i record my daily task completion entries. Trello does away with the need for all of this. Trello is an on-line 'cloud-based' collaboration project and task management tool that enables all of my expected activities to be organised and set-up electronically. i can then record what i have done, add notes and comment in real-time as too can Owner. i have even downloaded it as an app onto my phone so i can update and record 'on the go'. The advantages are that Owner can now see at any time exactly what i am recording, can easily add new tasks/duties or amend existing ones. i will get these changes straight away and also have one place where i can now record everything. It should make Owners oversight and checking less onerous for Her and more straight-forward and She can also check in 'real-time' what i have or have not done. For me it offers the opportunity to organise my reporting into one place and make it more straightforward. The new Plan doesn't start until the start of next month but i shall start transitioning stuff over to Trello in the next week or two and begin using it. i will update on how it goes but we are both quite excited at the possibilities this system may open-up.

Okay, so that is all very interesting in a geeky kind of way, but what does the new Plan actually contain? What are the additional tasks/activities that i will be expected to do and be judged against? Well, Owner has organised the new phase into 5 broad categories. These are:

  • Housework
  • Study/skills
  • Physical/slut training
  • General behaviour
  • Ad-hoc
Four of these five categories have a series of specific tasks and behaviours set-out that i will be expected to deliver/undertake during this phase of my development (and forever onwards). This detail is set out below;

Housework
  • PROJECT: Review all of our photographs [all ours have been digital for years[ and get some printed for Owners photo album.
  • Buy adequate laminate flooring products and clean thoroughly once a week [we had new flooring installed and the old mop etc that i used the clean the floor doesn't do that good a job on the new floor]
  • Subscribe to a healthy eating magazine and cook at least one recipe from that magazine a week [this part of the ongoing development of my cookery skills]
  • PROJECT: Do a complete kitchen inventory and replace any old/broken kitchen utensils/pans/crockery
  • Transfer my current household cleaning and fitness/exercise rota onto Trello
Study/Skills
  • Practise my beauty/health skills (reflexology/massage/manicure/facials) - Owner will use Trello to 'book' appointments with me at times and dates of Her choosing - at least 8 times per month
  • Create at least 3 jewellery items a month
  • Subscribe to a Spanish audio magazine
  • Complete 1 embroidery and 1 knitting project during this phase of the Plan
  • Keep practising my erotic-short story and other writing skills in order to produce higher quality short-stories and start to write lifestyle guides
Physical/Slut Training
  • i am to always be completely naked when providing Owner a pedicure or manicure or when watching TV with Her at home
  • There is now a price to pay for being permitted to sniff Owners used panties [something i love to do]. Now, whenever i am allowed to sniff Her used panties i will be spanked 30 times on my 'clitty' whilst wearing nipple clamps
  • Purchase a perfumer diffuser to be able to wear Owners 'perfume'. Owners perfume is Her urine and i can be expected to sometimes wear Her 'perfume' by spraying it on me.
  • Organised bondage/restraint sessions where i will have to endure pain for periods of time
  • Practise more deep-throating by undertaking a series of deep throat challenges - these include deep-throating a dildo at a number of locations across London
General Behaviour
  • Seek approval prior to any Facebook postings [yes i am on Facebook and no i am not providing a link! )
  • When we go out for a meal, unless otherwise specified, Owner will choose my meal from the menu for me.
  • i am to always kneel down before Owner when asking permission for something from Her and bow my head when saying thank you afterwards. There is no need to kneel in public but i am still expected to bow when thanking Her in public.
  • All mistakes, deviations etc from the Plan will be punished and must be recorded on Trello. All punishments will count negatively when scoring the Plan. Small 'infractions' will be punished with an over the knee spanking using any implement chosen by Owner. Bigger 'infractions' will be punished using one or a combination of the following methods: ~not wearing feminine clothes ~not wearing jewellery ~not wearing makeup ~not shaving
  • When away from Owner due to work or family commitments i am to send Owner an email summarising all i have done that day

Ad-Hoc Tasks
Owner will provide these as and when they need to be completed.

i am excited and honoured to be allowed to move onto this stage of my development as part of my training to become a better wife and slut for Owner. i look forward to documenting my progress (and any pitfalls) on the blog and i hope to use the next few months to demonstrate to Owner my potential for yet further training and development.
The start of this week found me on tenterhooks as i awaited the outcome of Owners latest appraisal of my development and, whether or not i would be deemed to have made sufficient progress to proceed to the next stage of my development as Her slut and wife. Readers of this blog may be aware that Owner has developed what is referred to as Her Plin, Plan, Plon. Essentially, this is a training programme devised by Her (albeit one which i am permitted to make suggestions) designed to help stretch and develop me and help me become a better wife and slut for Her. The way the Plan works is that at the end of each phase of the plan i am assessed as to how well or not i have performed and completed/internalised the activities or duties set down for me to perfect in that phase. Only if Owner adjudges during the review that i have passed that Phase am i permitted to move onto the next, more challenging Phase. In a way it is a bit like a computer game where you are trying to make progress onto the higher level. If judged to have made sufficient progress to move onto the next phase i am still expected to maintain the standards/delivery/goal established in the proceeding phase i.e. the difficulty levels build incrementally with progress. However, there is always the risk of being judged a failure - in which case i would need to re-start from Phase 1.

Anyway, Monday this week was the day in which Owner would review my progress in Phase 3 - a phase which had already been extended due to some performance issues on my part in the autumn which i needed to address. Anyway, i was absolutely thrilled to receive the following from Owner
This certificate was accompanied with a detailed breakdown of the scores i had been awarded in each category of the Plan. As you can see below, there were some areas in which i did really well - for example i can now finally properly deepthroat (something i could never do before). However, letting Owner down this summer by having an alcoholic drink without Her permission scored very lowly as, although there has been no repetition of this episode since, it was a serious failure on my part and highlighted some major performance and obedience issues which i needed to address and rectify. There has been no repetition of this since so Owner was gracious enough to score me enough to scrape past that particular objective. You can see how i did in all of he categories set out in that phase of the Plan below

i was relieved, thrilled and excited to have been judged to have passed. i really do believe this is helping me o become a better, more useful and more productive wife and slut for Owner.

Owner is in the process of finalising the details of the next Phase of my development i.e. Phase 4 of the Plan. She has said that She will let me know the details at the end of this coming weekend but that that Phase will not commence until the start of December. i am guessing it will probably run through to the end of the Spring. i am nervously excited to see what may lie in store for me in Phase 4. Meanwhile, i need to ensure i maintain the standards i have now reached and that i continue to address those areas where i scored less highly in my Phase 3 review.

Just a quick update to wish everyone a very spooky Halloween. Hope you all have fun. These are the pumpkins Owner and i carved, can you tell who did which?





This week i started an embroidery course as part of my ongoing development to become Owners ideal wife. i was supposed to start it the week before but i wasn't well so started a week late. It is in the same venue and with the same teacher as i had for my knitting classes at the start of the year. Hopefully it will be another string to add to my bow and i will soon be able to start adding some pretty designs and patterns to tops.

Meanwhile, on Monday Owner will start reviewing the progress i have made in the current phase of my training/development. It is the moment when She decides whether or not i have made sufficient progress to proceed to the next level of training and development or not. i really hope that She judges that i have made sufficient progress to proceed. i feel that strong foundations have been laid from which to further my development and my submission to Her.

i will, of course, update on the outcome and write about this in more detail shortly when i know the outcome of my review. i am nervously hopeful.
Owner and i enjoyed a wonderful night dancing at the ever excellent Magic Theatre last night. This is by far and away our favourite London club and it is held in a fantastic old art deco ballroom that is only about 2 miles away from where we live. It is a great night of dressing-up fun with people of all persuasions and ages, straight, trans, students and pensioners letting their hair down and their inhibitions go. Here are pictures of the two of us getting ready to depart for the evening;

Owner striking a suitably stern pose

Me looking more gurly - and yes, i am wearing my wedding dress
Owner has a new camera which we are both still getting to grips with so we didn't come away with any really great pictures at the event but the one below does gives a 'somewhat impressionistic' sense of what a gorgeous venue the event is held in, the magical Rivoli Ballroom
Anyway, we both danced our proverbial tits off and had a wonderful night.

Last week i spent three days off sick and, as often seems to happen to me, this made me feel hornier than usual. We have concluded that this may be a seasonal thing as Owner has noted that this often seems to happen at this time of year, namely i have a couple of days when i don;t feel well but do seem to be super horny. i tried to make constructive use of my over-sexed state of mind by channelling my arousal into writing another erotic short story. In truth, the end result was a bit of a dog's dinner. It is over-long and not that coherent and so i do need to re-visit and edit it before publishing. However, one aspect of it seem to have struck a chord with Owner.

In the story i made a number of references to sniffing Her used knickers and how much pleasure this gives me (which is very true) and then coming up with some imagined scenarios involving some element of this. Well, this morning after breakfast we both retired back to bed whereupon Owner almost immediately retrieved a pair of Her worn knickers and draped them over my nose. Over the course of the next ten to fifteen minutes Owner then teased and taunted me with a series of ideas and suggestions for how She might incorporate my love of Her scent into aspects of our lives and routines. Ideas such as having me sniff Her used panties on a regular basis, be made to sit between and Her legs when She returns from work and just sniff Her sex, having Her wet Her panties and them me suck them dry or having to spray my face with a perfume diffuser filled with Her piss before going out.

Of course, the more such ideas and suggestions Owner whispered to me the hornier and more aroused i became. Owner then proceeded to clamp my titties before commencing some intensive flogging and spanking of my clitty and then having me lick out Her wonderful arsehole as She pleasured Herself to an orgasm with Her vibrator. Then to my surprise and delight Owner fisted my pussy and permitted me to cum, to a loud shuddering climax which She then scooped up and fed to me.

It was a wonderfully dirty start to the day to top off a great evening spent dancing the night away.

Owner and i had our belated anniversary weekend stay at the Charing Cross hotel this weekend. Our relationship first went from 'just friends' to a little more at Charing Cross station nine years ago and, ever since, we have often celebrated our anniversary with a stay in the hotel. It was also at the Charing Cross hotel where i became Owners 'wife' last year.

This year we missed staying on our actual anniversary as Owner was in the midst of Her final studies for Her course (which She passed) and then immediately afterwards we had Her parents over to stay. This it was that it was this weekend that we finally got to re-acquaint ourselves with the hotel. It has just changed owners and we were delighted to see that, after a few years of gradual decline the grand old girl has been given a much needed makeover.

The Saturday night we spent in a pub in Holborn doing one of our favourite activities - namely people watching. Then this morning after breakfast we retired back to bed where Owner commenced some of Her other (and mine) favourite activities - namely teasing and playing with Her wife. First, Owner bound my wrists together then She grabbed the knickers She had been wearing the day before and secured them across my face so that my nose inhaled the pungent aroma - filling my head with Her gorgeous scent. After teasing me about how much i loved the smell of Her urine - which is true, She then grabbed a hotel slipper and began to spank my exposed clitty.

Owner teased me like this for a while until i was extremely aroused - it had been over 70 days since my last orgasm so it didn't take me long before my clitty was throbbing excitedly. Then She stopped, grabbed Her vibrator and sat astride my waist so that Her pussy was grinding down onto my swollen clitty and began to pleasure Herself with Her vibrator. i was helpless as She twisted and writhed and ground down against my clitty as She concentrated on Her own pleasure. At one stage She bound my clitty with the cord of the hotel dressing gown to ensure my clitty remained swollen and engorged as She rubbed against and across it until finally She came.

i lay there thinking that that might be the end of things now that Owner had received Her own sexual pleasure but She had a special treat in store for me. She pushed one hotel slipper into my mouth like a gag, placed Her vibrator underneath my clitty so that it lay across it then switched the device onto full power and then took the other hotel slipper and began to strike my swollen 'dangly bits' hard. Owner spanked my clitty harder and harder this was until soon i was begging Her to be allowed to cum. With an instruction that i was to beg to be hit harder still, which i happily complied with, Owner then told me to cum like a whore. 70+ days of denial surged up and sprayed out across my stomach as my hips heaved and bucked in the air and Owner continued to rain blows down hard against my pulsing, pumping clitty with the slipper. The flood of semen spilled across my waist and pooled between my legs. Owner scooped some of it up with Her vibrator and had me suck and lick it clean.

It really was a wonderfully enjoyable start to the day, a heady orgasmic mix comprising the scent of Owners well used knickers and being struck hard and repeatedly across my exposed bits with a hotel slipper. Owner certainly knows how to pleasure Her wife! :)
Just a quick update to say that Owner and i have both had a very good end to the week. Yesterday Owner sat the exam for Her work that She has been studying hard for over these past few months - and She passed with flying colours. i am so proud of Her, She truly is a woman of many talents.

Meanwhile, i also had a studious day yesterday, albeit more of a practical one-day course rather than a formal exam. Yes, yesterday was the day of my one-day facial course. Just me, the tutor and five women, all of whom were working in the beauty industry in some shape or form. Anyway, we all seemed to get on together well and, most importantly, we all passed the practical test! i even have the certificate to prove it;

i am now fully accredited to give facials. Owners parents arrive for a week later today but as soon as our household returns back to normal you can be certain that i will be testing out my new skills on Her. After all, these courses i have been doing are supposed to be for Her benefit!.

Last but not least. Owner and i celebrated our ninth anniversary this week. It really does seem that we have been together for longer than that and i struggle to recall how life was before i met Her. i love my Owner with all of my heart and thank Her for the best nine years of my life and look forward to many, many more years to come with Her.
Sorry for the lack of posts of late, it's just that there has not been a lot to update about. Owner and i have both been busy with work and Owner is in the midst of studying for a work-related exam which She is sitting next week. We had a great long-weekend in Spain last weekend visiting some of Owners family and Her parents are coming over to visit for a week at the end of next week so we will be busy entertaining them.

On Thursday coming i have my all day Facials course which i am looking forward to and then a couple of weeks later i start crochet evening classes at the same place where i did my knitting classes so that should be fun. i am pleased to report that there has been no repeat of my recent misbehaviour and i am continuing to study and do my butt workouts. i hope all is well with you all
One of the challenges Owner set me as part of my ongoing development was to start publishing 'erotic' short stories. i posted my first attempt at such a story on this blog a few months ago and i am pleased to say that it is now available to also buy online as an e-book short story. i published it on Lulu.com and the the story can also be downloaded from Amazon, Kobo and Lybrary at present. Of course you can read it here for free but if you do purchase it (and it costs less than $1) any monies received go to Owner (not me) - so it is going to a good cause :)

This weekend i also registered to sit the Diplomas de Español como Lengua Extrajenera (Diploma in Spanish as a Foreign Language - DELE) exam in late November. i will be sitting the entry level exam. Those that have followed this blog for a while will know that Owner is Spanish but whilst Her English is excellent (better than mine) my Spanish was none-existent. In fact, although i am reasonably well educated (i have a PhD) languages have always been an utter disaster for me and i have no language qualifications at all and have never had the confidence to even try to sit a language exam. Well, all that will soon be changing because part of my training and development as Her submissive and more recently as Her wife has also been an expectation that i will study and learn Spanish and prepare for a DELE exam. Though i will only be sitting the basic level this really is a big deal for me as anyone who knows me will know what a struggle i have found learning any language to be (and in the past i have also tried French and German). There is, of course, no guarantee i will pass but even to have got to the point where i feel confident enough to pay to sit a language exam is quite a milestone for me. i know i will never become proficient in Spanish but hopefully i can at least get a basic qualification.

Meanwhile, talking of starting somewhere, on Saturday morning Owner demanded that i lick Her arse whilst She masturbated Herself to an orgasm. i was out of chastity and She also instructed that i make my clitty hard as my tongue probed deep inside Her delicious anus. It was a wonderful way to start the day - licking Owners arse is, in my view, both a privilege and an honour as well as being exquisitely delicious. But to do so and be made to make oneself hard but not permitted any form of release was pure torment, it was wonderful! It has now been 37 days since my last orgasm and i can honestly say that there is nothing i crave more than the opportunity to continue to pleasure Owner whilst i am kept denied myself (either in chastity or out). To be kept aroused and horny but frustrated and denied is to be very happy indeed!

Later in the day Owner and i headed into town and visited a fantastic bead and charm shop, called Beadworks, near Covent Garden for me to purchase some materials with which to start making some more jewellery. Owners plan is that i am eventually to make enough jewellery for me to open a little shop on Etsy. i have made Her a couple of small items (earrings and a bracelet) but i think i have quite a way to go before i am ready to open an emporium to the world! :)

Last, i also have to report that during our recent visit to Edinburgh i again broke one of the rules i should always adhere to, specifically i ordered an alcoholic drink without having Owners permission to do so. This is the second time i have broken this rule - something we both know is completely unacceptable. Owner should expect Her wife to be behaving as She ought to be at all times and to only drink alcohol if and when Owner has permitted it.

Owner was justifiably upset and demanded that i show Her that i was committed to changing my ways and to ensuring that i never break this rule in future. Specifically, She stipulated that i provide Her with a written commitment that showed contrite i was and which showed that i was serious about never again breaking this rule (you may recall i also broke it back in July when we visited my fathers). To prove to Owner how serious i was i tried to think of something that i considered would be a severe punishment, something that i would really hate to have to do and which would demonstrate my determination to never let it happen again. i am pleased to say that the suggestion was accepted by Owner. Therefore, if i ever have another alcoholic drink again in my life without Her having first granted explicit permission to do so i will not be permitted to wear makeup or a skirt for a period of three months as punishment. A second offence will double the duration of this punishment, a third triple it and so forth. i sincerely hope my lesson has been learnt and that Owner never has cause to enforce such punishments in future.
Owner and i have had a busy few days. We have just returned from a wonderful short trip to Edinburgh. We stayed at a fantastic luxury B&B called Number 29 which really is stunning and which we would both thoroughly recommend to anyone visiting. We re-visited (we've both been to Edinburgh in the past - but never together) many of the cities sights and Owner also used the opportunity of the stunning interior of our bedroom at the B&B to do a quick photoshoot. Here are a few photos from our trip. First, me in my little tartan dress in room;





 As you can see, the room was amazing! i so wish we had that bedroom at home.

And a couple of photos of the city itself;
View from Edinburgh Castle
Top of Calton Hill
View from Calton Hill
Water of Leith

Meanwhile, before we went away not being in chastity for the past few days also enabled more clamps to be attached to my clitty when cleaning. i sported builders clamps AND weighted table cloth clamps - 16 clamps in total, whilst cleaning and dusting our bedroom. Believe you me they make their presence felt as all contain little plastic teeth at the 'clamp' end which dig into flesh.

12 x builders clamps + 4 x weighted table cloth clamps in situ
grin and bear it!
However, i understand that wearing such clamps at least once a week is good for developing my pain tolerance and i am grateful for Owner for allowing me such opportunities to wear them as i dust and clean. Hopefully, i will be able to continue to demonstrate improved pain tolerance with practice. Currently i wear such clamps when cleaning/dusting one of the rooms on my weekly cleaning rota.

Depending on the day of the week and, consequently, the room being cleaned this could take between 10 -30 minutes. It took about 15 minutes to clean the bedroom and my clitty certainly knew it had been clamped hard by the time i had finished! i hope over time to be able to increase the severity and intensity of the clamping and to be able to handle a clitty spanking/paddling from Owner at the same time.
After recent weekends which have been spent travelling or dealing with work being done on our flat is was wonderful to have a weekend with Owner of just doing as much or as little as we wanted and just enjoying each others company.

Saturday morning started in fine style with Owner inviting me back to bed after breakfast where She proceeded to caress me, pull and twist my nipple and spank my clitty before applying Her vibrator to Her sex and having me lick and prove Her arse as She brought Herself to a happy and shuddering orgasm. i was in heaven as She toyed with and spanked my clitty hard (i have been out of chastity since our trip to Copenhagen) and rubbed Herself against my swollen clitty but left me deliciously and deliriously denied. As we snuggled i begged Her to be left in this state of denial until at least Christmas. Of course, the decision as to whether or no i will be prevented from or permitted to orgasm is Hers and Hers alone but i have to confess to adoring the feeling of  frustrated arousal. i love watching and listening to Her cum, playing my part in bringing Her pleasure and satisfaction, being told to lick Her arse (one of my all time favourite acts to perform) whilst all the while aching and throbbing but being kept denied myself. To me sex really doesn't get any better than that.

Anyway, where was i? Oh yes, the rest of Saturday was spent with me catching-up on some overdue tasks about the flat, doing a further edit to a short story i submitted for publication via Lulu.com (apparently a fully naked cover image isn't appropriate :) for an 'adult' short-story) and then watching TV together in the evening.

Sunday started equally brightly. As i was washing up from breakfast Owner grabbed the paddle that hangs near to the sink for just this reason and began to paddle my naked buttocks as i cleaned and scrubbed the dishes. Owner then reached underneath me o start paddling my exposed 'bits'. This evoked happy muffled groans and grunts of delight from your s truly (i always wear a ball gag when washing up - hence the muffled sounds). i spread my thighs as wide as i could  as Owner paddled my testes hard before hanging the paddle back on its hook next to the sink and leaving me to dry and put away the dishes and enjoy the hot throbbing between my legs.

Next i cleaned and dusted the lounge, albeit this time i did so with my clitty adorned with builders clamps and weighted table cloth weights. By the time i had finished and the clamps were removed my clitty had acquired a bright shade of hot pink and was marked by a series of 'teeth' imprints from the serrated plastic clamps. Combined with the earlier paddling ensured that my clitty remained wonderfully 'hot flushed' and sensitive for the rest of the day.

The afternoon saw us both walking to Greenwich where we looked (unsuccessfully) to try and find some beads and other charms etc for me to turn into jewellery. i have ordered a load of basics from Etsy and now need to start producing some actual items with a view to potentially opening a shop on Etsy to sell them through. Then we headed to the cinema where Owner had bought tickets for us to watch a thoroughly enjoyable Danish noir thriller called 'The Keeper of Lost Causes'. Being a trip to the cinema mean that, of course, i was expected to change into a skirt to watch the movie. Here's a picture of me waiting for us to be able to go into the screening

not the prettiest of legs and not sure the socks and flats were a good idea
and inside waiting for the movie to start - and yes a few more people did arrive before the film started!
After the movie ended i headed back to the toilets to get changed back into jeans for the journey home. Unusually, all the cubicles in the gent were bust so i had to wait for a while until one become free, all the time getting some curious looks from guys at the urinals!

When Owner and i got home the remainder of the evening was spent with me doing some more cleaning whilst Owner listed to the football on the internet and then i did some Spanish studies before we both retired to bed.

It really was a very enjoyable and relaxed weekend

i meant to include this in my last post but completely forgot. However, the photo below is of an upside-down 100 Danish Kroner note. Owner and i couldn't help but notice the remarkable similarity of the image on the note to something else...can anyone guess what? :)


Owner and i had a wonderful bank holiday weekend break in Copenhagen and Malmö. Both are wonderful cities which are very easy to explore on-foot and, being only a 30 minute train ride apart are both easy to visit when staying in either one or the other (Copenhagen airport is equidistant between the two by train). Both cities have some beautiful old and modern architecture and fantastic waterfronts and canals, Malmö even has a beach. We spent most of the time walking around or pausing in cafes, restaurants and bars for some refreshments - i particularly enjoyed the danish pastries! We both love Scandinavia anyway but this was our first visit two these two particular cities, i suspect we will be going back. Anyway, here are a few pictures from our weekend;

Copenhagen

Copenhagen

Malmö

Malmö beach

Copenhagen

Copenhagen  
And the following are some pictures of me out and about in both cities

Windy day on the beach at Malmö

Permitted to have a beer
There was one amusing incident at the end of our holiday. Our plane had landed back at Heathrow and all the passengers were getting up and removing the luggage from the overhead lockers when a little girl who had been sitting in a seat in the opposite aisle stared long and hard at me and then enquired 'Are you a boy or a girl?'. On hearing her daughter's question her mum turned scarlet and quickly told her daughter to be quiet which was a shame as it was a reasonable question. However, it did make my day and made me smile, especially as it was the end of a long day and i was certainly not looking my best!

Meanwhile, back to my training and development. Things seem to now be back on course and now that the works to our flat have been completed Owner seems to be happier with how i am progressing and is pleased to see me enrol on additional courses, including registering to sit a formal Spanish exam later this year. Owner has also identified a potentially useful new tool to help with my development and Her monitoring of my progress. The new tool is called Trello and is an on-line tool that enables people to set and view and share tasks between themselves and monitor the progress being made. i currently fill in and complete a series of spreadsheets for Owner where i record my daily activities and progress in completing tasks She has set for me. Owner reviews these regularly. However, Trello offers the opportunity to develop a live on-line tracker which Owner can dip into and out of at Her leisure, set tasks etc when She chooses. She has indicated that if i am successful at completing this stage of my development She will move to using Trello for he next stage so we will hopefully have an opportunity to test out how useful a tool it is.

Last, and i know this seems incredibly narcissistic and probably is but i just wanted to update on how i am getting on with developing my butt. As i reported a while back i began an exercise regime designed to try and develop and enhance my glutes to give me a shapelier and more rounded butt. i did a lot of research on Youtube to identify some routines to do and since then have progressively incorporated weights into my exercises. All of my exercise is done at home rather than at a gymn but i have become quite religious about ensuring i complete them. In addition to my daily 10 minute stretches routine i now do between an hour and an hour and a half of focused glute work using  ankle weight and dumbbells about 3 to 4 days a week. Using weights are important to help build muscle and add bulk, but whereas guys tend to focus their efforts on their upper body i have no interest in building that up, i just want o develop a bigger, more attractive and more fuckable butt.

Owner has expressed Her delight at my developing 'pillows' and i have really started to notice that my jeans are now tighter and snugger around my butt and that it has started to take on a more rounded and firmer shape. My ambition is to develop wider hips and a big, round, butt. Of course, ultimately your anatomy determines what shape you can/will develop so i will just have to see how mine develops but i am very happy with my progress so far. You can see how my butt currently looks in the photo below



Incidentally, i was thinking of maybe making a workout video, would anyone find that of interest?

This evening whilst dusting i did so wearing 4 vicious electricians/construction clamps attached to my chastised clitty. This is what the clamps look like;


And here i am with the four of them in situ

As part of my development and training to become a better wife i need to ensure that at least once a week i clean wearing clamps. These particular ones are spring loaded and certainly make their presence felt as you might be able to tell from the slightly forced grin i have in this photo taken once the dusting had been completed :).
With the exception of the weights suspended from my clitty (weighted table cloth clamps) and the fact that i am not in chastity this is pretty much what you would see if you were a fly on the wall in our flat of an evening or at the weekend.







i always wear a skirt or dress at home and Owners house rule for Her wife is that i should never wear knickers at home in the evening. The leather collar and cuffs are always in place at home (albeit normally removed when Owner takes a photo of me) and of course i always wear makeup these days. The apron is because i have been baking much of this afternoon (lemon drizzle bread and also a chard, olive and cheese bread). As for the weighted clamps? Well, there i also another rule that states that at least one time a week i am to be clamped whilst cleaning. This was me just before i started to clean the kitchen, an hour later and when i had finished and the smile would have looked a little more forced - those red balls are weights and the white clamps themselves have teeth to ensure they firmly grip a tablecloth - or in this instance my clitty bits. As for the lack of chastity? There are times when Owner likes me out of chastity, though on this occasion i have been advised that time will end tomorrow morning and i will be locked back up again.

So there you have it, this is what i look like most of the time at home.
This morning Owner sent me the following note confirming the extension of this phase of my current development through to the 3rd November (it expired on 3rd August). i am extremely grateful for being granted such an extension and you can tell from the letter what a wonderful, loving and caring Owner i have. The letter reads:


pet’s progress through Phase III of the Plin Plan Plon program was steady during the first month.  Unfortunately due to our holidays followed by refurbishment at home some activities/ development came to a halt.

pet has been very good at keeping up with some routines such as recording expenses, deep-throating practice, cinema challenges exercising... On the other hand he has not been able to cope with some others, for example: preparing for his Spanish exam or booking himself in beauty courses.  And pet once more had an alcoholic drink without permission – during the weekend we went to Devon to visit his dad.

pet could and should have done better.  However 

  • pet has been very helpful and very good at managing the refurbishment projects at home:  the loft and the lounge.  he was here all the time when the refurbishment took place and had to deal with builders and deliveries and be ready to improvise when things didn’t go as expected.  he was extremely patient and through the whole process continued to be the sweetest wife anyone could dream of.  This is a great example of what being the perfect housewife means.

  • pet has been of great support, again, when Owner wasn’t feeling particularly well after the holiday and when She became extremely busy with her new job.  Again a great example of being a good wife because he was supportive and understanding.

  • pet drank alcohol during the visit to Devon because it was his dad’s birthday.  pet didn’t want to disappoint his dad, he wanted to join in the celebration an Owner understands this.

For all these reasons, pet has been granted an extension in the current Plin Plan Plon phase.  Plin Plan Plon 3 is officially extended until the 3rd of November.  I hope pet will take advantage of this opportunity and make the most out of it by showing what he is capable of.

Owner wishes pet good luck in his endeavours and expects the highest scores in all areas of Plin Plan Plon.


i am a very lucky and happy pet indeed and am grateful to Owner for having been granted such an extension.

Meanwhile, yesterday Owner and i went out for the day along the Thames. It was quite a breezy (and bad hair) day as you can see from the photos below.



not sure what caused the stripes on this photo
Owner and i went for a wonderful walk along to the Thames Barrier before retiring for a couple of drinks and a bite to eat. Owner was very kind and generous and permitted me to have a couple of ciders.

As Owner refers to in Her letter i am afraid that a month ago i had a drink whilst we were visiting my fathers without having received Owners permission. This was in direct contravention to how i am expected to behave and i know i let both myself and my Owner down for doing this. Owner has been mulling some ideas for a suitable punishment. One idea that She is leaning towards genuinely terrifies me. i am scared, very scared, of heights. This coming weekend we are travelling to Copenhagen and staying near the Tivoli Garden funfare. In the guide book there is a photo of a ride designed, so it would seem, to scare the crap out of people by spinning you round in a flimsy seat high above the ground. i can only hope that Owner settles on a less horror inducing punishment than that!
As i alluded to in my last post the works being done in our flat had a negative impact upon my development over this summer. i have been on a development programme devised by Owner since becoming Her wife and i am currently on level three of that programme. That phase of the programme began back in April (when i was adjudged by Her to have successfully graduated from level 2) and ran until the start of this August - when i was expected to have either demonstrated how i had completed this next stage of my development or be judged to have been a failure. Progression onto level four of my development programme cannot occur until i have successfully completed level three and maintained the delivery of levels one and two.

Whilst i had maintained my core domestic activities and duties i knew that, in terms of some of the specific development goals i had been set for this phase - for example, completing a facial course (to compliment the massage, manicure etc courses i completed earlier in the year), extend my Spanish knowledge further and sit a course, and make some soft furnishings etc for the flat had all not happened. Some of that was down to the distraction of the work that took place in the flat over the summer, but not all. i would have to wait to see how Owner would react to this failure on my part.

Well Owner has been exceedingly generous and forgiving and has graciously extended the period of the current phase of my development until the start of November to allow me time to still catch-up and implement the training i should have completed over the summer. i am extremely grateful to Her for giving me this extra opportunity to prove myself and have already made good use of some of this extra time by registering for two new courses. At the start of October i will be undertaking a one day facial beauty course (which again is accredited and so could count towards a beauty qualification alongside the massage and manicure/pedicure courses i did earlier this year) and i have also registered for a introduction to embroidery series of evening workshops - again starting in October. This latter will compliment the knitting classes and knowledge i acquired earlier this year and is being run by the same local venue. i am really thrilled at the prospect of doing some new courses and extremely grateful to Owner for having given me an 'extension' to prove myself capable of delivering the learning and development expected of me under this third phase of Her 'Plin, Plan,Plon' development programme for me to become Her perfect wife.